Falling for someone you cant have

[Sllip]

Why don't you just let the oppurtunity pass by and then come over to the singles thread and bitch about it.

 

[candyflip]

:D :D

Yeah, while you're at it, destroy all ties to your family, get a few more habits you find impossible to kick and get onto some strong anti-depressant medication.

then you can live here..

 

[Jubas]

So here's the obvious statement that everyone who's not in this situation would say, and everyone who is in the situation would understand. You just gotta ask her.

I appreciate your honesty in saying that you realise that for someone in the particular situation, it is the last thing on their mind. (sense?) Asking would ultimately sort it out, but it means there's so much to lose! (glass is half empty) esp if something goes wrong!

Yo Jubas man, if you have any doubts about you and her working out, well then I say leave it.

Yeah dude thanks! But seriously, thats what i intend to do now i think. Just leave it, or see how it ends up working. I'll just have to be patient i guess

someone as fucken awesome as you should in NO WAY be depressed....fucken hell if I had even half of your personality dude I'd be fucken on top!

Dude, you are the greatest

Yeah, while you're at it, destroy all ties to your family, get a few more habits you find impossible to kick and get onto some strong anti-depressant medication.

Heh, well i'm working on the family ties thing, got quite a few habits that i can't kick, and going to see doctor for anti depressants in about 1/2 an hour! I can stay! wooooo!

 

[Void]

Its very simple. Be straight with her. Tell her you love spending time with her, and would like to be her bf. Just say how you feel and that once its over with her guy you would want to step in and date her. Say that you would have asked before but you lost her number. At least she will know what her options are. And if she turns you down, it will give you a reason to avoid her, which seems like something you have contemplated.