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Describe your love life:)

on life support, 12 years married. She left saying "You make me sad now"

3 years before she did I had some major depression and changed my habit a LOT. I went from sitting in front of a computer playing video games all night to going out to listen to music and help throw parties/events based around the style of music I love (DnB, Junglist 4 lyfe)

Got caught up in drugs, spent a year partying/high. Kept being told I'm a loser and a pathetic person now compared to the old me.

Now I just try to be friendly to girls ask them out get told I'm not dating material but a good friend. And go home sit alone and feel like shit.

Kinda sums it up at the moment.
 
I have been married to a handsome and sensitive man for almost 5 years who continues to make me want to be a better person. In the 7 years we have been together, we have had a great adventure thus so far. He makes the challenges that comes our way easier to deal with. There are few bad days in our lives. These are usually created by events beyond our control. I have a partnership. He is the icing on my cake.
 
I seem to have a love death, not a love life (just keeding =D). Got a girlfriend and it's sort of semi romantic (very cool sex-wise currently, but there are reasons for that). It's more a close friendship with mutual caring than a love life ATM.
 
QM-- no hard feelings; I totally get where you're coming from. For me though, it was more than my 18th year. It was my 11th to 29th year, and two years later I'm still working hard to get past it.

But that's off-topic. People relationships like PI's make me smile, and give me hope. :)
 
Non-existant now I got dumped after 3 years. The sad thing is one of the best parts of my last relationship was the sex. Even after 3 years where we spent each day together (at work, at home) we still had the wildest, craziest, passionate sex. Thou shall be missed thoroughly...
 
I'm 18 and have had sex twice. Both times in the past 2 weeks so I'm pretty content as of right now, especially since unless something goes terribly wrong it'll be happening again.
 
Wonderful! I have been with my love for 7 years now and happily married for just over a year. We fall more in love with each other as the weeks go by. :)
 
masturbation to porn, or cam sex.

I can't get fucked. I'm past the age of fuckability it seems.
 
Really convoluted at the moment.
I've been with this chick for 7 months, although we've been seeing each other for close to a year now. At first she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship, and she turned me down 3 times before deciding she was willing to go out with me (of course this was 2 days after we had sex for the first time). I'm really attached to her, but she has constant doubts about us and it's been starting to mess with my head. I've begun to have my own doubts, and my drinking has increased, which has caused me to be more of an ass-hole to her for trivial matters. It doesn't help that once a week she goes off with her best friend to another part of town where she used to go to hook up with guys. She only started doing this again recently, and its around this time my drinking increased.
I'm trying to get things back to how they were when we first started dating, we could lie in bed all day together and feel like there was nothing better. I really fell for her head over heels. The sex was constant and intimate, and and the times we spent together are some of the greatest moments of my (our?) life. I don't know if things will go back to how they were, but I'm hesitant to break things off as well, which I guess is in part because this is my first serious relationship. I'm just not digging where things are heading right now.
 
Tom if I may say so.. Don't hold on only because this is your first serious relationship. My first serious relationship went terribly as the gal was a total alcoholic and would cheat on me. She ended up breaking it off frivolously and begging for me back but I didn't play her games.. If you find out she's cheating it's not worth the hurt, you should really just end it and begin your "get over it process" as early as possible. Cheating girls are worthless skags.
 
...almost putty now.

This one is going to make a man out of me.

:)
 
not even thinking about it. it's great being a man: the longer you wait the more you have to choose from.
 
Butterflies, rainbows and grassy meadows :D

Been a long time coming.
 
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