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Bluelighter
I never really knew what people thought about me as a raver, and I never really cared. But I never thought that someone could have such a distorted image as this...
While at a party last week, a newbie came up to me and (please note that I am very newbie-friendly, because when I started up last year everyone was really nice to me & I want to return the favor!!!) and asked me "which raver would be a good choice to sleep with to get into the rave scene?" I looked at her, and I thought, this girl is so confused!!!
Then she actually commented, "what more is there to a raver besides music, drugs and sex?"
Is that the image we present? I always thought that when I was kickin it on the floor that I just looked happy... and that I was having fun with the music. To be honest, before I started raving, I had a lot of sex. I had little self esteem and thought that I could up it that way. Now that I have real friends and am finally accepted... I see no reason to sleep with someone unless I really am committed & in love! (I know that everyone's opinions are different to that, but that's mine!!!)
Anyways, I feel very sorry for her, because she will one day realize what she lost... when she could have been making the best friends of her life, she was too busy trying to find an easy way into the rave scene.
I still don't care what people think of me with my beads & glowsticks... I just think that they should always remember to judge from the inside out.
I hope that this doesn't offend anyone... I just thought that I needed to share this!
While at a party last week, a newbie came up to me and (please note that I am very newbie-friendly, because when I started up last year everyone was really nice to me & I want to return the favor!!!) and asked me "which raver would be a good choice to sleep with to get into the rave scene?" I looked at her, and I thought, this girl is so confused!!!
Then she actually commented, "what more is there to a raver besides music, drugs and sex?"
Is that the image we present? I always thought that when I was kickin it on the floor that I just looked happy... and that I was having fun with the music. To be honest, before I started raving, I had a lot of sex. I had little self esteem and thought that I could up it that way. Now that I have real friends and am finally accepted... I see no reason to sleep with someone unless I really am committed & in love! (I know that everyone's opinions are different to that, but that's mine!!!)
Anyways, I feel very sorry for her, because she will one day realize what she lost... when she could have been making the best friends of her life, she was too busy trying to find an easy way into the rave scene.
I still don't care what people think of me with my beads & glowsticks... I just think that they should always remember to judge from the inside out.
I hope that this doesn't offend anyone... I just thought that I needed to share this!
