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Cunnilingus - So hard

Ugh, the alphabet technique. I shudder every time I hear about it. Some poor guy humming A.. B... C... D... , it just makes me laugh.

The best way to learn what technique, stroke, or lick works best is to ask. Yes, communicate, its not a foreign concept. Pony up and ask for direction, get a road map, push the OnStar button, trust me it works. If she is unwilling to tell you or is too embarrassed then it becomes a communication issue. If no communication exists you may have more issues than sore jaw.

IcarusRisen said:
Am I the only one that doesn't enjoy the idea of stuffing a girl's vagina full of things like a pinata?
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:)
 
How old is this girl? Dude some chicks don't become fully able to experience orgasm until like 22 or so.
 
L O V E L I F E said:
(1) Suck on her clit;
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yes, this is probably one of the best pieces of advice in here! Some females really get off having their clit played with (I'm one of them). It's a shame a lot of men don't really know they they're doing down there BUT there are some that do..
 
I'm also a big believer in sucking on it. It takes a fine balance between beating it with strokes and then quickly switching to the death suck for the win (orgasm). no matter which technique you choose to employ, making her cum takes steadfast dedication! don't expect it to be fast or easy. my success usually also entails a sore neck and tongue. there are other great threads about this on bluelight; try a search. good luck and get her sprung!
 
drumnbass420 said:
(I'm one of them). It's a shame a lot of men don't really know they they're doing down there BUT there are some that do..
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Well, on behalf of all males, I apologise. Now can chicks stop constantly smashing things into our balls? Thank you. :)
 
go for the g spot, spread her legs and suck on that shit.








damn im jealous. lol
 
go for the g spot, spread her legs and suck on that shit.








damn im jealous. lol
 
It sounds like you have the desire to please her, so refine your technique.

Remember, you're not trying to rub out a spot with your tongue. More like licking honey off the wings of a butterfly. ;)

Good luck!
 
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it all depends on the girl.. some of them like lots of hard pressure (ie rubbing out a spot) while some like it a lil gentler

you gotta have a big bag of tricks and see what she likes. soft and slow? hard and fast? g-spot stimulation? playing with nipples?
 
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iskalla said:
Hey

Ive been with my girl for a while now and cant seem to make her cum. granted, she didnt let me practice oral on her a lot, but lately i have tried a few times and i really thought i was doing it very well, yet she still doesnt cum. i know exactly what i have to do, and she gives me further instructions while im at it. slower, harder, faster, etc. still its very hard to get right.

the first problem is probably that her clit is pretty small and nestled in quite a bit of flesh. i have to hit it perfectly with the right pressure at the right speed. i can do it for quite a while now, but i always seem to slip off when things get critical. i find it impossible to keep at that exact spot for a long time. i always lose it, only briefly, but just a brief moment is enough to mess up.

she told me that ive gotten very, very close, but then lost her clit again. ive tried pulling her appart for better reach, which works fine at the beginning, but as she gets wetter due to saliva and her own juices, i tend to lose grip and fuck it up.

is it really that hard to make a girl cum? it seems like i could only do it once in a million tries. although i have gotten a lot better the last 20 or so times i tried.
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I've been with a girl like that, I'm sorry to say it never worked out between us. After fights, there was never that good sex thing to rely on. It turned out she has a vein over her clit that makes it really hard for her to cum - whether this is the case for your girl or not, its not your fault.
With any girl, I find that its much better to start slow and have her say "harder" than the other way around.

Sometimes even with my girl now - she comes pretty easily - I have to tell her to shut the fuck up and quit thinking about it so much type of thing, especially with an enslaught of annoying directions (but I say it in a nice way)

I wouldn't rule out getting her a little buzzed on something, your girl needs to chill
 
Am I the only girl to respond??? It's not always easy to cum, and the harder you try the harder it is to succeed. It sounds like you have a great relationship, no pressure, you're just having fun. She may just cum like a volcano when you aren't really trying some day, I bet she has great fun without the fireworks. Don't try so hard if it's your ego that's making it such a challenge.
To some of you other guys; I would not enjoy anal stimulation of any kind, it would end things right there the second time you tried it b/c I would tell you stop the first time. It's a personal issue because of a past experience. It doesn't work for everyone.
GenericMind; made me giggle. Here's this guy trying to hold the one sweet spot forever keeping his lady close, and you tell him to talk dirty. Don't you know it's rude to talk with your mouth full?
 
Well here's a second girl to respond -- it sounds like you are doing a really good job so A+ for effort.
And honestly, be glad she's not Faking it!! Many a time I've laid there and just decided to fake it so it could be over. Bad I know. But at least your girl is being honest with that. From talking to my friends about this too, I know that 99% of girls fake it some of the time. If you are eating her out and she comes after like 25 seconds you have 1.a faker or 2.an unusual girl.
Take a break from oral, play with her body and see what happens. When you actually get there and make her cum with your mouth it will be soo explosive. It will be worth it! :)
 
felix said:
my ex used to go fucking insane with a finger up the bum when i went down on her, i literally had to pin her down with all my strength to stop her squirming about. she fucking loved it. :)
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That is so fucking hot. Thanks for sharing.
 
what's so hard?

Suck on it hard, spread the lips with yours, force your tongue all over her clit. stick your finger in her(anywhere) grab the nips(squeeze and hold).

It's more than just lapping at it.

I've spent long as times going down on my girl, and eventually she WILL get off.

tounge cramps, cheek cramps, small price to pay for her chest to turn red.
 
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