Where would you like to live?
In a big city
What would be your dream house?
A spacious apartment
What's your dream job?
To make a living as a writer.
What's your dream vacation/getaway?
Ireland, Vancouver, or Las Vegas in the spring or summer.
If you could do anything what would it be?
To write and be well paid for doing what I love and promoting harm reduction/education to drug addicts, and to open my own small medical clinic and provide medical services to addicts needing services from unsafe/dirty IV use to those that can't afford to pay and offer free detox services. This is why I'd love to be rich, so I could afford to do what I love while providing helpful services to those that are in need of them.
How do you handle set backs to your dreams?
I try to keep a positive attitude, but in all honesty, while I've always worked for a living, career wise I've lacked this ambition that drives workaholics. I'm pretty lazy and impatient when it comes to career dreams, but in other areas tend to be more patient and less lazy. I tend to hold low paying jobs that I like rather than high paying ones that would render me no longer in the low income bracket. I do pray for guidance and ask The Source (God) for help when I'm really discouraged. I also write about what bothers me, that helps remove the negativity and enables me to laugh about whatever disappointments occur.
How important is it to share the same dreams as your partners?
It's important to have SOME things/dreams/goals in common or else the parties involved in a relationship tend to drift apart. Still, I admire and respect differences, as they sometimes tend to compliment one another. I've always tended to be more focused on writing or helping to educate others, or accept low paying jobs I love. My bf, on the other hand has the exact qualities I lack, being financially/career wise driven and successful, and while there is no way in the world I'd want his job or his life, I've always admired, appreciated, and respected his goals.
Tell us about some dreams & goals you recently realized.
To finish getting my shit together financially, and do the 2 dreaded things that require great effort, but would make life a lot easier once completed. In other words, stop avoiding certain things I hate being bothered with, and just somehow do them. Also, to learn how to utilize and discipline my mind enough to reprogram how I think when it comes to my weaknesses. This would enable me to live without the restrictions of financial difficulty, while retaining the creativity sober that seems to only come with chemical suggestion. I'm not a follower and not a leader by nature, but tend to find my path as I go along. While money is certainly important, I'm not willing to either work at a high paying job I hate or marry a rich man for his money. I'd rather be poor and happy rather than well off and have too much stress, little or no time to myself, or be in a marriage I don't want.
What is your ideal fantasy "date"?
Hooking up with a guy that arouses me intellectually, personality wise (most important) and completely hitting it off after an evening talking to him and being in his company. If he turns me on between the ears, physical attraction for me inevitably follows. Little romantic gestures, treating me like a lady outside the bedroom, yet attentive in the bedroom, and has a slow, sweet, sensual, and wild side.
What kind of relationship(s) do you want?
Affair, Discreet relationship, Activity pals, permanent part time friend/lover?
Where do you see yourself in a few years?
Good question. I'm a stickler for honesty, and I don't know. If I continue as I am, I'll be happy most of the time, as I am now, but still living with the restriction of too many bills, and a low paying job. On the other hand, if I finish fixing what I don't like about my life now, then I will be with fewer restrictions, have more freedom from more money, and be happy in all areas (for the most part) in life.