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do you keep bluelight a secret from you significant other? and why

tackyspiral

tackyspiral

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lately i have been posting quite a bit on bluelight and i have found a lot of needed support
its a great outlet for me but i have been fiercely keeping bluelight and my bl membership a secret from my boyfriend
he is probly starting to get suspicious about what i am doing...
anybody else do this too and why?
 
Yeah, I do. I used to frequent BL all the time when I was in my drug phase, in the aftermath of it, and now -- to get relationship help when I'm feeling completely lost. It's a nice secret outlet that I rather she didn't know about!
 
When I had someone I was in a relationship with I did not but I didn't exactly tell them the site but I said enough about what I'd read or posted on there that they could have easily found the site.
 
Yeah, my bf knows I'm on here. I share funny posts with him. He goes on here too to read the drug info parts of the site but I don't think he has an account. He goes on another forum that he prefers. He thinks it's cool that I'm a mod too lol. We are both on our computers a lot so I don't know if he knows exactly how much time I spend on here, but does it matter? lol He could probably figure out who I am on here. I would never think of keeping it a secret.

Well I didn't tell him at first because it's just a forum, I mean I don't tell him every website I go onto lmao that would be kind of weird. But if we have a question, I'd be like "oh I'll go ask on BL!" and he was like "oh BL! I go on there sometimes too!" and I'm like "aha I'm a mod in SLR" and yeah that was cool.
Oh and we have a couple friends who sometimes talk about BL but I never say I'm a mod to them lol because I don't want them finding out my username :p lol.
 
No secret at all, my beloved has a username here on BL but has only posted once or twice. This place needs to be shared!! <3
 
My ex didn't know about it and as for the current guy - he knows I've done drugs so I suppose I could tell him but eh. If I did tell him I'd probably just say I check it out for info once in a while, not that I spend half my life on it haha. Also because I'm nowhere near ready for him to find out the extent to which I've done certain drugs.
 
congrats rangrz!
as for me keeping bl a secret... i dont think the bf would understand me posting some of the stuff i do online and alsoooo i post here and there about him.... plus my god some of my old posts from my junkie days make me cringe when i lookback i cant imagine what he would think
 
Nyah, between the army and physics for me, and med school/being a Dr for her, not to mention the effects on the quantity and quality of kinky sex, we're not planning on that.
 
It's a secret from him and everyone I know. Everyone knows I'm a drug user, but not everyone knows how deeply I have gone with it. There are things I can only say here and nowhere else. I don't want the different worlds mixing.
 
From my significant other?

That's an understatement. I keep my BL on the DL. My family, relatives, friends, and acquaintances don't know what I do.

The less I talk about drugs, the less attention I draw to the subject of drugs.

He can't surf the web anyway. He uses his notebook for reading downloaded books mostly. He tries to google stuff sometimes but has not got the patience to slow down and pay attention to what's going on.

If confronted, I would deny it was me and I would stick to my story.
 
I keep it to myself as I'm a big flirt. god forbid she see my inbox or find the nudie threads in the lounge... questions I don't care to answer
 
I was brought to BL by a SO :P
and no, never kept it hidden from anyone. I even browse the forum from the lab. I don't know if someone noticed the drug threads, but no one seemed to care.
Still, I would post anonymously should I ever need advice on delicate matters.
 
He knows I post on a drug forum he just doesn't know the name of it.

Congrats rangrz! :)
 
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