damn long distance relationships

[LiQwidVibeZ]

I found true love for the first time. Ive been with my boyfriend for only 6 months but I know him better than ive known anyone in my life. We understand each other and know each others dark sides ...we know everything and still madly in love but hes living in florida and im in california. It will be at least two years before we can live in the same city. I dont know how anyone could survive that much time apart. I told him we should see other people and I could hear him crying. Ah this isnt the type of guy to cry either. I'm trying to let him go because I think it will hurt worse if I try to hold on to this for two years. Just as soon as I think im getting used to him not being around I start missing him like crazy and cant stop thinking about him. Theres a big empty space in my heart that he used to fill. Is anyone in a long distance relationship and going through the same shit?
Id like to hear your story cuz this is really sucking ass right now. Anyone have any advice? Anyone had a long distance thing work?
lonely and in need of a hug
*Jessica*

 

[Noodle]

Do as your heart directs, that is my only advice. I dated my first love, my first girlfriend, at a long distance for 5 or so years. My phone bills for the first few months of our seperation where astronomical. It wasn't odd for me to rack up 5 or 6 hours with her a few times a week.
5 years later and a year out of college and my long time sweety was working in Boston, living in a basement apartment in Beacon Hill, contemplating her future schooling, and this dharma bum was out skateboarding all over Beantown.
Needless to say we grew apart. I denied this growing apart for months and months previous to her finding another better Mister Right. I was later seen smoking weed and sipping Jack Daniels in a dark apartment alone, listening to the rubber tires of traffic spinning along unsympathetic and outside at the intersection of Little' and Broad Streets.
Good luck and write each other often.
I don't regret my 5 year stint at all. I had some of the most wonderful times with that beautiful person.
I still love you Heather S. !

*mwah* followed by a big squishy *full contact body hug*
Maybe her ears will ring just a bit for my posting of this lifelong love for her.

[This message has been edited by Noodle (edited 10 August 2000).]

 

[LiQwidVibeZ]

Wow 5 years apart that must of been rough..thanks for the advice. I miss my boyfriend so much. It really sucks when i need him the most hes not there for me. Its cool though it will be easier once i find someone to kick it with here.
*Jessica
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fuck you if you dont believe in plur!

 

[Angelight]

ohhhh hunny....they suck...thats it and thats all...but everyone is diff...try and make it work, its always worth the shot...
much love and goodluck
angel