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Deleting Me Off This and That

mikumiku said:
Him and I are not breaking up. We are going to work things out.
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It is commendable that you two are not just giving up when things get hard and sticking with it.

I forgot and don't feel like reading all of the posts. But how long have you two been dating?

I will say though both of you (and I mean no offense. And I will try to be respectful when saying this) but it seems both of you are trying to change each other while refusing to change yourself. And from all your questions and posts it seems that he's not very serious about the relationship. Like he's just keeping you around for when he wants or needs a gf.

About the mosh pit. He doesn't want to be a part of it. That's his choice and you shouldn't be trying to force him into going in there just to protect you. You're going in there knowing full well you might get hurt. That's on you.

I would however expect him to protect you if you two were walking down the street and you were attacked by a random stranger.

It's a give and take and making compromisses for each other while maintaining your own integrity. Just my 2 cents for what its worth.

There does come a point when its destructive to your own well being staying in a relationship that's not working.

There comes a point when it might be better to find someone more compatible. Someone that doesn't want you to change and someone that you don't want to change.
 
Well your wrong, he's dealing with a lot of stress right now, he loss someone in his family, he just started a new job, job training with it, and he doesn't have a lot of cash on hand to come and see me, and his friends live near by to him, so he can go see them, which he has been doing. He is dealing with a lot, I am trying my best to be there for him, but I just know I am not doing that great of a job. But I am trying because I do care and love him a lot. I know he cares and loves me a lot as well. I don't care or mind if I have to change. I am trying my best to do this for both of us. He's told me countless times that he knows he can leave if he wanted too but he doesn't. He knows I treat him like crap but he cares and loves me a lot. He wants us to work things out.
 
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