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ex husband getting married and can't help the feelings...

I'd feel relieved too. He isn't worth the time or day and now he is her problem. You should just talk through email and only about the child. I never talk to my ex about anything but our kid and only through text or email. My story is different though. He left me for his current wife. I remarried as well and have a much better husband. Looking back now, I don't think my ex is happy or will ever be truly happy. I find it sad.

I wouldn't bother telling the new wife what he does. He will just spin it to make you look like the crazy one.
 
A really snide part of me wants to say record yourself being intimate with him and send it to his wife before telling him in no uncertain terms to fuck right off.
 
Haha dude I know believe me I've thought about it too. Eventually she will find out and then it's her problem. Not just mine anymore
 
ihearthemoose said:
My idiot ex husband is getting married on new years. AS recent as 2 weeks ago he was sending me pics of his junk. I can't help but be sad and fucking pissed off because he keeps fucking with my head. We have a 5 year old together. I want him to stop fucking with my head.
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i would be pissed too, to ay the least. and getting married on new years? so stereotypical and sickening imo. why was he sending you pictures? if i were you, i would get the pictures he sent you and then send them to his new wife, making it perfectly clear that he sent them to you. but i can be spiteful at times and i have anger issues so i wouldn't advise taking my advice ;)

no one likes their head to get fucked with. trust me mine was fucked with for years. how is your child handling everything? does he still see him/her?

this jerk is not worth your time. he is doing it to piss you off most likely. do you have social media? if you do, do yourself a favor and do not look at his facebook/twitter/whatever profiles--- or his new spouses either. it is just going to hurt you more. block them if you have to, and stick to it! i had to do that with my ex because it hurt so much. it will hurt for a while, but every day it will get better. i was a fucking wreck when i broke up with my ex but things got better. you'll go through a range of emotions, and they're all perfectly normal. i wish i saw that when i was going through my break up and he was moving on, but hindsight is 20/20.

i know you're a strong person and that you're able to get through this, as hurtful and hard as it is.
 
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Thats really shitty of him to do to you...i hope you have the strength to get Through it and move on...you Definitely Deserve Better Than That. ...I wish you all the best and plz keep us posted on how things are going. ..
 
Right now it's quiet. I'll see him today as he picks up our son , he's just getting back from his honeymoon. I'm completely dreading seeing him
 
Sorry you are hurting. It is a horrible situation to be in. He needs to stop playing with your head like that. My ex did the same to me and I wasn't able to move on and make a new relationship while he was behaving like a scumbag. She can't be miss perfect for him otherwise he wouldn't feel the need to do this with you. She would kill him if she knew. Grr feeling angry on your behalf! What a pig :X
 
Find a picture of a really big dick. A pic that looks like it could be taken by someone, not a professional pic. Send it to your Ex and say "My new boyfriend". I bet he leaves you alone after that ;). Sorry, I couldn't resist posting that.


it's just wrong for him to be doing that and he's getting married? That's crap and proves he's not getting married because he's in love or anything real. At least you'll be able to raise your child to not be a pinhead like your Ex!
 
Is there any way you can drop your child off somewhere, say your parents or a close friend and have him pick up/drop off there, this way you don't have to see him?

I'm sorry, but I'd still send it all to his new bride. She deserves to know what a pig she married and who gives a shit if you come off as the crazy ex, you have all the proof of him initiating it all so how does that make you the crazy one. Sending it to his wife will send the message, loud and clear, that you want nothing to do with him. I honestly don't get people like this, he's moved on, why not just let it go and enjoy his new life and leave you to yours?
 
I don't know why he does this. It's emotional abuse and I can't take much more. I will be dropping my son off to him at my mom's work. Thing is.he only fucks with me over text, never to my face because he is a fucking pussy
 
Yup. Block his number, change your number, whatever it takes. I'd not even tell him that your son shares the phone, I'd tell him the truth, that he's a fuckwit and you're done with him. If he needs to contact you, there is always email, or through a third party.

What is it with these exes that can't let go?? it's borderline psychotic in my books :(
 
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