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Drugs or love?

i have found indescribable euphoria from both love and drugs. like some have said- when i hit the spot after a long opiate dry spell, crank some bass on a good song, omfg, the euphoria is just amazing. although, both you and someone you love losing your virginity together with amazing sex and then falling asleep cuddling is pretty fuckin intense and amazing too :)
 
like many other people have said
Drugs+love= untouchable in every sense.
one time i hit the spot on opiates and for literally a half hour i told my girl all the things i loved about her and how happy she made me, it was super poetic. and she cried with happiness.

best experience of my entire life hands down
 
I recant my original reply to this thread. Fuck love, I'll take drugs please!
 
love. unless its a deadly benzo withdrawal or something, but either way love is more exciting/amazing/fulfilling than any drug.

As for love not being sustainable, I dunno, "nothing lasts but nothing is lost"
And sometimes it IS sustainable, if you make it that way.
 
versd said:
true love is better than any drug

true heartbreak is worse than any withdrawal
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Yup. I dated a girl that i fell crazy ass head over heels would walk 50 miles to give her a hug don't give a flying fuck about anything else in the world in love with for FIVE MONTHS. I spent the next YEAR AND A HALF lamenting her going back to Texas.

When i started dating her i felt high 24/7 and lost all desire to take percocet (my DOC). When she left, the percocet was like the only thing that could console me =(

Come back Steph!!! Hehe, i'm pretty much over her now and have a great girl that loves me so i really can't complain.
 
Mysterier said:
which has less repercussions? i would say that it probably varies.

but i do think love is indeed the best feeling comparatively.
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WHy not just invent a drug or drug regiment that simulates love(not like mdma at all)? And then combine it with other drugs. Now that would be nice!
 
the whole concept of love is that there is another component of another reciprocating those feelings back towards you, someone who loves you as much as you love them. this is something that drugs will never replace. you may love opiates, or amphetamines or benzos, but they are just substances, not the real human companionship that we all instinctively crave, and who can return the same feelings towards us which we shower upon them.

perhaps thats the difference between love and drugs. love requires action and commitment from someone and something out of our own control, which makes it even more special if it lasts. rather than compared to an inanimate object which merely brings out the psychological and perhaps physiological responses in our brains and bodies (drugs).

perhaps why love wins this discussion is that a component of it is the risk involved with devoting yourself to another and having them return the same emotions in return, outside of your control. a sort of grace if you wanted to use that sort of terminology.
 
versd said:
perhaps thats the difference between love and drugs. love requires action and commitment from someone and something out of our own control, which makes it even more special if it lasts. rather than compared to an inanimate object which merely brings out the psychological and perhaps physiological responses in our brains and bodies (drugs).
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This.

When 90% of bluelighters tell you something is better than drugs, trust it. Drugs can take you great places and make you feel unstoppable. But love is such an undefinable feeling that can last a lifetime.
 
Love can't kill you - in fact, it can improve your longevity!
Drugs are initially more appealing to most because one gets something for nothing. One achieves, artificially, those grounds which would have appropriately presented themselves had the opportunity been given.

Love is pervasive, it's total. It's consistent and feels great all day long. Love is an achievement, not a high. Lust is a high; one must work tirelessly for love.

The rewards, however profound, necessitate work. But if you're turned off by putting tremendous effort into innate serenity, insight and companionship, getting high appears to be a viable alternative to most. It certainly has in my past, though I don't agree with it. I just know how it happens.
 
Reciprocated love fills your soul with a serene and joyful state of mind that always stays in the background throughout your day, even when the subject of your love is away. In difficult times, or in boring times, you can simply close your eyes, think about her or him, and reconnect with that bond and the passionate feelings and emotions you share. Drugs just make you high :-)

Neuro
 
di.ACE.tyl.rob said:
This.

When 90% of bluelighters tell you something is better than drugs, trust it. Drugs can take you great places and make you feel unstoppable. But love is such an undefinable feeling that can last a lifetime.
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Agreed, I'm suprised that the consesus is overwhelming towards love. Knowing how amazing i've felt during some of my experiences with drugs and hearing most of you vote for love inspires me to get a taste for this 'love'.
 
experience89 said:
Agreed, I'm suprised that the consesus is overwhelming towards love. Knowing how amazing i've felt during some of my experiences with drugs and hearing most of you vote for love inspires me to get a taste for this 'love'.
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Yes look for it, it's amazing. And cheap =D I have spent the night with my dealer yesterday, it was awesome.

Neuro
 
An odd question, but I'll play along. If I had to give up one forever it would be drugs, of course. The two have very different functions in life and experiencing romantic love is a bit more essential for deep happiness, I think. However, I've never come remotely close to the bliss of a psychedelic ecstatic experience during all my years in love. So in that sense, drugs can feel better... in the moment. I would never tell the people I've been in love with that, though. I feel a little guilty even writing it anonymously. True romantic love is supposed to be ultimate and sacred, and supporting the idea that a chemical experience could be greater than it in a substantial way borders on universal blasphemy.
 
My drug consumption has drastically dwindled since I have found something that I would consider real love. It is not my first relationship but in a sense it is my first relationship. I maybe smoke 7g of pot a year now and I take the occasional sedative (prescribed) and that is it. Love definitely is greater than drugs.
 
i think they can both be bad though. if you get addicted to something strong like heroin, and fall in love with a really good person, either way youre going to be craving them for a long time. and it will be equally painful to miss either
 
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