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dog or girlfirend?

Tbph she sounds like a high maintenace bitch. A good GF would not be making you feel like shit after all you are trying to do to fix the situation. Dump her ass.
 
DamagedLemon said:
I actually lol'd at the title.
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I must admit I checked the thread thinking something way different to what was being talked about :D

Its a pretty random story - dogs normally bite 'once' out of a defense mechanism / reaction. I think your GF is keeping the full story from you !
 
Keep the dog, ditch the girl. I don't think I've EVER seen a dog that didn't end up in a situation where it bit someone - even the most calm dogs, etc. If you don't even know what happened it's no reason to put it down like some people are saying. If your dog is acting aggressive to everyone that's one thing, but it sounds like she just freaked him out or something. Doesn't mean she did it on purpose, obviously, but any dog can become violent if it feels truly threatened. But you know that, you have a dog.

It sounds like you already made up your mind, from the tone of your posts. That's the reason I'm saying ditch the girl. If you really don't want to then don't, but it sounds like you want out.
 
Corgis are short as hell. Was she 'sleeping' when this happened? Can the Corgi even get on the bed? It seems much more likely to me that it bit her because she got in its face directly which anybody who isn't a complete moron knows not to do. That said I wouldn't leave a partner merely because we fought over a dog. It sounds like this relationship needs to end regardless of which side you end up on. And yeah, it sucks that she probably will end up calling you ridiculous for 'choosing' the dog over her but you can only reason with someone for so long before it's completely broken.
 
Weigh it up, DOG vs GF
Both need feeding
Both require time + money
Both you can have sex with
Only one will lay down their life for you though!
 
Keep the dog and get a girlfriend that knows how to handle dogs.

The kind of bite your describing is really common. "Ever heard the saying let sleeping dogs lie." When a dog wakes up the first second is very instinctual. She probably leaned over the dog to give you a kiss or something, and the dog woke up and snapped. My dog has done this twice. I tell women that when the dog is asleep they need to put their hand on him before they lean in to kiss me good bye. My dog is a real sweet heart. His greatest desire is to cuddle, and he doesn't know a stranger, but if he's sleeping with one of us you have to be cautious.
 
Assuming that the story of the dog bite is true, I do have to chime in with my echoes of these particular sentiments: that dogs are both loyal and extremely intuitive.

Gril has not been doing right by you, in one way or another. She is just provoking you to break up with her because she's not upfront enough to break things off herself... passive aggressive behaviour IMO, which also puts her in good stead of playing victim once you do break up...

that said, I really don't wanna be you in this situation! :\
 
animals bite! my cat and dogs both bite during playtime. if youre horsing around with an animal u can get struck in the face. for example my cat likes to slap me in the face if he can, and those claws are sharp. are they evil? no theyre (say it with me) animals... youre supposed to be the smart one. my dog bites at my hands and fingers occasionally when i greet it and its jumping all over me. either your gf provoked the dog or was dumb enough to get in its face.


either way youre clearly searching for an exit so just take it.
 
silverman said:
i am getting to the point where I despise her. She used to be someone who I enjoyed being around. Now all she does is bitch and whine and cry and moan. I get so pissed and angry. she is so emotionally dependent and I find that I hate her for all of her weakness. every little bump and the road and she breaks in to hysterics. I am so angry right now I can't even type. she has no respect for the fact that I am trying to complete grad school and acts like her manufactured plight should be my greatest concern. I hate answering her phone calls because I am positive she will be tears about something. She defends her fragility by saying there is nothing wrong with being emotional.

........We just were in a fight. She just makes me so angry. I am usually pretty calm but she knows how to get under my skin. This is on the ropes. i need to get out of this relationship.

i just had to get all of this out of me. (deep breath)
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