Does the way you ingest a drug affect your horniness?

[fairnymph]

Yeah me neither, and I tend to take hot rails through the mouth, hold it for a beat or two and then exhale through the nose, which to me is much more pleasant than risking burning the inside of my nose and whatnot, and every bit as effective, in my opinion. The point is that you're able to atomize a larger amount at once by pulverizing it, torching a glass "nectar collector" until it's almost turning red and then breathing in a large resultant vapor from inhaling the pulverized meth through the heated tip, thus instantly vaporizing it and inhaling it at once.

That sucks it dampens your libido, but good it doesn't entirely disappear. I imagine there's some way around this limitation on reaching orgasm. Perhaps experiment with some aphrodisiac psychedelics?

That doesn’t sound pleasant either because meth is caustic on the mouth too. Is it really that different from IV or snorting or smoking?

I have tried a bunch of things and I have not had any luck at all in terms of being able to orgasm. But I can go off my opiates briefly and then I can orgasm really easily so it’s not that big deal. I also still really enjoy sex even if I don’t orgasm so win-win really.

 

[unodelacosa]

That doesn’t sound pleasant either because meth is caustic on the mouth too.

i generally vaporize meth from an oil burner attached to a small bubbler so it minimizes any acidity, and I stay hydrating and attempt to keep my mouth from getting dry and/or from having a low pH. Still have all of my teeth after two decades of using meth in moderation.

Is it really that different from IV or snorting or smoking?

Well yes, insofar as to say it takes in a lot more meth at one time. Mind you: I don't do this RoA very often, and any time I do, it's to be spent recreationally. It's not a productivity-enhancing kind of dose. The rush is pretty euphoric though, and it's good for enhancing erotic activity, TBH.

I have tried a bunch of things and I have not had any luck at all in terms of being able to orgasm. But I can go off my opiates briefly and then I can orgasm really easily so it’s not that big deal. I also still really enjoy sex even if I don’t orgasm so win-win really.

Maybe talk to your doctor and tell them that the opioids appear to be affecting your sex life, maybe see if there's not some different opioid you could try that is still effective at relieving pain but has fewer side effects on your limbic system? Just a thought. And that's very selfless and cool of you to feel that way, but you also deserve to have an orgasm if you're having sex, in my opinion. Toys don't help? I gotta tell ya, as a man, I'm a little jelly (not really) of the vast array of sex toys women have available to them. Guys have only a fraction of these, and it doesn't work the same way… but they seem really effective at what the do for women, that's for sure.

 

[fairnymph]

i generally vaporize meth from an oil burner attached to a small bubbler so it minimizes any acidity, and I stay hydrating and attempt to keep my mouth from getting dry and/or from having a low pH. Still have all of my teeth after two decades of using meth in moderation.

That’s smart, and I’m impressed you have all your teeth still! I don’t think I’ve seen a set up like yours so if you could link me to one or post a pic, I’d be curious to see that.

Well yes, insofar as to say it takes in a lot more meth at one time. Mind you: I don't do this RoA very often, and any time I do, it's to be spent recreationally. It's not a productivity-enhancing kind of dose. The rush is pretty euphoric though, and it's good for enhancing erotic activity, TBH.

That does sound pretty appealing. If you want to show me next time I’m in NYC, I’d give it a go. But I’m sure I wouldn’t be able to do it properly on my own. I’m so bad at multitasking.

Maybe talk to your doctor and tell them that the opioids appear to be affecting your sex life, maybe see if there's not some different opioid you could try that is still effective at relieving pain but has fewer side effects on your limbic system? Just a thought. And that's very selfless and cool of you to feel that way, but you also deserve to have an orgasm if you're having sex, in my opinion. Toys don't help? I gotta tell ya, as a man, I'm a little jelly (not really) of the vast array of sex toys women have available to them. Guys have only a fraction of these, and it doesn't work the same way… but they seem really effective at what the do for women, that's for sure.

I’ve tried everything, alas. There are very few opioids that I can tolerate. I’m not into toys. It’s not a matter of lack of stimulation either - it’s just a threshold that cannot be reached. Honestly, I’m quite sure that my not being able to orgasm affects my partner far more than it affects me. Men really like to make their partners orgasm. And I totally understand that because I wouldn’t be willing to have sex with a man who couldn’t orgasm. But I can just let myself go into withdrawal at a certain time each day and then I’m fine. And I don’t even mind early withdrawal so much. Though I hate the smell of withdrawal sweat - it’s very gross.

 

[unodelacosa]

That’s smart, and I’m impressed you have all your teeth still! I don’t think I’ve seen a set up like yours so if you could link me to one or post a pic, I’d be curious to see that.

Something like this works, but I prefer if the piece slides in on a ground glass joint. So the oil burner looks like this:

But then you want a bubbler like this:

Or this:

I often have to cobble these pieces together though and wind up buying something like this:

And then I just change out the bowl on it. Voila. Oil burner with some filtration and dental protection.

That does sound pretty appealing. If you want to show me next time I’m in NYC, I’d give it a go. But I’m sure I wouldn’t be able to do it properly on my own. I’m so bad at multitasking.

Message me and LMK when you'll be in town and as long as I'm around I'll meet up with you & kick it w/a fellow Bluelighter. That could be fun.

I’ve tried everything, alas. There are very few opioids that I can tolerate.

Same.

I’m not into toys. It’s not a matter of lack of stimulation either - it’s just a threshold that cannot be reached. Honestly, I’m quite sure that my not being able to orgasm affects my partner far more than it affects me. Men really like to make their partners orgasm. And I totally understand that because I wouldn’t be willing to have sex with a man who couldn’t orgasm.

I think in general, most people want to satisfy their partner as much as they want to be satisfied themselves. It's natural and contains within it the concept of reciprocity, which is a very important social function/lubricant. Pun possibly intended.

But I can just let myself go into withdrawal at a certain time each day and then I’m fine. And I don’t even mind early withdrawal so much. Though I hate the smell of withdrawal sweat - it’s very gross.

There are worse things in life, but I'm sorry that pain affects your life thusly nonetheless. Is there any potential long-term solution that might be better?

 

[fairnymph]

Oil burner with some filtration and dental protection.

But there’s no oil? I thought you meant a bong type device but that really threw me off!

Message me and LMK when you'll be in town and as long as I'm around I'll meet up with you & kick it w/a fellow Bluelighter. That could be fun.

Will do!

I think in general, most people want to satisfy their partner as much as they want to be satisfied themselves.

Yes, I agree but at the same time I think people need to be selfish because nothing is hotter than seeing your partner aroused. Being too focused on the other person and their pleasure can ironically undermine sex.

Is there any potential long-term solution that might be better?

Working towards it!

 

[unodelacosa]

But there’s no oil? I thought you meant a bong type device but that really threw me off!

So the typical "meth pipe", (aka: "glass dick", "pookie", etc.) is commonly also referred to as an "oil burner" in, say, a smoke shop / head shop or bodega so we can all avoid saying the word "meth" or indicating any intention to use the piece for something illegal which would then classify the piece as paraphernalia and potentially get both the customer and the vendor into legal trouble. Many shops have policies against words like this, "bong", and certain other somewhat arbitrary terms. However, "oil burner" is still ok to say and use and functions as a polite euphemism. It's stupid, but I can't lie: word selection matters, as all words are incantations.

Yes, I agree but at the same time I think people need to be selfish because nothing is hotter than seeing your partner aroused. Being too focused on the other person and their pleasure can ironically undermine sex.

Agreed, though I will point out that ultimately this becomes the same thing – their circles close and both people (or everyone involved) climax. In other words, these two concepts are not mutually exclusive. The idea is to get off while getting your partner(s) off in a perpetual circle of hotness

 

[garygroundwork]

Yeah I definately think I get hornier after eating and boofing meth more than snorting and smoking.