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Vampboy23

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Hi, guys! I am a 23 year old university student and this is my first ever thread on this forum.
I used to abuse MDMA severely last year or so, but I managed to pull everything back together and overcame all the depression and anxiety associated with it.
I am going out in a few days with this girl I really like and although I am not using MDMA again, I purchased a few capsules of 4-FMP pills which are a less stronger but more safer alternative to MDMA.

I am really nervous and fearful about this date, do you guys think I could take a 100mg of the capsule and go on the date just so I can be calm, confident and cool?
please note I have been completely clean for months now, and I regularly exercise and follow a vegetarian diet.

I am really looking forward to hearing back from you guys!
 
Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Don't get high before a date, first impressions are huge.
 
Looks like I will have to choose between the two, but I think you're right, thelung, I can't rely on a drug to shape my personality during the date when I have my own to offer. :)
 
I dont date much anymore but when I did have a date with someone I was in to I usually had a couple of wines to soothe the nerves. Usually that would be enough help really.

I dont think Ive had whatever drug you have got but ecstacy makes me too touchy feely and can be off putting to someone who isnt on it themselves, especially if they dont know you are on it or why you are grinning from ear to ear and hugging the indoor plants.


Ive had some diazepam and a few beers to quall the anxiety and that does help.


Perhaps save the stash for a together thing if you hit it off and both keen?
 
Humm I wouldn't recommend a stimulant for the first date, specially if you're really nervous. If you must take something just drink some alcohol OR take a low dose of benzos like zephyr said (don't make it an habit though).
 
^Seconded. Also, if you are having anxiety, take an anxiolytic, such as Xanax, not an empathogen. Xanax would work much better for your needs.

Or even down a couple shots before you head out. You may come off as a little too "lovey" if you are rolling.
 
Smoke a blunt & snort a big line of crystal meth before you suit up for your big date. That's my advice.
 
Would'nt recommend that. In fact I've made a note to myself to never be intoxicated on drugs or raise the issue or past history usage if going on a date or meeting up with a woman. NEVER. Well that's my experience from past mistakes.

Then again I would'nt profess to be knowledgeable on this subject. Wish you the best dude.
 
theMerovingian said:
Would'nt recommend that. In fact I've made a note to myself to never be intoxicated on drugs or raise the issue or past history usage if going on a date or meeting up with a woman. NEVER. Well that's my experience from past mistakes.

Then again I would'nt profess to be knowledgeable on this subject. Wish you the best dude.
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I sense a story in there somewhere...
 
theMerovingian said:
Would'nt recommend that. In fact I've made a note to myself to never be intoxicated on drugs or raise the issue or past history usage if going on a date or meeting up with a woman. NEVER. Well that's my experience from past mistakes.

Then again I would'nt profess to be knowledgeable on this subject. Wish you the best dude.
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I've done this in the past but now I'm open about who I am. I tell them I like to get high, I'm a criminal (I'm not but I don't want them to be shocked if police show up) etc.

If you try to hide your drug use and she finds out she will get all into "I need to change him" mode, which is fine as long as you make no effort to change, if you do she will think you are a pussy and it's over.

There's no point in presenting a front as someone into good clean fun with women. At work, with business aquaintances, etc, yes absolutely do this.
 
Keif' Richards said:
Can this turn into a "times I got too fucked up and ruined a date" thread?
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I was honestly thinking the same thing. This scenario doesn't seem at all like a good idea. The most I ever did was take a shot or two (then of course brush my teeth and mouthwash afterwards) before going on a date to calm my nerves. Don't do it man.
 
I've nodded out on this girl while we were at the movie theater. And also, got up in the middle of the movie to go puke in a trash can lmao..... Wasn't a total asshole though, I told the guys working I just puked in their trash can, might wanna change it xD
 
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