oxymoron310
Bluelighter
Here it is explained and what not:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aversion_therapy
Does this work, and has anyone here tried it? I've seen self-mutilators do it with rubber bands, but that doesn't make sense because they're already hurting themselves. But I wanted to know if it would work to make me think less about certain things that are making me extremely anxious. I am trying to avoid medications to solve my problems these days.
Would it be okay to use this method in treating depression (slap my wrist with a rubber band when I want to cry/am feeling sad)? I'm thinking no, simply because sadness is something everyone feels and it has to be let out some way. But maybe would this method help me control when I let my feelings out? I maybe could say to myself in my head "Now is not the time, I'll let it go later tonight." I am rather self-conscious and prefer to "suffer in silence", I don't like to show very much emotion publicly, because I know that I absolutely despise people who complain publicly about the "hell" they live in (These attention whoring inconsiderate ass holes actually say straight out "fuck my life! I'm living in hell!" Minutes later they'll be watching a movie, playing a game, laughing. And that's coming from one who has more expensive designer clothes than most adult woman).
My entire life I've been moved around from town to town, school to school, and I've never made any real friends other than the druggies I hang out with, Probably because you don't really have to stand out or be interesting... you've just gotta smoke weed, etc.. I've never had anyone to talk to and I've always suppressed my feelings as much as I can. Now I think that I've been making myself into an overly self-conscious, anxious person. I'll randomly get teary eyed in classes and I'll have to excuse myself to the bathroom where I'll literally gnaw on my index finger to the point where it bleeds, just so no one will hear me sobbing. I also don't want to take anti-depressants because I used to, and it actually had negative effects and I was hospitalized.
Please can someone answer me?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aversion_therapy
Does this work, and has anyone here tried it? I've seen self-mutilators do it with rubber bands, but that doesn't make sense because they're already hurting themselves. But I wanted to know if it would work to make me think less about certain things that are making me extremely anxious. I am trying to avoid medications to solve my problems these days.
Would it be okay to use this method in treating depression (slap my wrist with a rubber band when I want to cry/am feeling sad)? I'm thinking no, simply because sadness is something everyone feels and it has to be let out some way. But maybe would this method help me control when I let my feelings out? I maybe could say to myself in my head "Now is not the time, I'll let it go later tonight." I am rather self-conscious and prefer to "suffer in silence", I don't like to show very much emotion publicly, because I know that I absolutely despise people who complain publicly about the "hell" they live in (These attention whoring inconsiderate ass holes actually say straight out "fuck my life! I'm living in hell!" Minutes later they'll be watching a movie, playing a game, laughing. And that's coming from one who has more expensive designer clothes than most adult woman).
My entire life I've been moved around from town to town, school to school, and I've never made any real friends other than the druggies I hang out with, Probably because you don't really have to stand out or be interesting... you've just gotta smoke weed, etc.. I've never had anyone to talk to and I've always suppressed my feelings as much as I can. Now I think that I've been making myself into an overly self-conscious, anxious person. I'll randomly get teary eyed in classes and I'll have to excuse myself to the bathroom where I'll literally gnaw on my index finger to the point where it bleeds, just so no one will hear me sobbing. I also don't want to take anti-depressants because I used to, and it actually had negative effects and I was hospitalized.
Please can someone answer me?