i had dreads and i sooo sooo loved them, cut them off on an acid come down because they were talking to me and cried for days over it (but thats a whole other story

) I miss them and i don't....I really learn alot about myself from having them

I had mine for a total of nine months.
When i got mine my hair was just past my shoulders and when i dreaded them up they shrunk to my chin (your hair will considerable get shorter after dreading) I started doing mine and was doing them over about 2 weeks until i realised i was useing the wrong method for my hair type and my friend said he would do them for me. It too him nine hours and he done them by pretty much knotting up pieces and rolling them in his hands.
They looked liked dreads but they looked kinda weird (like they weren't done by natural process ie over a ceratin long period of time)
Hard part about having dreads is that you have to be prepared by how society will treat you......it will change how other people look at you (especially the older generation and its usually negative because having dreads comes with generalisations) but its part of having dreads and you learn to live with it and get used to and learn about your strength at the same time
Another hard part about them is that for the first year (or even more maybe) they are so far from maintence free it's not funny...you have to wax them every few days while they are new to make sure they stay together. Keep them seperated all the time so they don't 'clump', wash them with special soap, dry them througholy (otherwise you will end up smelling like a wet towel) You do only need to wash them once or twice a week though because they generally don't actually get that dirty (although if you have an oily scalp you need to wash your scalp) and if your used to washing your hair daily you might get a dry flaky scalp if you wash them less regulary because of teh lack of ol your hair will produce.
Only way to remove them is to cut them off...once you have dreads thats kinda it
Dreads look good on anyone no matter what colour or gender etc. after seeing your pic i actually have to say that you would especially suit them...you have the face for it

They grow to suit your head and it's shape and they take on a life of their own as they are growing and your are emotionally developing (my belief anyway....comes from a rastafarian belief about being in tune with your spiritual side and having your hair connected to that....if your comfortable with who you are you will have heaps great looking ones

) and its how we are actually naturally supposed to look like (look at primitive and tribal days etc) before combs were invented
I recomend that you do them yourself and/or get friends to help you with them...they will look much nicer if they are donw over a long period of time and form their own way. I personally don't like the fake ones because well to be honest they just look plastic and yuck (sorry to those that have fake ones...just my opinion)
I like natural , messy , knatty dreads..thats what dreads are supposed to look like

They dont have to be completly ferral or dirty looking (that not what i mean) perfect ones are just borinmg is all. They have their own personality and hopefully will reflect yours too
Get em done! they are truley heaps fun to have (even with all the trouble and effort)
I'm thinking of getting braids put in. My friend got hers donw and she looks fantastic but i don't wanna copy

Although i said that to her and she said i should because i would get totally different coloured ones that she got and hers are starting to fall out already (which kinda puts me off because they are expensive) ok sorry rambling......i'm on lots of caffine bbbuuuuuuuuuuzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
i could talk about this topic all day too actually even though i dont have mine anymore hehehe
