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Curves or barbie dolls

Web has told it how it is. Its the same with men - girls (and guys) dont all go for the same build of man. Some like them big others dont. Some like them like body builders and others like them softer (i couldnt think of a better word). And its the same for guys - some like their women slim and others like them with curves - its what they come with that matters, not just a number that fluctuates all the time. Also as proved from this thread alone one girl can be 5'4 and healthy looking at one weight, and another 5'4 girl can look way too skinny at the same weight - its all about keeping healthy and having confidence :)
 
syntech said:
what i meant by 'lacking' is that society might think theyre lacking. thats why i put it in inverted commas. i have no prejudices towards ppl. if i notice that i'm being presumtuous, i'll try my best to correct myself. i hate ppl that make assumptions of me so i try not to do it myself.

when i meet someone, the "default" feeling towards them is that theyre a good person. the way they act as i get to know them will either increase that feeling or decrease it. meh, its hard to put it into words. i think i give ppl too much leeway at times and think too much of them which can prove nasty to me in the long run!
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sorry if it sounded like i was being rude or assuming anything towards you, i didnt mean for it to come across that way, i just didnt understand what you meant by lacking hense me asking :)

I also have the "innocent till proven guilty" thing when meeting people, i assume they are good and usually wait till they do something to fuck me over before i say i dont like them :p
 
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dats cool!
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yep, and i dont see it coming either (when i get fucked around). all of a sudden i'm all like "fuckin ass!! how dare u treat me like that" and never ever talk to them ever again. :X

scuse da french 8o
 
my whole point was that all this thread is truly doing is giving 'approval' or a big pat on the back for a certain type of body. We're all different, who the hell cares whether some Dick likes your type or not? Fuck em all and find someone that does like you for who you are and how you're made. I didn't really mean anyone was going to go on a eating binge to get curvy or anything like that, just damn aren't there better things to dicuss?

just my 2 cents.

~Shelly~

*does exotic belly dance*
 
i think this was a valid topic to discuss.

there are threads here giving mad props to the almighty vagina (giving the pussy and the males and females who love them, a pat on the back).

thought the original topic was about what body type men prefer? and somewhere, of course, seeped in the WHY about what they prefer what they do and why women try or NOT try to look one way or another.

people shared stories about their body types, guys discussed preferences, i don't really see an all out thin versus thick flame war anywhere. and i think a lot people basically said it's all about the way you carry yourself.

with the number of 'appreciation' threads out there
if this thread wasn't valid...then what is?

if it was a THIN GIRL appreciation thread, I'm sure the thread would be more heated...but just as valid.

i think if a post wasn't constructive, belong in the right category or worth anything, the mods would have enough sense to close it

my 2 cents, which won't get you a piece o' gum these days. :)
 
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^^ i agree...it wasn't about saying thin girls suck or anything

rolling...i wasnt looking for approval...i was looking to see if there are men still out there that appreciate curvy women...i seem to keep repeating myself here

like is said i see alot of me going gaga over the glamour barbie types and was wondering if they actually liked real women
 
I have been on both ends the scale. I have heard that a womans body comleatly changes every 7 years or so <not sure if this is true?> But I have experinced it, I think, lol.

When I was say 16, I was a size 13/14 & weighed 150/155 pounds,and almost 6 feet tall. I was never called fat since I hid it well. Then at 19 I started dieting, working out etc. and got down to a size 8 & 129 pounds. I would eat nothing and work out 3 hours 4 times a week!

Then I stopped all of that and I have not gained any weight back. At age 27 <almost> I'm a size 8/9 now and weight 127. Very strange, I never ever work out now, lol. I do eat but not alot, I don't have a eatting disorder. That saying some people live to eat, I eat to live, I'm not a food person really.

But some guys like big girls, other prefer thin, and some just don't care. It shouldn't matter what size the person your with is. Unfortinly to some it does, and its that persons loss because they may have just lost out on meeting someone great.

Im sorry I have no clue what I'm trying to say, lol. Just love who you are. As long as your not putting your health at risk from being big or small, its all a-ok.

And to whoevers mom had that great comeback to te woman who said she was to skinny, that was freeking great!
 
yeah i agree with people missing out knowing someone just because they aren't a certain body type and also about loving who you are inside and out :)

I totally got what you were saying :)
 
For myself, I hate myself unless I am skinny as a rail. I've never been fat and I've been anorexic off and on. As for other girls, I tend to think they look better with a few curves, but as for myself I always feel like I have to be stick thin---which right now I'm not. I'm 5'6" and am really pissed off because since I laid off the drugs I have gotten up to around 125. A couple years ago due to anorexia I was down to just 85 lbs and just a few months ago when I was heavily into meth I was down to 100 lbs. But now I feel fat. All my friends tell me I am still skinny, but I fucking hate myself. But for other girls, I think they look good no matter what their weight. I just like girls! haha. :-) But if they are too much skinnier than me I am too intimidated by them. :-(
 
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yeah that's life and society I suppose. I mean if a chick your same heigh weighs like 150lbs, you think she looks good right? I know I can't change your ideal of yourslef and shit why try. People think of themselves in a certain way and rarely do other people (except family and loved ones) influence that. personally i think myself too curvy, if I had the money I would so seriously consider a coke binge. I live in a college town and I just feel not attractive. and I'm drunk right now so disregard what I'm saying prolly
 
I thought i would bump this thread because of all the "i hate fat girls" on here talk and give us 'fat chix' a reminder that we dont have to be stick thin to be beautiful and appreciated :)

and no im not saying thin girls are unattractive (they obviously are according to society) ...i have been through this already :p
 
I have to throw in another vote for as long as the person is healthy and proportioned, whether they are a size 2 or a size 14, thats appealing to me. And yes, Doofqueen, Attitude is sooooo sexy.
 
absolutely! totally agree! the most "beautiful" person can be ugly in an instant with a bad attitude or a nasty snarl on their face imo :)
 
Curves...

Im wondering on what is everyones concensus on how they feel about curves on a woman. Personally, me being italian i have natural curves plus being short adds to this. I am not so insecure about it anymore as I have learned that i attract people all the time (not that Im really worried about that so much anymore) and I have a loving boyfriend that adores my body. But for some girls, I hear them cry and complain about how fat they are and such, it makes me sick anymore if I over hear a girl saying to a friend "I feel fat I dont think im going to eat lunch today."

Myself I've gone through eating disorders/personal image problems, they are tough to get over, I only started really loving who i was about 6 months ago, and now that i love myself people seem to like me more-more people talk to me,.. and yes i believe i get hit on more when I feel better about myself. I guess you could call this thread in response to the fat chic thread, but this topic has been on my mind for quite sometime. Than again this isnt putting down the slender babes out there, its just i feel the media and now i guess everyone puts down the curves.

IMO curves dont have to mean pounds, I have curves but i have a flat stomach, and i think too many over look healthiness for you personally and what they feel is "estetically pleasing".. In many cases is just utterly repulsive. I skimmed through the magazine ailse today at the store, "100 WAYS TO LOOSE INCHES, 50 TIPS ON HOW TO LOOSE WEIGHT!"
and you know what all the chics in the magazines that were performing the example of the exercise were extremely slender. I actually for a moment felt crappy about myself, but i shook my head and thought about how i felt when i starved myself out of fear of being "imperfect"... reality check..:)
What do you feel on this issue, what do you think is pleasing to yourself? :)
 
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