Ecstasy at home - how should I spend my time?

[NotDamaged]

Ok, here's the background. I've done ecstasy 3 times, once recently but the other 2 times were years ago. My partner has never done it so he wants the first time to be in a known environment, i.e. at home.

I can see the benefits of this - can choose your own music, it won't be too cold or too hot, nice toilets with toilet paper, water always on hand and food if you want it, sleep in your own bed afterwards. But, what would I do rolling at home? My only experience with ecstasy has been at festivals, so lots of loud music and loads of people. What can one do while rolling other than mingle and dance?

Of course we can still play music and dance if we feel like it. But what are other fun things to do while rolling? I would hate to feel like I was trapped or missing out somehow. Especially when coming up, I like to have something fairly active to do to keep my mind off the slightly unsettling physical sensations. So, ultimately I'm looking for people's ideas of fun things to do at home on ecstasy.

Also, last time I had a lot of nausea on day 2. Anything I can do to minimise that?

 

[warpaint]

you guys will probably get really chatty, so talk and open up with each other

also have sex?

 

[matt2012]

Umm....my blanket trick?

 

[BlueBull]

2 very fun things you can try (if you haven't done this already) they may seem strange at first but just have a little faith, I've been doing this for a long time

-hold your hands and wrists under ice cold water. If you haven't tried it yet trust me it is heavenly while rolling hard. Last time I did that I was on 240mg (so rolling like a madman) and I stayed in the bathroom for about an hour, standing at the sink with 2 friends like a bunch of idiots

-Get some vicks vapo rub (or a vicks inhaler though vapo rub works best) and a towel. Apply some vicks generously on an area on the towel about the size of your face (mouth+nose). Lay the towel over your head (sitting down head tilted back, trust me you're going to want to be sitting down for this one, you could fall) with the vicks where your mouth is (of course the side with the vicks on the outside) and pull the towel tight. Now inhale VERY long, VERY slow and VERY deep so you inhale the vicks through the towel. If you use the inhaler just cover 1 nostril and inhale through the other, the effect will be similar as with the vapo rub but less intense. I am not going to tell you what to expect with this one, but it is pure bliss Try it and I guarantee you're going to keep some vicks handy every time you roll at home, this is in my opinion the best feeling you can get while rolling, other than sex and the MDMA-feeling itself

Some more ideas:
-massaging
-smoke some menthol cigs
-smoke some weed if you both smoke (changes the high a bit, in my opinion amplifies it but to each his own...)
-talking
-discovering new music (genres even)
-sex


Also about the nausea. Did you eat beforehand? A lot of people do not eat the few hours before their roll to intensify the high. This works but it is A LOT more taxing for you stomach so if it is easily upset try to have some food in your stomach. Some people are always going to feel a bit of nausea, a few friends of mine are a lot more susceptible to this than for example I am but you can minimize it.

 

[One Thousand Words]

Stipulate a uniform of "underwear only" and you will find plenty to occupy your mind (and hands).

 

[samnslumberland]

I personally really enjoy being outside while rolling, so I would suggest laying in the grass at sunset/twilight and listening to chill tunes if you have a private yard while you come up. Once it gets dark, break out some colorful lights if you can get a hold of some and have some fun with them. Explore different music genres and maybe participate in a couple's shower and some bedroom activities?

 

[Exstazy]

mdma is perfect for chill times at home. Put on some good music if you got decent speakers, sit back and just relax. It will flow by itself once that mdma starts working

 

[Folley]

Stipulate a uniform of "underwear only" and you will find plenty to occupy your mind (and hands).

haha, yes. Basically what I did last time, was the best roll ever %)



just spread a bunch of soft blankets over a bed, put your subwoofer up next to the edge of the bed and spend the next 12 hours "rolling" around

 

[Diloadid]

Yeah so many possibilities. Just have fun. Nature love flows pretty harmoniously with synthetic empathy.

 

[NotDamaged]

Thanks for the suggestions all! Will keep these things in mind. Sex would seem to be the obvious answer since this is the first time I've been around an appropriate person - but I dunno if it might be a bit weird...

Re. nausea, I don't think this is related to eating/not eating just before rolling because it happens well after the effects wear off. The nausea kicked in on day 2 last time and if I'm not remembering wrongly that happened on at least one of the previous occasions as well. Based on my limited experience I feel fine (or good even) the day after but day 2 can be strange.

 

[questforstarfish]

Search through the forums, there are a number of threads about this topic!

a) Set up blankets and pillows everywhere to lay on. Light candles or put on soft lighting. Burn incense or other nice-smelling things. Put on nice music in the background...some prefer trance, some prefer soft jazz or classical. Open a window so it's cool and fresh in your place, if possible. Put water in the fridge so it's cool, fill ice trays. Supply gum, candy, and perhaps some fresh fruit like strawberries. Cover all your senses, think about what you'd like to taste/smell/see/touch/hear during the night.

b) Go to the dollar store, either before or during the roll, and collect lots of cool, brightly-colored tactile things to play with!

c) Play dominoes, surprisingly fun and easy while rolling!

d) Blanket rides...lay naked on the bed and have your partner cover you in a furry blanket, then slooooowwwlly pull the blanket down your body. Very relaxing and nice.

e) Paint.

f) Smoke.

g) Go for a walk around town! Stop at a store for smokes and Powerade and candy, stop at public playgrounds to play, or just wander around, talking with your friends.

h) Google "things to do on e at home" and try a bunch of things on the lists you find.

i) Play music if you play any instruments...sometimes it's too hard, but sometimes it is SO wonderful and makes you come up even harder!

j) Rub ice all over yourself, or give each other hand massages with lots of lotion on.

k) Stand in the door frame and push the backs of your hands against either side of the door, really hard for a minute, then step out. Your arms seem to float upwards, just like when you did this as a kid!

 

[tomdpimp]

Showers!

So great and great for bonding.

Watch some porn together also.

 

[homey]

Watch old porn and turn the volume off and make your funny sounds.

 

[DoftheG]

Any ideas with a mate? I don't fancy showering with him or banging him....

 

[augustaB]

For me porn is totally meaningless while rolling. Music is great. Transform your rolling room with coloured lights and stuff. Make it nice and warm. Have a comfortable cuddle area. Put everything you need out and within easy reach before you start the roll. Massage Oil! Sex toys. Poppers. Definitely get semi-naked. Glow sticks. Have some weed ready for the come down.