For me, music is not about money, it's about sharing the love, so I don't think that anyone should ever want money for their music.
At the same time, I'm not so naive, and I understand we live in a capitalist society, and people need to pay the bills, etc... and furthermore, I am prepared to pay for music that I like because I know how much of their heart and soul a good musician pours into it, so much so, that I don't really 'have the music' until I have the sleevenotes, and a colorful cover, etc...
My music collection is quite large, I have countless CDs and records, so I don't feel in the least bit guilty when I resort to downloading to find the kind of music I can't find in any stores, especially live music.
I think most genuine music fans are happy to pay for their music, but I think the music industry should wake the fuck up and realise a few things:
1) Mass-marketed pop music is not 'music', and nobody should have to pay for it. There is no heart in pop music, it's merely a commodity, and they deserve to choke and fucking die for forcing it upon us. Personally, I don't listen to it, or download it, or even know about it for the most part, so it doesn't affect me in the slightest, but it really, really pisses me off that Metallica, or some fucken brainless American pop group can get all narky about people downloading their music when they can't even write anything worthwhile. Metallica were all good before they discovered the money, and now they suck satans cock.
2) Technology is only going to get more advanced, it's mp3's and the Internet today, who the hell knows what it could be tomorrow. You either adapt, or get run over by the machine, there's no point bitching and moaning about how people are abusing the technology, it's their's to abuse, and it's not like the music industry has the moral high ground or anything.
3) The Internet is an amazing tool for exposing great music to an international market. Use it, or stay home. If your music is really fantastic, people will find it, and eventually, you will be able to do great things with it. If your music is merely average, or worse, crap, suck a dick and make it better, and don't you dare fucken winge if someone steals it, cause they'll have forgotten about it by next week and you wouldn't have sold it anyway.