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Does semen retention really have benefits?

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I know this is really controversial and there’s a lot of pseudoscience involved. however, I have noticed some subtle benefits from long term Semen retention. The main one is more stable positive mood and slightly increased motivation. Interestingly, this motivation is not your typical itching to go type, it’s just that when I have to do something, it’s kind of easier to detach from all the distractions and just push through it.
The other main benefit is people saying I look better/more handsome. i’m not saying there’s a definite link, but very positive comments about my appearance tend to be made when I’ve been resisting masturbation and my sex drive is extremely high. of course, nobody knows what I’m doing in my private life,so when they comment on my appearance, I assume it’s an unbiased observation.
Finally, I just want to say that I would never do semen retention simply for health. it’s only for religious reasons because masturbation is prohibited in Islam and I’m not married so I have no outlet for my sexual desires.
 
Asking the real important questions here.

It doesn't have any benefits you can substantiate with scientific evidence.

Having said that, I stopped masturbating years ago (this obviously included pornography). My relationship with my significant other when it came to intimacy improved massively. It wasn't easy at first, and when I started taking Testosterone I 'lapsed' a few times but I've been able to make it work.

I think if you practice semen retention you are usually just doing nofap. And nofap usually means no porn. In my opinion, that's where the real benefit is.
 
Its hard because so much of it is anecdotal. A lot of the benefits you hear are from the "nofap" community which really doesnt have evidence to back their claims. But some of those people do report feeling better when they dont masturbate and that may very well be true for them. You can also just as easily find reports and data backing the benefits of masturbation on mood/health, including a reduction in your risk for prostate cancer.

I think context is important. Is masturbation interfering with your motivation to socialize, engage in productive hobbies, get work done, or pursue relationships? In these contexts I think the issue is it being a habitual activity interfering with your day to day life. As for the direct impact on your neurobiology, like I said theres really no hard evidence it has a detrimental effect.

At the end of the day I think your choice to abstain for whatever reasons you choose. But for actual semen retention I have yet to see any quantifiable evidence on the matter of its benefits.
 
Anecdotally, I have never experienced a relationship between my frequency/timing of masturbation, within reason, and energy levels, mood, or other-perceived attractiveness. While I was on chemotherapy, my desire to masturbate basically disappeared, and remained low for several months thereafter; this is probably a poor way to predict any effects of masturbation per se.

In some studies, those with the highest frequency of masturbation show increased psychological stress. These tend to be people jerking it more often than I ever do. There is a somewhat robust association between frequency of masturbation and time to orgasm, which may be desirable in some cases, but which also increases the risk of failure to reach orgasm. There is also a negative correlation between masturbation frequency and intercourse satisfaction, which may include both causal directions. Studies from less developed countries seem to be more likely to report negative effects of masturbation. Some studies suggest that feelings of guilt regarding masturbation behaviors are harmful. One study suggested that depression causes masturbation in at least some cases.

A few uncontrolled studies show small (5-10%) benefits of abstinence from pornography and masturbation on scores of depression and physical fatigue. It is difficult to placebo-control such studies. The baseline levels of pornography use reported in such studies are, to my eye, surprisingly high.
 
No, it has zero medical benefits, and any claims to the contrary are a load of claptrap. If you do not ejaculate for a long time, one of two things will happen, either you start getting wet dreams, or the body will simply reabsorb the sperm.

PS if anything it's the other way round. Some studies have suggested that regular ejaculation may reduce the lifetime risk of developing prostate and testicular cancer.
 
I know a guy who does this, and he swears it gave him more energy. I know he looked porn before starting his mantric exercises, not sure if he still does. Don't think so.

But he also developed a strange behavior. He's provocative and seems unbalanced. This can have other reasons, I guess. But he wasn't like that some 3 years ago, and that's about when he started with all that stuff (it's not just semen retention practices, but lifestyle changes, too)
 
Every day you wake up with a certain amount of energy, what you choose to do with that energy defines what you can achieve, or become
 
Every day you wake up with a certain amount of energy, what you choose to do with that energy defines what you can achieve, or become
So if you train all day you can master a skill but if you bash the bishop a lot you just become a wanker? ;) (missing Arnold from the forum, no disrespect if you reading mate)

EDIT - I've done numerous experiments with semen retention. Not on purpose (well once on purpose for 6 weeks before a meditation retreat aaages ago, there have just been periods in my life where I have felt totally non-sexual for a matter of weeks/months for variuos reasons. I definitely noticed some kind of extra focus-type energy during those times, but only in retrospect.
 
I know this is really controversial and there’s a lot of pseudoscience involved. however, I have noticed some subtle benefits from long term Semen retention. The main one is more stable positive mood and slightly increased motivation.
You won't get reassurance from the scientific community, or the average person who believes wholeheartedly in science, because science treats the subject from a purely mechanistic viewpoint. What matters is what it does for you, and you've done the experiment yourself.. which ironically is science.

Absolutely it has benefits. I've done it myself - twice I've done 6+ month streaks. At around the 6 month mark I began to notice quite a shift in my mental state, my mind became very calm indeed, and it made me aware of just how much the background turbulence of our minds obscures the light for lack of a better term. It's like our minds are like the surface of a pond, and ordinarily the surface is a bit choppy, but you can still just about make out the reflections on the surface, but when the water becomes completely still you can see the reflections with tremendous clarity and you can see the light source itself. You don't know what you're 'missing' if you've never experienced it - the ordinary turbulent state does not hinder ordinary functioning, obviously, but one can immediately see the implications of the state of clarity if one is practicing an inner discipline (which is why celibacy figures in just about all spiritual paths).

But, celibacy is a science. You only need look to the Catholic Church to see the negative results of what it can do when it is not treated with the respect it demands. The sexual force is one of our most potent energies, it drives so much of our psychology.

The trouble with the RC Church, and the 'no fap' movement, is they try to build a dam first without considering how that potential is to be harnessed (transmuted). They do not have the blueprints for the outlet and the power turbines to make use of all that stored up potential. The energy has to go somewhere, you have to have an outlet, or the water will destroy the dam eventually. On a physical level the body is not meant to function this way, which is where science is correct, especially if you are teasing yourself with sexual imagery and causing the prostate to activate without release.. which puts tremendous pressure on it and can be dangerous as you get older and the prostate becomes less flexible (prostatitis). Also, if your diet and rest of your health is poor, this can lead to stagnation and accumulation of toxins in the prostate fluid, which again can cause illness and possibly cancer.

You have to not put the cart before the horse. You need the outlet (transmutation) plans first. This doesn't need to even be a spiritual discipline, but any mental pursuit that requires concentration and demands mental energy will drive the system that naturally draws the energy upwards. The desire for sex will be naturally diminished, and this is quite a common experience.. when people are so focused on work etc that the desire for sex seems to dissipate.

What the 'no fap' people get wrong is they make a religion out of it, when it should be a science. For example, nowhere does anyone talk about tapering off. All breastfeeding women know that you can't just stop milk production abruptly, you have to wind the process down or you'll get caked ducts, and the same goes for men.. because it's about glands, and glands take time to adjust to frequency of use.

Personally, I find I'm happiest at about the 1-2 week mark between emissions. It's enough to keep the body happy, but also long enough between emissions to keep the mind less turbulent which means my mental pursuits become more efficient. I'm thinking about doing another long period of celibacy though because I want to get back into serious lucid dreaming and astral projection again, and that requires a bit of extra mental energy.
 
I can see how celibacy could be part of a spiritual practice, if you wished. And if it works to give you personally a healthier emotional state, then that's good. It wouldn't work for me, though.
As for porn, I do agree that it can cheapen the appreciation of sex and intimacy. I'm not general into it myself. It's kind of like eating junk food: fun once in awhile but you're going to be unhealthy if you indulge everyday
 
Its hard because so much of it is anecdotal. A lot of the benefits you hear are from the "nofap" community which really doesnt have evidence to back their claims. But some of those people do report feeling better when they dont masturbate and that may very well be true for them. You can also just as easily find reports and data backing the benefits of masturbation on mood/health, including a reduction in your risk for prostate cancer.

I think context is important. Is masturbation interfering with your motivation to socialize, engage in productive hobbies, get work done, or pursue relationships? In these contexts I think the issue is it being a habitual activity interfering with your day to day life. As for the direct impact on your neurobiology, like I said theres really no hard evidence it has a detrimental effect.

At the end of the day I think your choice to abstain for whatever reasons you choose. But for actual semen retention I have yet to see any quantifiable evidence on the matter of its benefits.


I agree with you. yes, in regards to my personal reasons it is purely religious because masturbation isn’t allowed in Islam. because I’m blind, I didn’t use pornography during masturbation. The thing is, I found that masturbation/sexual desire, stress and motivation to do other things seem to be connected. when I go through a period of chronic stress, The early days are characterised by an extreme urge to masturbate. if I managed to resist that, and I get the stressful work situation under control, I briefly go into some kind of laser focus mode where my mind starts flowing and I just want to get the task out the way whilst my brain is working well. towards the end of the stressful period, my sexual desire can drop severely which is a known effect of stress. that’s often with me to think that I will become the desire to masturbate but as soon as the stressor has gone, my desires return with a vengeance, starting out slowly and then building rapidly. but I’m not complaining, I’d much rather have a high libido than a low one.
 
when I go through a period of chronic stress, The early days are characterised by an extreme urge to masturbate. if I managed to resist that, and I get the stressful work situation under control, I briefly go into some kind of laser focus mode where my mind starts flowing and I just want to get the task out the way whilst my brain is working well.
It seems that masturbating helps you release tension. There are other ways to get things out of your system. Physical exercise, especially running or boxing or dancing are helpful (other suggest yoga, but I'm not so sure about that. You need something "explosive").

How I know?
Just a guess.
 
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