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Didn't think I was in love with her

Even if you're not in love with someone, being in a romantic relationship for any considerable amount of time will breed feelings. This is something I have myself only learned recently. You don't fully realize how much something means to you until it is gone.
 
if you want proper advice you'll need to give us more details otherwise the responses are not going to be of much use
 
Norf said:
Even if you're not in love with someone, being in a romantic relationship for any considerable amount of time will breed feelings. This is something I have myself only learned recently. You don't fully realize how much something means to you until it is gone.
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Yeah I guess this is it.

Was pretty intense sexually and then slowly tailed off, neither of us did anything about it. I want to work on it, she doesn't. Guess there's not much more it than that I suppose.
 
Sometimes it's more a matter of pride than of how you felt about the other person.
I say that in the nicest possible way - I know using the word pride here might sound like I'm blaming you for how you feel about it or whatever, but I don't mean it like that at all. Simply that sometimes it's really not much more complicated than our ego being vexed that someone doesn't want to be with us :\

Regardless, I hope you feel better soon <3
 
omen_owen mk2 said:
Yeah I guess this is it.

Was pretty intense sexually and then slowly tailed off, neither of us did anything about it. I want to work on it, she doesn't. Guess there's not much more it than that I suppose.
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if it can be summed up that easily you need to move on

i recently split from a relationship where sex was the very yummy glue holding the non fitting parts together. eventually it breaks down

the ego thing is true also people feed off each other and their ego's feed too. it causes lots of issues but in the end you can feed the ego at many a trough. so i wouldn't worry. yes its shit being on your own but its also good not having to pretend/lie to yourself
 
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