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Cunnilingus - So hard

I think some girls just don't like their pussies eaten, they're not folded right for it.
 
The Is said:
I think some girls just don't like their pussies eaten, they're not folded right for it.
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Folded right? 8o Maybe you should move and live with one of those tribes in Africa where they do female circumcisions? :p

I think it has more to do with the fact that some women just probably don't like getting oral sex for whatever reason, or maybe they're too sensitive and it can be painful for them?
 
Dan1584 said:
Does really she like oral to begin with?
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That's what I was thinking, I don't really like oral and have never come from it.
It can feel nice, sorta a turn on knowing someone is lapping at your genitals, but technically I just can't get off from anything external like that. Everyone is built differently. And yes, sometimes it can be painful. Not exactly PAINFUL, thats not the right word, but too sensitive to be comfortable.
 
bachus said:
So, has she not had an orgasm from penetration either, or your fingers, or her own?

Assuming she is somewhat orgasmic, you might try the following:
Tell her before you go down on her that this time you are going to focus on your own enjoyment of getting you face full of her beautiful, fragrant, exciting goddess parts! Then take your time doing just that and slowly build a mental contour map of her sex; learn the scenic routes, the short-cuts, the sweet destinations. Tell her that every touch, lick and glide is you loving her, to relax and not hunt the orgasm, just sink into the feelings and enjoy you enjoying her.

Make happy noises. Wriggle. Have fun down there and she might catch the same ride.

It also helps if you can stop thinking and just lose yourself in your senses and emotions. This can take practice.
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This is probably some of the best advice on here...

I've noticed that when it takes me a little bit longer to orgasm, it's usually because I start focusing on my lover, more than on myself. Like, "Is he getting sick of this?" or "Does he even enjoy doing this at all?" or "Is he getting frustrated or sore or bored?"... and then once those thoughts go through my head, I fall off the track I was on to a magnificent orgasm.

Really, try to be super enthusiastic and excited to be pleasuring her. And I really liked the part about telling her that you are going to focus on you for a bit and just to enjoy you enjoying her. I know that I fully enjoy going down on my boyfriend (one of my biggest turn ons) and so naturally, if I feel he feels the same about reciprocating, we are both going to have a fantastic time.

My girlfriends and I talk about this and most of them, I've noticed, just get caught up in worrying about whether he "wants" to be doing it or feels that he "has" to do it. That little difference right there can cause a HUGE mental block, therefore making her cum from oral nearly impossible. We ladies just want to feel like you enjoy going down on us as much as we enjoy you doing so, or as much as we enjoy orally pleasuring you.
 
^^Best advice-when it comes to giving head its sometimes better to be selfish

More like licking honey off the wings of a butterfly.
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Sounds nice but this would never get me off...

God bless your soul for being so patient and willing to learn <3 I love guys like you :)
 
alright...

i can make her cum. i have been able to for about half a year now. i can only do it with my fingers though, but i have given her some of the strongest orgasms she has have had. we try oral occasionally but its usually just a warmup until i start rubbing her clit with my fingers. i dont mind, maybe one day she will cum from oral, but theres no pressure and we are both einjoying ourselves.
 
Guys get so hung up on "making a girl" cum..I'm not a huge fan of oral sex except as a part of foreplay, not, as someone else said, as the "main course." My boyfriend is the only person who has gotten me off with oral, and only one time. It was awesome, but it isn't that big a deal to me because I prefer to get off during sex. Plus it was really difficult, involving a lot of tongue, fingers, and me moving my hips to get it exactly right.
 
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