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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

Originally posted by SigmaSis03:
Funny because? You definitely don't have kids. Or maybe you think that your kids should be allowed to smoke pot.
UHHH! Its funny because someone actually has to write this down and put it on the internet. I hate people who try to tell other people how to raise their own kids. The author of this writing's son or daughter is probably a coke whore that would lick your asshole for one blast off the glass dick!
 
being a teenager who has indulged in moderate drug use, if a parent tells you not to do something or yells at you for it, it will not stop a kid. it is going to make the kid want to do it more and desire it because he's going against his parents wishes. same thing goes with underage drinking. half the fun of doing it is because your getting away with it. my parents know i drink, they certaintly can't tell you to stop and you're gonna do it. i think being informed and having respect for myself, i drink less (very little) as opposed to if i wasnt allowed to. now with marijuana, i dont know if getting grounded would help. you're gonna find that he's mad at you and will become less social with you and tell you less and less of what hes doing if he knows this is how you are going to treat him. it takes something terrible to happen to a friend or someone you know that got hurt or killed from drinking or doing drugs to realize what you're doing. these drug laws are bullshit, and the media, with their false information and embellishing of stupid things just makes it worse, and makes parents informed with wrong information. fuck that. that is all.
 
I lie through my teeth as they'd throw me out the house if they knew.
 
I think this topic has several variables that have to be questioned by the drug using individual regaring their parents. My parents came from a country where passing a joint to a minor landed you 30 yrs in Prizon in their day. This is party the reason that they don't mind if I drink or have prescription drugs, but anything "Illegal" is heavily frowned upon. They don't understand the propaganda from the truth. therfore I could never tell them the truth about drugs.
On the other hand a friend's parents didn't care if he did drugs. So he was honest with them.
 
I've told my family about the things I've done in the recent past... however, I'm a bit older than most of you so I have a completely different relationship with my parents.
 
I came clean with my folks a little over a year ago but it was because I orginially come from a very small town where everyone knows EVERYTHING about everyone else, some might know what I mean by that comment, it had gotten out I was doing stronger stuff than I actually was, Mainly I'm just a pot head and occasionally tripper if it ever comes around, and enjoy a good drink every now and then, when I got wind from a ol high school buddy that he heard I was a junkie now, and being from a small town I know how country folk can take stuff and add on twist around and other stuff so when I went to visit my mom for a week-end, I live two hours away but in same state, I sat her down and told her what I have done besides what she might think I have done, after explaining to her I drink but not a big deal cause I am 24 and an adult, that I smoke and occasionaly trip, she is a child of the 60's and was ok with it but didn't like the fact I was doing it, I feel better about it, I never do it around them or anything that is mainly out of respect, but to answer your question, there is a slew of reasons you would or wouldn't tell your parents that you do what you do, personally it has worked for me but I know for some it wouldn't
 
My parents know about the weed, alcohol, and tobacco, but not any of the other drugs, though I'm sure they suspect…
 
I tell them everything, have done so since I was 15..
I still live with them, they'd rather know what I'm doing and I'd rather tell them, they're very understanding because I have earnt their trust.. I feel safer with them knowing anyway, in case something happens. Telling them everything has caused me no problems whatsoever.
 
I tried the honesty policy, but it just meant they trusted me less and less and invaded my privacy increasingly. So, counter-productive in my case basically, we get along much better when I lie, which is very sad...
--- G.
 
I follow the idea that Honesty is the best policy. I never lie to my parents about taking drugs, however i do not freely voluteer information. My Dad is a tripper from way back, so he understands. He has also told me that if i ever need support to quit an addiction, that he will support me.
That's how parents should be - understanding, with enough respect of your right to decide for yourself what you do...
Pft... i never understood why parents would get confrontational about a drug habit. Surely if they're understanding then they're more likely to be helping you? :\
 
my paretns have alwasy been liberal and i'm a great person, they never really punished me but thats because i didnt do anyhtign real bad. I know people who are always grounded.. that can't possibley be good for the child.
So i think punishment doesnt work, but actually talking to them. Tell them that they're a good kid when they get A's, be honest and say you would be disapointed in them if they did drugs or you wish they would wait.
If i had kids i wouldnt want them to do drugs, but i cant help that so i would make them use safely.
 
My parents know everything, and whilst they don't particularly like it, they realise that I'm an adult and can do what I want.
 
My mum found a dexamphetimine pill on the floor on friday.
I calmed her and explained that it is is not as bad as an ecstacy pill.
That is pretty honest I think hehe
 
I am..
altough, sometimes they just hold on to their (what i see as) prejudices.
 
Number one rule with my mom: don't ask, don't tell.
Ignorance is bliss; my mom knows that she's better off not knowing what I'm doing when she's not around. I think she learned her lesson with my older siblings.
 
I wouldn't necessarily call it lying, it's just that my parents never asked me if I've done drugs. The topic never came up, until my mom found my weed grinder under my bed. Then I was honest with her and I told her that I like smoking pot and I wasn't going to lie to her and tell her that I was going to stop. I don't think she appreciated my honesty. She hasn't brought it up since, but I guess there's not much she can do about it.
 
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