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Dating slightly nutty people

craziest thing i've ever had a girl do was expect me to quit smoking pot, stay in on weekends and be happy with sex twice a month. i'll take wild and weird any day over that kind of boring.

everybody's going to have ideas and behaviors that you think are crazy. the trick is finding the crazy you're compatible with. i mean i wouldn't rush into joint checking accounts or anything, but sometimes there's a lot of fun waiting right outside your comfort zone.
 
yeah but that's not crazy thats just normal.

crazy seems to get mixed up with "free thinking" or "not boring". crazy people should be avoided unless you enjoy being unhappy.
 
There was some ancient hobo who died about 15 years ago in Chicago or some place and his life wisdom came down to "Never play cards with a man called Doc, and never sleep with a woman whose problems are greater than your own".
 
well crazy women are "fun" for a while... Not really a good one to take home to mama, but "fun" none the less. Maybe one show look for women in places other than where the sterotypical "crazy`s" hang out. I`m not one to talk though, i met my girl on myspace and moved her half way acrossed the country! 3 years ago and all is good... ;)
 
I thought my partners were the crazy ones for the longest time, then I realized it was me who was the crazy one and it was just me rubbing off on them!
 
I love me some crazys, if fact I only ever even consider someone if they are a freak. I am not exactly normal myself though so that may be why :)
 
The type of crazy your talking about I kind of like. If the brand of crazy that you can't see at first that is really scary.
 
I'd say do what makes you happy... Short of procreation. I'd advise against bringing another possibly mentally I'll person into the world.
 
It doesn't sound like this girl is manipuative, unstable, destructive crazy. Too many psychedelics= eccentric. Maybe she talks to flowers, or likes walking in the rain at 2 am or has strange philosophies. That's not crazy, that's being interesting. Lighten up and give her a chance.
Although, one could also argue that it's mental illness, personal baggage, or trauma that causes a person to use drugs excessively. Which makes the 'omg run from the crazy' mentality prevalent on this forum ironic to say the least.
 
ChickenScratch said:
i'm pretty sure my ex wife is going to kill me at some point.
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Lol...

I know that feeling for sure, I've contemplated this thought quite a few times when my ex and I were still sharing living quarters and joint bank accounts. Thankfully this was many years ago and towards the end. We fought continuously back then, and she always knew how to push my buttons and force the argument "over the tipping point". I would always end up having to leave the house and take a drive but not before taking all firearms with me (back then it was about 8 total). I was always afraid as I was pulling in that she would shoot me in the garage or coming through door of the laundry room in the dark.


She would transform into an evil succubus whenever events would unfold opposite her wishes. She was shameless when it came to subject matter for an argument, nothing was off limits, sadly not even our son, which is the only true weapon she knew (and still uses) she could pull out as needed to obtain control and manipulate whatever situation. I'm thankful my son was too young to remember any of this, or has likely repressed it from his memory, as even an atttempt to recollect, will produce a lump in my throat and a tear to my eye. These experiences were nothing short of vile, so mentally and physically taxing, due to her monstrous ability to be void of emotion as a mother allowing her to use my son like a pawn or as collateral, that I've never even told one person fearing the embarrassment irreverence
and I will take them six feet under when I'm dead and gone.


I always thought of it as bullshit or either negative people getting one more reason to complain, but stress had my blood pressure through the roof, I had insomnia brought on from anxiety from the inability to allow myself to relax and be at complete ease and drift off to sleep. As a result my body and state of mind suffered terribly and made me a believer in stresses ability to kill. Even the attempt of looking back gives me shivers and makes my heart race. Not fun times at all...



The genius of James Maynard Keenans lyrics and vocals sum her more eloquently than I would ever be able...


Cold And Ugly


Underneath her skin and jewelry,
hidden in her words and eyes
is a wall that's cold and ugly
and she's scared as hell.
Trembling at the thought of feeling.
Wide awake and keeping distance.
Nothing seems to penetrate her.
She's scared as hell.

I am frightened to.

Wide awake
and keeping distance from my soul.
I am scared like you.

[ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/t/tool-lyrics/cold-and-ugly-lyrics.html]
 
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Eyes On the Roll said:
Gm777:
The thing is, I'm not very sexual. Although, I am gifted, I get quite disgusted when it comes to sex. I like teasing more. I'm not into the slutty type as you mentioned; the dancers. But, their personality definitely fits my criteria. To explain further, I love the aristocratic bitch that doesn't give a shit about anyone elses feelings. For example, take Kathryn Mertuil from Cruel Intentions for example. If you haven't seen it, then look her up. That is someone I can certainly relate to.
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Im completely with you, the description you gave of your ideal female personality and preference thereof was the whole reason that peaked my interest and held it enough to comment on your post because it hit home with me as stated. That was the whole reason that I even posted in this thread initially, before I was pulled off tangent and forced to defend myself as I am pro-stripper<3. LOL I repeat, I am pro stripper! ;) Also, I have definately seen Cruel Intentions and she is most definately 90s (my wheelhouse) sexy as goddamn hell.
 
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