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Dating a girl with a bad meth addiction.

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Joey24x18

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Long story short I've regained contact with an ex from high school. She happens to be my weed mans girlfriend at the moment. He crashed her car, cheated on her, and dumped her one day and she messaged me. After talking a bit I went and smoked a blunt with her. She brought me to her friends house and after the blunt they pulled out a glass dick and starting rolling the bowl. From what I've heard and witnessed, she has a pretty bad problem. I'd say .5g a day if I had to guess.

We hung out, had a pretty deep conversation. She constantly asked me not to judge her and that she was "quitting soon". Cliche junkie talk, but she seemed genuinely worried about how I thought about her. Didn't make a move on her, I'd of felt like I was taking advantage of the situation.

She's back with my dealer now. But she texts me all day every day. She sent me a few nsfw pictures. Shes always trying to hang out but never follows through. Mainly because she has a boyfriend with her all the time (lol). My weed man is a wreck less sloppy dealer who Is bound to get busted soon. He feeds her meth and she sticks around basically.

I guess my question here is, should I pursue? Obviously I'll lose my weed connect, but I have other plugs and I hate dealing with him anyways. He's strapped but too pussy to shoot me over stealing his girl. He's been robbed twice this month by the same people and didn't even pull his gun out. I genuinely care about this girl, and we have a history of being together pre-meth. I myself had a bad crystal habit in the past but have been clean two years. I sit and watch my friends roll the bowl every day with no hesitation or urge to do so myself. I want to help this girl. She's extremely attractive, and her personality suits mine. I just kinda know deep down that if we did get together, and she relapsed, it'd be dope over me. I know the junkie mindset.

Should I continue secretly sneaking off with my weed mans meth addicted girlfriend (she's so, so hot), or should I just move on and find a girl who only does "soft" drugs like myself? Meth hit my city like a brick. 90% of the people I know are on it bad. I have nothing keeping me here, and the funds to get out of this shitty southern small town. She'd be down to run away with me. Bad idea or no?... Lol

I appreciate any advice.
 
I would say just move on it's not worth it dealing with a meth user and fucking with your weed mans girl women are a dime a dozen.
 
Should I continue secretly sneaking off with my weed mans meth addicted girlfriend?
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How you would even feel the need to ask this question is beyond me.

I can't imagine how anyone would be able to answer your question with a "yeah man, go for it" and keep a straight face while doing so. It's obviously a bad idea as the risks of getting hurt (in one way or the other) greatly outweights the chance of you ending up in a healthy relationship with this woman.
 
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she is clearly in the monkey branching stage feeling you out to see if you would be better for her then her current situation.


and the only thing worse then getting involved with a girl in the monkey branching stage, is getting involved with a girl in the monkey branching stage addicted to meth


she will do NOTHING but bring you down. Seriously
 
Joey24x18 said:
I have nothing keeping me here, and the funds to get out of this shitty southern small town. She'd be down to run away with me. Bad idea or no?... Lol

I appreciate any advice.
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Getting outta town might be a good idea. Don't take her with you.
Even if she wasn't an addict it would be a shit idea socially. You would lose a lot of that unspoken honor, that is important in small towns. She doesn't sound too solid or reliable even with meth taken outta the equation. So just not smart.
Then she is an addict and you are not. Even hot, emotionally mature tweakers are not fun to be around unless their supply is good and it's the right time of the run. Decent chance she'll steal from you too, and you won't know it until your not just broke, but in crazy amounts of debt.
 
i would go somewhere better than where you are and avoid an addict

sorry but no matter how hot she is will she be as hot when not acting all sexy, putting on weight quitting and being in the worst mood for the next 2 years? thats IF she stops her addiction. the other option is she will drag u back down to meth land or drain you financially

fuck that
 
Literally every sentence in this whole post is just screaming red flag! Hell no do not run off with your gun packing weed dealers meth addicted girlfriend!

Jesus Christ, how is that even an option?
 
Don't do it. Cut off ALL contact with her, as you said how you abused meth but haven't used it in years and you run the risk of using it and becoming addicted to it again. Plus your dealer will get very angry that you stole his girlfriend from him. Be careful, and stay safe.

You should take your own advice that you wrote, find a woman who only likes to smoke herb or even drink alcohol and smoke herb socially and date her instead of your dealer's girlfriend. Good luck.
 
If she is hot, and you guys had a history together already, then why not? Screw the loser boyfriend. All is fair in love and war. She, like most people, will likely outgrow the love of meth
 
Listen to all the advice given here mate, she sounds like bad news and you seem like you have your shit together being clean for a couple of years. I'm sure she is a nice girl deep down, but use you head man. You wouldn't be on here asking the advice of a bunch of addicts on BL if you thought that you had a real future with this chick? It might be fun, you might have things in common (not necessarily good things in common), you might have history, but I think these things are clouding your judgement a wee bit. Stay clear, don't be a dick or anything, but move on, she's not what you need, she seems like a loose cannon and do you really want to be with a chick who is in a relationship with a dealer just to score drugs? Who knows the depraved depths she has sunk to.

Anyway, take care amigo.
 
Joey24x18 said:
He's strapped but too pussy to shoot me over stealing his girl. He's been robbed twice this month by the same people and didn't even pull his gun out.
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You sure about that? He probably didn't pull his gun out because the people that robbed him are probably much scarier (or have scarier connections) than him and he knew that doing so would get him killed or seriously injured. However, in your case, if he pulled a gun on you, it doesn't sound like he needs to worry about some truly scary criminals retaliating and committing serious harm to his person.

I can't say what hasn't already been said, but I grew up in a shit town in the south and took the first opportunity I had to get the fuck out of Dodge. Alone.
 
Run far away, and this is coming from an experienced, speed, Ganga, and much more. I'm a "down ass woman" and I think you should part ways with both of them. They sound like lazy people who definetly do not have their shit together.?
 
This is a drug forum and everyone is saying run away....

Definitely a sign, OP!

But, you're going to do whatever you want to. If you want to bone her, OK. Just be careful because the boyfriend might literally kill you, especially if he's an icehead too. I agree with everyone else, please don't date her. She may be a nice girl, but she's addicted to ice. I don't think you or anyone for that matter would want to go into such a toxic relationship. Ice is just one of those drugs that are dangerous to play with. Meth and heroin are probably the worst. :/ Relationships need compromise, sacrifice, and altruism... a person heavily addicted to meth will not be able to meet those "relationship necessities".
 
Taking a strung out meth addict away from her friends, away from her supply, away from anybody she knows into the wild blue yonder?
sounds romantic until you've taken her somewhere, that literally the only thing she now knows is her meth addiction. And you're now responsible for two persons.
Sounds like stupid.

Whether you leave or not, i'd sever connections to the woman, and the dealer by association, as non-negotiable. As others have said, women are dime a dozen. Maybe not where you're from (or at least single women) but everywhere else, if you're under 40 you're basically 1:3.

if you've got a burning desire to 'help' someone in trouble, adopt a dog. Unless they're family, adopting a meth addict is the stupidest thing you can do by choice imo.
 
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