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EVEY's 'net meet.... the good, the weird v ya know 'tis 2015, right????

Eveleivibe

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Hah.... One bottle of alkies down, another on the way n yes peeops we need a thread of stories relating to Internet meet ups, version 2015!

So first let me begin.

First I met E, after two years of friendship. She was absolute gorgeous, previously was a gangster n collected katanas.... We met by deciding to go on holiday with my, then, first aspie ex, mate, T. Was ace. We met another time for the time and we've kept in touch since. She's a lovely person n was gorgeous.

Next I met CFF, he lived in Rochdale but I was having tattoo laser treatment in Bolton. He met me, we went to a mate's house because he had to pick up some DVDs (yea I took some risks back in the day but there were no kid to worry about, just me) Was exciting going on the training here, there and everywhere... We kept in touch a few years, he was a good mate. He was also ex number 2's arch enemy. He told me once that he had, had half a liver off his sister after being in coma for a while---that was IT.... you don't get half a bloody liver off someone, my ex always told me he was a fraud so I cut all ties....

I met my ex Sept 6, 2006 (I know the date because my Dad's Mam died on the 4thj).... met him with his wife and we were all friends, met him again a month later, naïve, and STUPID.... He tried it on with me I was scared sdid what he asked.... I fell for everyone and fell hard for him.... it was difficult being in love with someone who was married and I tried hard to surpress this. She left him the following as he screwed some Australian bird. Being in love with him and thinking I could naively change him, I went over there, stayed there, was his "rebound," had his kid and found out something that was very bad about him that now has him in jail...

Met Kris in Birmingham train state (like Manchester Piccadilly, that station was frightening but exciting)

Me ex met some woman on a site called "Plenty of Fish," with whom he cheated on me.... we become friends after all the secrets of his evil lies and manipulations came out. She still gives me loads of compliments on Facebook, to this day, which I find hard to take, and she still offers me to come n stay in the Midlands with Lilvibe but going back there would be way too pain and I just can't.... Maybe one I'll meet her and maybe somewhere but not right now....

The last person I met online, we'll call J, because she's been on all six banned forums with me---and is also on Bluelight. She'll reveal herself to you if she wants to but that's her choice. I met her last year with lilvibe in Manchester.... Was an ace day n I'm very glad I got to meet her. She had our quarrels for awhile but what friends don't right? She sent me a Christmas card this year, and I never sent one back and I was not really in the place mentally too, but next year...

Anyway - reason for this thread is two-fold. One is to have a laugh, hear about all your meet-ups, parties etc and two, to give warning, meeting people on the Internet may seem like a fantasy, it isn't.... It can be yes if you're careful and if you're lucky.... but there's a lot of dangerous people out there, manipulative, evil and dangerous people. I'm paying this price and I do NOT want anyone else to be so naïve and pay it also.....

There are actually lists online on how to protect yourself meeting strangers online... Google them.....

I've met women since my ex, it'll be a long time before I EVER meet any males again.....

Evey
 
This emails coming from Holloway?

re the liver...She spoon fed him liver whilst in a coma or it was a liver as in the organ? Could have been an innocent misunderstanding rather than deception or owt.


Nights
 
this is a pretty cool idea for a thread. i've only met one person off the internet, a lovely girl from liverpool who i was seeing for a month or two over a summer a few years ago. i shouldve been a lot nicer to her, but to her credit we do still talk now and then. not seen her in real life since she was in my town lookin at a uni 4 years ago. ive always found the anonymity of the internet fascinating, being in my early 20s im the generation who learnt to use windows 95 in primary school. ive had some very open chats with strangers on the internet that have proved extremely therapeutic. i fear this anonymous aspect of the web will be lost in the next decade or two, for better or worse
 
I've met so many amazing BL'ers. Some sadly that are no longer with us. Just one BL'er that stands out and he happens to be the one I've seen the most of and will be seeing the most of.

I do have an adopted brother and sister I met through BL and love them with all my heart. I'm a better person for knowing these people and having them in my life.
 
I've met so many amazing BL'ers. Some sadly that are no longer with us. Just one BL'er that stands out and he happens to be the one I've seen the most of and will be seeing the most of.

I do have an adopted brother and sister I met through BL and love them with all my heart. I'm a better person for knowing these people and having them in my life.

I'm sorry I never got to 'know' them, only ever talked with Knock. I've heard great things about them all by people especially EVAD etc. did you meet i. A party or was it like a small get together with some of them?
There's been a few BL meets since only small groups.

I've not met anyone off BL, n no offence to anyone But I don't plan on doing unless I've had a good friendship for at least a year or more. Then it'll be in a public place etc.

Evey
 
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Eveleivibe said:
I've not met anyone off BL, n no offence to anyone But I don't plan on doing it.....Then it'll be in a public place etc


oh no, thatd take all the fun out of it. gotta have that frisson of danger overarching all that intense sexual tension.. i mean, if youre into thrills n great sex, anyway


onlt ever talked with Knock

thats because he was a fuckin gem. the true, genuine nice guy of eadd. on top of that, incredibly - he was just about the most well-suited, hardworking.. fuck, almost perfect - moderator of any board anywhere, but especially one pertaining to substance abuse, reality-based h.r and being there - literally at times 24/7 - for folks in both extreme mindstates and situations as to be almost unfathomable, even now. any normal/sane/non-jealous person's wet-dream of admin, nevermind mod

place immediately, like overnight - went irreversibly downhill. and all the cool cats know it


missin ya, m. others i know even moreso. you r.i.p, buddy
 
oh no, thatd take all the fun out of it. gotta have that frisson of danger overarching all that intense sexual tension.. i mean, if youre into thrills n great sex, anyway




thats because he was a fuckin gem. the true, genuine nice guy of eadd. on top of that, incredibly - he was just about the most well-suited, hardworking.. fuck, almost perfect - moderator of any board anywhere, but especially one pertaining to substance abuse, reality-based h.r and being there - literally at times 24/7 - for folks in both extreme mindstates and situations as to be almost unfathomable, even now. any normal/sane/non-jealous person's wet-dream of admin, nevermind mod

place immediately, like overnight - went irreversibly downhill. and all the cool cats know it


missin ya, m. others i know even moreso. you r.i.p, buddy

For once I'm in agreement with you. Never thought that would happen lol.

Miss knock <3

That was the one good thing about being infracted. Reading his posts again.

Evey
 
Well Evey, you've showed me your true colors.

We won't be interacting with each other anytime soon, don't you worry.

Good Day.
 
I'm sorry I never got to 'know' them, only ever talked with Knock. I've heard great things about them all by people especially EVAD etc. did you meet i. A party or was it like a small get together with some of them?
There's been a few BL meets since only small groups.

I've not met anyone off BL, n no offence to anyone But I don't plan on doing unless I've had a good friendship for at least a year or more. Then it'll be in a public place etc.

Evey

Pretty much every BL'er I've ever met has been a house guest of mine and has stayed for at least a week at mine.

Mugz being one that is no longer with us but I will say no more on that particular subject as it still hurts very much to talk about. I love all my friends and to know that I am no longer able to tell them how much they mean to me is far too painful!

My dear Shambles however is my longest standing guest with more than a few visits. Some involving purchasing of Jalepeno pots and potterings around the city speaking of being the Patrick from Spongebob and chattering teeth and cackling like witches...

We still cackle like witches.......
 
I'm sorry for Mugz. I never knew him just read some of his posts when I decided to read since December 2012. I did say I was the EADD nutter, right?!

That's ace that you've met so many BLers n that they've stayed with you. I've a lot of respect for Shambles. Him n Allein (formally atm23) were the first two people I talked to when I joined here. They were BL crew at the time. But it's cause of those two that I decided to stick around EADD. The first month or so I never knew it existed then I found Effies post in TDS Bereavement thread n then came here (why I've included that I dunno (dog; muzzle off n all that malarky).

I've been told there were huge EADD parties. Brimz showed me a vid of one once when he met EVAD. Speaking of Brimz has anyone heard from him? I changed my number awhile back n lost contact. I know he's no longer coming to BL but if anyone is in touch can you please tell him that Evey is asking after him.

Evey
 
Mugz was indeed an amazing person to know. I miss him all the time. He was a dear friend of mine.

Shammy is very much a nice gent. Online and more so IRL. A nicer person in life I have yet to meet tbh! I am quite a lucky person just for knowing him. I'm glad he made you feel so welcome to stick about. He's good like that.

Don't worry about the muzzle bit..... I need one from time to time too. That's why Shambles calls me his bulldog. TBF that was a comment made before his time but it's an inside joke between he and I that we tend to snigger at regularly....
 
Met 2 guys and 1 girl id come to know as a group over quite a long period. One of the blokes was a bit strange and got quite jealous that i was getting on pretty well with the girl. He tried to push me over a fence outside fucking fifth ave. Im still in contact with 2 of them (guess which 2)

I used to be friends with a bloke who was slightly strange, he would trawl the internet looking to meet women before internet dating was a big thing. I think people were still doing fucking speed dating at the time. I had a bet with him as to who could sleep with 5 women off some website first, i met 5 before he met 1. Im still in contact with 1 of the girls, we ended up seeing each other for a little while. Im not in contact with the guy anymore, he was obsessed with being on the radio but thought playing wheatus - teenage dirtbag and darude - sandstorm was cutting edge selection then wondered why no one took him seriously.

I ended up seeing a married woman online who I'd known for a while, she told me they were finished (they werent finished) she left him at home looking after the kids while she met me in a hotel in london. It was quite obvious what shed been up to as soon as she got home after disappearing for a whole weekend so he took her phone, got my number and threatened to cut my bollocks off. He was some nutty coke dealing hardman that had previously been inside for GBH and various things. I still speak to her very occasionally, he is remarried and she is going to get married again in a few weeks.

Met some gamers that i had become friendly with at a tournament, only speak to one of them anymore. The others were pillocks.

Not really a meeting as such but i found out after registering here that someone who used to post loads but very rarely checks in anymore used to live directly opposite a girl i was seeing while at uni. Her house used to go over to parties at the BLers house, i've probably bumped into her in the street. Kind of a vague six degrees of separation thing.

I cant remember if there are any more at the moment. Good idea for a thread, it's been fun going over old memories even if no one else reads them :)
 
Awh I miss the danger of meeting people off the net. I took some risks in past. When i met cff he took me in a house for a few moments as he needed for DVD of a male friend of his. Really they could have been anyone or anything. Can't take those risks now I have lilvibe. Love travelling on trains, the freedom, tranquility n blissfullness of it all.

Evey
 
I used to meet Manics fans off the internet in my teens. The blokes always wrote awful poetry and the girls inevitably always cried.

I avoided participating in internet forums for years prior to Bluelight. I've met a few people here with varying results. The last two people I met, a few months back, were genuinely lovely people whom I thought I got on well with, and I hope liked me as much as I liked them, corny as that sounds.

I'm due to visit two BLers whom I've known and got on with for the best part of five years now. I'm extremely grateful for their kind invitation, and I really hope it happens and goes well

Never did internet dating. I think the way people represent themselves online can be a real turn-off. Plus I look far better in some bar than I do as a series of lists and whatnot. My best mate did it though , and he's getting married.
 
i'd love to meet up with some London bluelighters and have a little shin-dig :)

only other people I've met from the net are one nights stands from tinder, which was prettyy fun.
 
The last person I met online, we'll call J, because she's been on all six banned forums with me---and is also on Bluelight. She'll reveal herself to you if she wants to but that's her choice. I met her last year with lilvibe in Manchester.... Was an ace day n I'm very glad I got to meet her. She had our quarrels for awhile but what friends don't right? She sent me a Christmas card this year, and I never sent one back and I was not really in the place mentally too, but next year...

Is NightsEpiphany your friend?

I meet lots of internet strangers who stay in the spare room I rent out. There was one creepy American dude who put his hand on my knee. A cougar who wrote a short story about a woman fingering herself and a granny who asked me to post her knickers back but nothing too bad lol

I find meeting strangers very exciting. I would much rather do this than have a full time house mate. Mostly because I have more time to myself but also I couldn't be bothered really with that kind of relationship. Fleeting stranger encounters are much more stimulating and easier.

I'm single now and just discovered Grindr. Grindr is mental! Lots of fun with strangers lol. Got a taser pulled on me by a 21 year old in heels and an Ann Summers outfit at Halloween. No one got hurt, everyone just laughed. Have had two separate people ask me to shit on them.... they never showed up though :( haha

Meeting lots of strangers has only been a good thing for me tbh :)
 
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