vanillacyanide
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Anyone have any cool reports on things that happened with your boyfriend/girlfriend while tripping? Did it strengthen your relationship? 
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Experiences on psychedelics with your significant other
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Psychedelics and relationships, we don't get that topic a lot :D
But we should, I think it's a great idea for a thread. Unfortunately I never had a relationship in which my psychedelic self was accepted and understood. The best for me was when I blasted off on DMT one time when my now-ex was sitting in the corner, anxiously.
Actually it was probably the most beautiful trip on DMT that I had, and I managed to peacefully meditate into the intricately folding patterns and visualise golden cosmic-sized gears made up out of light turning and churning. I sat in lotus position on the couch IIRC. But that may not have brought me further into the relationship, rather it only emphasized how different the things were that we were involved in.
She was no good for tripping, in retrospect a textbook borderliner case... so you can already see how we drifted apart after the initial smoking hot honeymoon phase...
Other girlfriends had even less actual 'contact' with psychedelia.
But we should, I think it's a great idea for a thread. Unfortunately I never had a relationship in which my psychedelic self was accepted and understood. The best for me was when I blasted off on DMT one time when my now-ex was sitting in the corner, anxiously.
Actually it was probably the most beautiful trip on DMT that I had, and I managed to peacefully meditate into the intricately folding patterns and visualise golden cosmic-sized gears made up out of light turning and churning. I sat in lotus position on the couch IIRC. But that may not have brought me further into the relationship, rather it only emphasized how different the things were that we were involved in.
She was no good for tripping, in retrospect a textbook borderliner case... so you can already see how we drifted apart after the initial smoking hot honeymoon phase...
Other girlfriends had even less actual 'contact' with psychedelia.
RobotRipping
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yeah tripped plenty of times with my girlfriend. Some amazing trips involved watching Baraka and the wall on 2c-e, totally blew her mind. Listening to some great psychedelic music like John Scofield and Radiohead. Watching Planet Earth and the Life series, and many other documentaries featuring animals, politics or whatever we found interesting. Also going for big walks on 2c-e, 2c-i and 5-meo-mipt were really fun. Also went for walks on EPH a few times and that was fun but totally different, more like 2 people just talking at an insane speed but there's still a connection.
She hasn't tripped in a while since 4-aco-dmt scared her off so i've been going solo for a while but it certainly can bring two people much closer together when they trip.
Usually i trip and she does methylone/some stim which is an odd mix as we are running at different speeds but it's still fun. You can't really trip with friends the same way you can with your SO, it's just so much more personal. In many ways i think it did strengthen our relationship by bringing problems to the forefront and dealing with them, not worrying about petty shit and being able to communicate better. Anyway, i recommend trying it.
She hasn't tripped in a while since 4-aco-dmt scared her off so i've been going solo for a while but it certainly can bring two people much closer together when they trip.
Usually i trip and she does methylone/some stim which is an odd mix as we are running at different speeds but it's still fun. You can't really trip with friends the same way you can with your SO, it's just so much more personal. In many ways i think it did strengthen our relationship by bringing problems to the forefront and dealing with them, not worrying about petty shit and being able to communicate better. Anyway, i recommend trying it.
Clocktower
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Oh yeah. I introduced my girlfriend to LSD, and we've tripped together about six times in the last year or two. Has it strengthened our relationship? Absolutely, every time!
The first time we tripped was when I was in college. We each took one tab, which I estimate to be about 100 ug. I felt pretty cool the whole time, about what you'd expect from that kind of dose, but she took it entirely differently. Before long we both had the giggles, and then she was laughing so hard she couldn't breathe, and unfortunately that spooked her. Instantly she went from laughing to crying, uncontrollably, for what must have been an hour or so (and you know how long an hour is when you're on LSD!). It was pretty harrowing, but eventually she got over it and was able to enjoy the rest of the trip. We took a walk, looked at the ocean yadda yadda.
This and subsequent trips have made me realize something: my girlfriend loves LSD, but she has NO IDEA what she looks like when she's on it. All that crying was horrible for me, but after the fact she said "Well, I know I was crying, but I was having a good time!"
Second time was at a rave for New Year's Eve 2010-11. I went with a small group of myself, my girlfriend, and another couple. I took two tabs, (again, probably 200 ug) and I wanted to give her one but the girl INSISTED on taking two. Meantime, the other couple were taking MDMA(Though this was before bluelight, and I never saw it tested.), which I had tried before but wasn't terribly into at the time. Anyway, we all had fun for a few hours, dancing and hugging and whatnot, and my girlfriend was having a great time so I thought "Cool, guess she's more used to tripping now." Boy was I wrong!
I didn't really realize the magnitude of the situation until the rave ended- and she kept dancing. She ran around, gave some hugs and then ran up to a security guard and kissed him on the cheek! At that point the other three of us grabbed her and rushed back to the car, trying hard not to make it look like we were kidnapping her or something (bear in mind I was still tripping!). We got her into the back seat, but I wound up having to hold onto her legs because she was kicking and screaming all over the place (like, orgasmic screaming, not frightened screaming. Luckily.) That lasted for another hour or two, until she started to come down.
It turns out she'd gone into some kind of a waking dream state and was having a ++++ experience the whole time (or something like that.) She felt like she was flying through space to another world and was so happy that the other three of us were with her, etc.
To this day she's the only person I know who's had such a powerful trip, especially from such a low dose of LSD. The last few times we've tripped I've always dosed her in half-tab increments, trying to stay between 50 and 150 ug. It still seems like whenever she goes over 100, she goes through an hour or so of dissociation and bawling at some point during the trip. 8) She doesn't seem to mind though.
I've highlighted the rougher parts of our experience, because I think they're the unique parts. Most of the time, when we're tripping, everything's awesome. We've been able to have some really productive conversations about our relationship while coming down. Not to mention the fact that she suffers from some anxiety/OCD issues, but both of us agree that, for her, taking LSD a few times has had a noticeable and positive effect on her mental health.
The first time we tripped was when I was in college. We each took one tab, which I estimate to be about 100 ug. I felt pretty cool the whole time, about what you'd expect from that kind of dose, but she took it entirely differently. Before long we both had the giggles, and then she was laughing so hard she couldn't breathe, and unfortunately that spooked her. Instantly she went from laughing to crying, uncontrollably, for what must have been an hour or so (and you know how long an hour is when you're on LSD!). It was pretty harrowing, but eventually she got over it and was able to enjoy the rest of the trip. We took a walk, looked at the ocean yadda yadda.
This and subsequent trips have made me realize something: my girlfriend loves LSD, but she has NO IDEA what she looks like when she's on it. All that crying was horrible for me, but after the fact she said "Well, I know I was crying, but I was having a good time!"
Second time was at a rave for New Year's Eve 2010-11. I went with a small group of myself, my girlfriend, and another couple. I took two tabs, (again, probably 200 ug) and I wanted to give her one but the girl INSISTED on taking two. Meantime, the other couple were taking MDMA(Though this was before bluelight, and I never saw it tested.), which I had tried before but wasn't terribly into at the time. Anyway, we all had fun for a few hours, dancing and hugging and whatnot, and my girlfriend was having a great time so I thought "Cool, guess she's more used to tripping now." Boy was I wrong!
I didn't really realize the magnitude of the situation until the rave ended- and she kept dancing. She ran around, gave some hugs and then ran up to a security guard and kissed him on the cheek! At that point the other three of us grabbed her and rushed back to the car, trying hard not to make it look like we were kidnapping her or something (bear in mind I was still tripping!). We got her into the back seat, but I wound up having to hold onto her legs because she was kicking and screaming all over the place (like, orgasmic screaming, not frightened screaming. Luckily.) That lasted for another hour or two, until she started to come down.
It turns out she'd gone into some kind of a waking dream state and was having a ++++ experience the whole time (or something like that.) She felt like she was flying through space to another world and was so happy that the other three of us were with her, etc.
To this day she's the only person I know who's had such a powerful trip, especially from such a low dose of LSD. The last few times we've tripped I've always dosed her in half-tab increments, trying to stay between 50 and 150 ug. It still seems like whenever she goes over 100, she goes through an hour or so of dissociation and bawling at some point during the trip. 8) She doesn't seem to mind though.
I've highlighted the rougher parts of our experience, because I think they're the unique parts. Most of the time, when we're tripping, everything's awesome. We've been able to have some really productive conversations about our relationship while coming down. Not to mention the fact that she suffers from some anxiety/OCD issues, but both of us agree that, for her, taking LSD a few times has had a noticeable and positive effect on her mental health.
JarBag
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I can't say I've had any profound experiences with a significant other, but I have had enough profound experiences where I think I am with a significant other.
vanillacyanide
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Whoa thats crazy for just one tab... Sounds like a memorable experience though :D
Redbong
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My girl and I have tripped together probably a dozen times in the past 2 years. Mostly mushrooms, once on 5-meo-dipt, and once she took 4-aco-dmt while I was on 2c-e. I've taken countless trips without her partaking. She prefers alcohol. 
But she doesn't mind my dosing. She knows my psychedelic side really well. She's also smart enough to quiz me about substance, dose, and timing just in case anything should happen.
We've definitely grown closer while on drugs. I don't want to attribute it to the drugs though. We would've been just as close without them. I'm just glad I don't have to hide who I am. I feel bad for everyone who can't enjoy an open honest relationship.
I dated a girl about a decade ago that hated drugs. I started trying to hide my use, but found it too much work. Lies to cover lies. Then I forgot the lies, so I made up more. It hurt everyone involved. Told myself after that, that if I can't be me, then I shouldn't be with her.
I dunno where I'm going with this. Can't wait to hear more people's stories.
But she doesn't mind my dosing. She knows my psychedelic side really well. She's also smart enough to quiz me about substance, dose, and timing just in case anything should happen. We've definitely grown closer while on drugs. I don't want to attribute it to the drugs though. We would've been just as close without them. I'm just glad I don't have to hide who I am. I feel bad for everyone who can't enjoy an open honest relationship.
I dated a girl about a decade ago that hated drugs. I started trying to hide my use, but found it too much work. Lies to cover lies. Then I forgot the lies, so I made up more. It hurt everyone involved. Told myself after that, that if I can't be me, then I shouldn't be with her.
I dunno where I'm going with this. Can't wait to hear more people's stories.
Half-BaKeD
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I ate a handful of mushrooms one time and when I came back home I became emmerced in a conversation with my sister for several hour's (she was 7 at the time haha)
weadazoid
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Been with my wife for over 12 years. Done E and coke with her when we were in our mid 20's Now I am 37 she is 33 and we just 'discovered' 25iNBOMe
it has reintensified our relationship, even though we have 2 kids and we are very very responsible parents now ..... we can still have fun.
I tested the 25i first it had been years since we had done anything like this and legal loophole that made the RC OK peaked her interest.
the first time we tried it togeather sex just kind of happened.... it wasn't planned but it was fun.
last night we did it again, sex was planned so to speak and good god man.... and woman it was fun.
it has reintensified our relationship, even though we have 2 kids and we are very very responsible parents now ..... we can still have fun.
I tested the 25i first it had been years since we had done anything like this and legal loophole that made the RC OK peaked her interest.
the first time we tried it togeather sex just kind of happened.... it wasn't planned but it was fun.
last night we did it again, sex was planned so to speak and good god man.... and woman it was fun.
Synaesthesia242
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My girl and I didn't always do drugs. But MDMA brought us so much closer, it pretty much saved our relationship. Since then we've been taking stuff together, and lemme tell you, the SO makes for the best tripping partner ever. So much giggles and fun.
Saturday night we did 25C-NBOME together at a club. 2 hits each. Stuff was strong. When it came on we were both struggling with our co-ordination. There were like 3000 people at this party. Music blaring, it was a bit chaotic. When I lost her I got a bit panicky. Thought this was all a big mistake. She was happily skipping along randomly. But it got better and we had a good time in the end. But seriously, was a bit nuts for a while there. Seemed like the floor was made of jelly ...
Saturday night we did 25C-NBOME together at a club. 2 hits each. Stuff was strong. When it came on we were both struggling with our co-ordination. There were like 3000 people at this party. Music blaring, it was a bit chaotic. When I lost her I got a bit panicky. Thought this was all a big mistake. She was happily skipping along randomly. But it got better and we had a good time in the end. But seriously, was a bit nuts for a while there. Seemed like the floor was made of jelly ...