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loser69

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What do I do if my ex crush finds out that I said she had a big ass?? I mean, I told my friend that my ex-crush had a big ass. As he was retarded, he told some of my ex-crushes friend. She goes on to tell this to my ex-crush and their pompous fucked up group. What do I do???
 
Own up to it and apologize. Trust me, ALL women wish this of the men in their lives. Say, "I'm sorry I said that about you. It was dumb; I was an asshole. Do you forgive me?" She'll probably say yes, but if she says no, at least you apologized and did what you could. This works in my house 100% of the time. It's amazing what a simple "I'm sorry" can fix.
 
What if she and her group tell all the others I said something like this. Won't they think that I talk about a lot of them behind their backs like this?
 
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They might, but they wouldn't exactly be incorrect, would they? The best way for people to not say you talk about people behind their backs is to stop talking about people behind their backs. It doesn't matter what they think, really. What is their opinion going to do? Nothing. Just do your apology and you're done.
 
And I can't talk to my ex-crush directly. I will have to do it through the ex-crushes friend. What do I tell the friend?
 
If you can't talk to her directly just don't talk about it at all, even if her friends mentions something. But i would stop doing shit and saying nasty things about a person that you supposedly liked, which it doesn't sound like it from the things you call her.

Its gonna bite you in the ass if you don't stop talking about her then one day you finally gotta see her lol
 
im in the same boat mate, i said things abut my ex that i still in love in anger and tempory emotions that i didnt have the patience to let pass, now i regret it everyday as im just put the in the same category as her shit exes, ehich i never wanted, trust me you will regret it lol
 
BelovedFreak said:
Own up to it and apologize. Trust me, ALL women wish this of the men in their lives. Say, "I'm sorry I said that about you. It was dumb; I was an asshole. Do you forgive me?" She'll probably say yes, but if she says no, at least you apologized and did what you could. This works in my house 100% of the time. It's amazing what a simple "I'm sorry" can fix.
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^^^ do this. As a woman, when I'm insulted or given a back-handed compliment that's meant to be condescending, I find that when people are a big enough person to apologize to me, I'm almost always able to forgive them if I haven't already. Just be honest and kind to her.
 
Alright. Thanks guys!
But should I tell the friend of ex-crush to tell her that I am sorry or should I have to meet her in person?
 
In the grand scheme of things, this really isn't a big deal. You didn't say she was a mad cunt or something. Some people have big asses, it's just the truth. She'll get over it.
 
Dude, no offense, but be a fuckin' man and own up to it. No woman likes someone who is scared to apologize. It's not like being scared of spiders or snakes. If you can't apologize for your own shitty behavior, why would she waste one ounce of energy on you?
 
Actually she never wasted even a modicum of it. She just led me on and went to get fucked by some other scumbag.
 
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^^^ do this. As a woman, when I'm insulted or given a back-handed compliment that's meant to be condescending, I find that when people are a big enough person to apologize to me, I'm almost always able to forgive them if I haven't already. Just be honest and kind to her.
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BelovedFreak said:
Dude, no offense, but be a fuckin' man and own up to it. No woman likes someone who is scared to apologize. It's not like being scared of spiders or snakes. If you can't apologize for your own shitty behavior, why would she waste one ounce of energy on you?
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what does this have to do with being a woman? People in general like honesty and humility...
loser69 said:
What do I do if my ex crush finds out that I said she had a big ass?? I mean, I told my friend that my ex-crush had a big ass. As he was retarded, he told some of my ex-crushes friend. She goes on to tell this to my ex-crush and their pompous fucked up group. What do I do???
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Relax. Everybody makes mistakes, and the moral that you learned from this, could have been much harder experienced. Just chill unless it's brought upto you, and then apologize. Always feels better to get it off your chest.
 
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PM me with any questions you may have regarding this decision loser'

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