ER Doctor Lectured Me Instead Of Treating My OD-What can I do?

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Today something terrible happened to me. I overdosed on heroin, and my girlfriend found me (lips blue, not breathing, rigid body, and pale face) and woke me up and took me to the hospital, as I was barely able to stay conscious and ceased breathing when asleep.
After waiting in the hospital for an ungodly amount of time (while puking/uncontrollably passing out in the waiting room), I was finally able to see a doctor. However, when he entered the room, rather than asking me about the symptoms I had, he said "so you might've taken too much heroin" and proceeded to lecture to me about how it is impossible to only use heroin occasionally, that I was physically dependent upon it (despite me insisting otherwise). He kept repeating that narcotics are super addictive, adding inane facts like that human trafficking trade uses narcotics. During a lull in this, I informed him that I had come to the ER because my girlfriend found me unconscious, not breathing, and with blue lips, and each subsequent nod was accompanied by a cessation in breathing. He told us that we should have called an ambulance rather than driving to the hospital, because I could have died in the car and EMTs have nalaxone on hand. He then asked why I had come, because "people usually want something when they come to the hospital." I told him that I wanted nalaxone, to which he responded "We don't give nalaxone to people like you." He told me he could give me clonodine and anti-naseau pills instead for the withdrawls (that I repeatedly told him I didn't have).

Hours later, my breathing stops when I fall asleep, so I am forcing myself to stay awake despite being exhausted. My lips and fingers have blue tinges to them, and I have a hospital bill coming for absolutely fucking nothing. But mostly, I am angry that this doctor, who had his own agenda, was too busy trying to press his agenda upon me than actually treating my overdose symptoms. Is there any way to file a complaint against this man, or to somehow hold him responsible for not doing his job? This is in a public Emergency Room, by the way.
 
Kinda seems like your pointing the finger of "blame" in the wrong direction here.

If you feel they did not do thier job or did not act in an appropriate manner then you can file a complaint or a survey with the hospital.

I dont see how giving you a lecture about the dangers and addictive potential of opiates is unwarranted after you report to them looking for assistance with a OD from those drugs. Did they state or reinforce anything that was not undeniably true?

Kinda seems to me they gave some pretty strong and good advice?

Why would you stop breathing hours later due to a dose of heroin taken hours earlier?

Im not trying to yank your chain here, but it seems like you may consider looking at this from the Dr point of view as well.
 
No-the doctor straight up told me I was physically dependent upon it (despite me saying the contrary). He then asked me how often I used a month, to which I responded I didn't know, because I don't use heroin regularly. He then told me that that is a lie, and that there is no way to only use heroin occasionally, and began talking about the human sex trade using narcotics on their victims.
Later, when he began talking about addiction, I politely informed him that I am well-versed in the neurological mechanisms implicated in addiction, which seemed to catch him a bit off guard, and then he began to talk about my withdrawals again and taking Clonidine/anti-naseau medication.
As for my breathing-, even about an hour after leaving the ER, it woould gradually slow then cease as I would nod off. It was just like the first time that happened, when I stayed unconsciouss for a minute or two and my girlfriend found me with blue lips/rigid body/pale face, except I was awoken before hypoxia occurred everytime after that.

My frustration here is that the doctor didn't even bother to check my breathing when nodding off. He ignored my concerns, and gave me a bunch of information that I kept telling him didn't apply. I understand that he was trying to help, but iit doesn't change the fact that he didn't help, and was hugely unprofessional.

The finger of blame for the overdose is absolutely on me. My concern is that I wasn't treated properly/professionally-I was offered medications for my symptoms that would actually worsen my OD symptoms (clonidine is an opiate potentiator, not exactly something you want to take when you;ve already taken too much heroin).
 
Sure file a complaint. Most likely nothing will happen. And everyone fan go back to their lives. Doc was a dick you were stupid with the drugs it is what it is man. Life.
 
Glad you aint dead man, same goes for the rest of us that have overdosed on numerous drugs.

I to once overdosed after doing a shot of heroin, and the doctor was telling me that I was helping the war on terrorism. I told him to eat a dick and nicely asked for my script of suboxone.
 
I wouldn't have wanted anyone giving me a shot of naloxone unless I was flat-lining...

You're alive so big up to that.

I'm probably not telling you anything new but the ER can be a super busy place. It's where people go when they are dying. You OD'd but you regained consciousness, most people are out cold when brought to the ER. Some doc's don't want people coming back if they are not in need of immediate care. I think if that was his intention he succeeded. My last stay in an ER was for a fioricet and alcohol overdose, they were not too kind. However it was my dumb ass that ended up there. Anytime I wound up in the hospital I felt terrible as I knew I was taking up time.

Do find a suboxone doctor, hope everything works out for the best!
 
My brother is a doctor. He received his degree from Ukraine and practiced there for some years before coming to America.

He was an ER doctor in America for a while, and was amazed at the amount of people coming into the ER for pain compared to Ukraine..... "it's like Ukrainians are either immune to pain, or Americans are just pussies about theirs" I remember him saying.

Doctors get cynical after constantly seeing drug seekers in the ER. It's usually quite obvious who most of them are, but again, where do you draw the line to declare another person is not feeling pain when they are indeed saying they are? It's a gray area- and doctor's licenses are on the line unfortunately...

The doctor you had seems like a dick, he could have been a bit more compassionate- I think maybe a personal letter to the doctor himself, would do more good than anything else.... it will touch him to know that you took the time out of your life to even write him and readdress the subject, and can potentially change his views. Letters are also a good option in this kind of a situation, because the other person has to keep their mouth shut and take in everything without butting-in and retaliating.... totally engaging themselves in your side of the argument.
 
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