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Dilima: seeking soul mate, but cant relate spiritually unless they have tripped b4

But in the defense of psytrance, there would be a ton of people on psychedelics which is exactly what the op is after.

OP - just try and get yourself to events/festivals that psychedelic use would be a given. I'm sure you wouldn't have a problem meeting people there. The crowd at psytrance events are usually a friendly bunch
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I waited till I no longer wanted anyone and only wanted what was best for me... then I met him the next week:)
 
Chemical Samile said:
But in the defense of psytrance, there would be a ton of people on psychedelics which is exactly what the op is after.

OP - just try and get yourself to events/festivals that psychedelic use would be a given. I'm sure you wouldn't have a problem meeting people there. The crowd at psytrance events are usually a friendly bunch
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despite the rubbish music
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All of that really is good advice. I have been wanting to go to Burning Man for a while. lol
 
Psytrance events - as others have already said.

But it's really hard to know before you meet someone if they do psychedelics or not. This is something that takes trial and error. Meet people and see where it goes. If you meet someone interesting and open minded, even if they haven't tried psychedelics before, they may become interested in them.
 
i dont think i cant relate spiritually to someone who hasnt used psychedelics before
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is just a very shallow thing to say. I really hope I am wrong, and you are not another psychedelic-user which self-proclaims (i.e. "fictionally") to be enlightened (i.e. we-are-all-one, ego-death or ego-loss and all the rough stuff, ya know), but in reality their ego is just masturbating about its self-proclaimed (fictional) enlightenment.

Sorry, if this is mean to say, because I don't know you. But if you think most people are too closed-minded, you are very likely closed-minded yourself. I am not saying this to offend you, but I hope that by stating the obvious, you see that your attitude towards other human beings is wrong and needs to be changed, and not other human beings.
 
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I agree that actively "seeking" and "feeling" a soulfelt connection with someone without the same personal value system is a dillemma.

I'm still waiting ( with hand to ear ) for my life partner proper.

I suppose going to drug soaked events might be an option, but I personally don't think that is wise. Honestly, you have a better chance of stumbling across a fellow psychonaut that you can connect with right here @ www.bluelight.ru
 
I can relate to you on this topic as I feel similarly, but I don't limit myself to strictly these girls. Can always find someone open minded and trip with them for their first time. Sounds like how a lot of 12 step relationships start though which is the commonality of the couple sharing a similar drug history which is not a sturdy foundation. For me personally, if the girl has tripped then its a (+) in my book, but if they have not then it is not a (-). I'm a straight up junkie (in recovery now) and have dated straight-edge girls who knew of my using and still accepted me, and I've dated girls who used like me and were close-minded and was miserable (some people use psychedelics for "fun" and neglect it's "mind expanding" properties which was a big turn off to me. In my books psychedelics are different from "recreational drugs" such as cocaine, methamphetamine, opioids, etc in that there is usually "something more" to the experience than simply getting high).
 
Psyduck said:
Sorry, if this is mean to say, because I don't know you. But if you think most people are too closed-minded, you are very likely closed-minded yourself. I am not saying this to offend you, but I hope that by stating the obvious, you see that your attitude towards other human beings is wrong and needs to be changed, and not other human beings.
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+1

And besides, if you found a psychedelic head I bet you at first it would seem all dandy.. but then when they start going off on tangents all the time and you realize that actually what they experienced, whilst similar, is totally different to your own experiences you will begin to see why it was probably better to find someone who perhaps has had those experiences but no longer uses them. Psychedelics can be great perspective and value changers, but you don't want to be with someone who is still using them. Despite what they proclaim and what others say about them being non-toxic, healthy, "spiritual" tools, continual use leads to detachment from reality. And that means detachment from you too.
 
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