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Dating a girl with a bad meth addiction.

Idk, this sounds pretty shady to me. He has her hooked with a chemical addiction and your attitude about "stealing his girl" somehow irks me. Calling him a pussy that can't pull a gun and shit.

I'd say wait for her to prove she's done with him and the drug (if she means it)
 
And actually OP your dealer is smart not to pull out his gun over a girl or being robbed. Odds are he would get screwed. You only pull a gun if your ready to pull the trigger and/or if your life/family life is in immediate life threatening danger.

From the way you talk about the dude not pullin the piece in Regarding the robbery/you taking his girl shows he is actually smart not to get himself in trouble with the law over a girl and some drugs. You on the other hand who from reading your post, act as if you'd pull a gun over some guy stealing your meth addict girl makes you look like an immature insecure, wanna be badass. When in all reality you look like a bitter stupid child.
 
If he cheated on her, and fucked her again.then ultimently you will be having sex with every girl he cheated on her with, and every guy they slept with, and so on.

Maybe its best to just keep her in the friend zone. Just look out for those calls/texts where she explains that 'he' put her hands on her. Hell the only time i've heard about guys putting their hands on a girl is when they were high on meth or drunk.
 
If someones addiction is out of control they will make you miserable and could get you hemmed up.

I would find someone else. Been there done that, never gave em money.
 
If she leaves him then who cares. there's no such thing as stealing someone... that's just some weird jealousy ego trip where one thinks they own another.

meth makes people crazy. my x used to do it all the time when we met, she did get help though but later one fell back into it. wasn't fun... it seems to end up in stealing, lying... it's kind of a trap.

i watch "hot" girls do it when we chill but they seem to have some serious mental issues... you can try it and it could work out. you'll probably just end up learning something about yourself and say fuck this noise. "love" whatever that may be is generally a positive thing.
 
This is exactly the sort of thing that gets people killed. I was once in a situation where one of my main plugs went sort of nuts and his girlfriend left him and one of her first steps was to ask to come stay with me in the city, I dearly wanted to because she was crazy fine (also crazy), but I didn't do it. Actually not getting killed was a secondary reason as this dude was probably even less threatening than the guy you are describing (the kid I'm talking about didn't even have a strap), but this is simply a matter of respect. Other people's women are off limits, and the women of other people are involved in the game are particularly off limits.

You will not help her. She will continue to use and probably deteriorate. Including her looks and personality. The sex will be top notch initially and then everything will go to hell. She will definitely cheat on you. This is a disaster waiting to happen.
 
psyfiend said:
If she leaves him then who cares. there's no such thing as stealing someone... that's just some weird jealousy ego trip where one thinks they own another.

meth makes people crazy. my x used to do it all the time when we met, she did get help though but later one fell back into it. wasn't fun... it seems to end up in stealing, lying... it's kind of a trap.

i watch "hot" girls do it when we chill but they seem to have some serious mental issues... you can try it and it could work out. you'll probably just end up learning something about yourself and say fuck this noise. "love" whatever that may be is generally a positive thing.
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Yeah, you don't own anyone. I wouldn't take cheating personally, but you can't get past that shit and revenge cheating is just a dick move, she is doing it to herself and not you. Just move on with your life. There is always someone better out there if you don't get the love you need out of a relationship. I wouldn't stay with someone who fucked around. It doesn't work out if you end up both cheating and that is just a great way to catch a disease.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Drug addicts resort to sex for money too. So prostitution is common in that lifestyle and you really don't seem like the type of guy that can handle anything where you are not true to each other. Don't pick someone and try to change them. It is rare that someone will change much of their current lifestyle for someone else so yeah you can't make a hoe into a housewife and you ain't no pimp so I would suggest that you lay off.

People always get caught up on "the one" and that is kinda delusional imho. Infatuation ends in alot of suffering. You might as well just find a nice girl who is true to you. If you do not feel like you deserve better than you will just keep getting walked all over. Might have some self esteem issues if you are in love with a prostitute. The love of a pimp is a different kind and I doubt you know how to do that and I really do not want to encourage that type of thing despite having engaged in it in the past.

There are some women who have what they call boyfriends but really they are just players and I suppose it would be wrong to use the term slut because that is a fucked up double standard. I have pursued and dated women who where with someone else but it was friendship and I asked them to break up with the other guy first. Honestly, that happened with a friends gf and well he and I are still cool but he hates her. That is a situation that can get you in trouble as some people are rather jealous.

Tell her to get some clean time and call you then if you are serious about her but I wouldn't hold my breath. Also you really do not want to put yourself in a situation where you are living with someone you just started dating. I have moved in rather quick and well if you do not give someone space it will just be really lovey dovey for a while and then turn into some bullshit.

Go ahead and torture yourself if you want.
 
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Here is the deal. You already know the answer to that question. " She is always trying to hang out but never follows through." You are the back up. If she wanted to, she would follow through. I have done some crazy things to see the man I wanted to. Girls that party, party. That is what leads them and they follow. You don't party, and she will always go party somewhere with out you seeing her do it. It sounds like you might care about her, but I think Maybe you leave the past the behind you, with your town. You know this already. Im here
 
dopemaster said:
Yeah, you don't own anyone. I wouldn't take cheating personally, but you can't get past that shit and revenge cheating is just a dick move, she is doing it to herself and not you. Just move on with your life. There is always someone better out there if you don't get the love you need out of a relationship. I wouldn't stay with someone who fucked around. It doesn't work out if you end up both cheating and that is just a great way to catch a disease.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Drug addicts resort to sex for money too. So prostitution is common in that lifestyle and you really don't seem like the type of guy that can handle anything where you are not true to each other. Don't pick someone and try to change them. It is rare that someone will change much of their current lifestyle for someone else so yeah you can't make a hoe into a housewife and you ain't no pimp so I would suggest that you lay off.

People always get caught up on "the one" and that is kinda delusional imho. Infatuation ends in alot of suffering. You might as well just find a nice girl who is true to you. If you do not feel like you deserve better than you will just keep getting walked all over. Might have some self esteem issues if you are in love with a prostitute. The love of a pimp is a different kind and I doubt you know how to do that and I really do not want to encourage that type of thing despite having engaged in it in the past.

There are some women who have what they call boyfriends but really they are just players and I suppose it would be wrong to use the term slut because that is a fucked up double standard. I have pursued and dated women who where with someone else but it was friendship and I asked them to break up with the other guy first. Honestly, that happened with a friends gf and well he and I are still cool but he hates her. That is a situation that can get you in trouble as some people are rather jealous.

Tell her to get some clean time and call you then if you are serious about her but I wouldn't hold my breath. Also you really do not want to put yourself in a situation where you are living with someone you just started dating. I have moved in rather quick and well if you do not give someone space it will just be really lovey dovey for a while and then turn into some bullshit.

Go ahead and torture yourself if you want.
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Well said!

If you do go along with this master plan for some reason, try setting your standards really low... so you never get disappointed ;)
 
dopemaster said:
Yeah, you don't own anyone. I wouldn't take cheating personally, but you can't get past that shit and revenge cheating is just a dick move, she is doing it to herself and not you. Just move on with your life. There is always someone better out there if you don't get the love you need out of a relationship. I wouldn't stay with someone who fucked around. It doesn't work out if you end up both cheating and that is just a great way to catch a disease.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Drug addicts resort to sex for money too. So prostitution is common in that lifestyle and you really don't seem like the type of guy that can handle anything where you are not true to each other. Don't pick someone and try to change them. It is rare that someone will change much of their current lifestyle for someone else so yeah you can't make a hoe into a housewife and you ain't no pimp so I would suggest that you lay off.

People always get caught up on "the one" and that is kinda delusional imho. Infatuation ends in alot of suffering. You might as well just find a nice girl who is true to you. If you do not feel like you deserve better than you will just keep getting walked all over. Might have some self esteem issues if you are in love with a prostitute. The love of a pimp is a different kind and I doubt you know how to do that and I really do not want to encourage that type of thing despite having engaged in it in the past.

There are some women who have what they call boyfriends but really they are just players and I suppose it would be wrong to use the term slut because that is a fucked up double standard. I have pursued and dated women who where with someone else but it was friendship and I asked them to break up with the other guy first. Honestly, that happened with a friends gf and well he and I are still cool but he hates her. That is a situation that can get you in trouble as some people are rather jealous.

Tell her to get some clean time and call you then if you are serious about her but I wouldn't hold my breath. Also you really do not want to put yourself in a situation where you are living with someone you just started dating. I have moved in rather quick and well if you do not give someone space it will just be really lovey dovey for a while and then turn into some bullshit.

Go ahead and torture yourself if you want.
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Word. The whole 'The One' thing is complete and utter nonsense. Are people trying to say that if their partner died before they knew them then they whould have never met anyone else, or what if their parents had moved to another town whilst growing up meaning that they would have never met the person they end up marrying? It's always been a strange concept to me, there are many people out there who are suited to each and everyone of us.
 
Omg there are a billion women on the planet and this chick has you hooked? Run as fast as you can away from her. No good came come of this. Move on with a girl who is actually single, for one. Has her life together, for two and doesn't have a drug dealer as an ex boyfriend for three.
 
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