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Cuddling After Sex?

I used to love cuddling with my X while we were on ecstasy. She always wanted to have sex, but on mdma I was never into sex. I just liked to lay there and squeeze each other tight.
 
iheartthisthread said:
is it strange? No.
Do I cuddle? Usually, depends on how hot and humid or cool the bedroom is.
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I super agree with this statement.
I had some really awesome sex the other night. Afterwards we started to cuddle, but the room was outrageously humid, so I had to say no-go on that action and just roll over and sleep.
 
I enjoy cuddling after sex with somebody I love. We'd lay there, wrapped up and just talk/joke around a bit.

One night stands: "Thanks for the wet hole, I hope it doesn't hurt when I piss, and I would say see you later, but I doubt I will"

Fuck buddies: We both have a mutual agreement that we're friends who like to fuck, so with one or two of them some cuddling afterwards may occur but most often we just smoke a cigarette together and either go out and do something together or part ways until the next visit.
 
I always assume that a girl wants to cuddle and that a guy does not want to cuddle...but everyone is different. I usually just let them come to me if they wanna cuddle n if not just lay next to them and talk. And @iheartthisthread, YES. I am hot-blooded and cuddling when it's hot/humid is awful...you just get all sweaty where your bodies touch.
 
Not so much I like to cuddle beforehand after we are sweaty and I just need a smoke after that awesome romp plus I feel invigorated now and wanna do something
 
I love it. It makes me feel closer to my man. Sometimes if hes over heated afterwards I give him space to cool down. Maybe you can compromise with your partner and give him just a few minutes of cuddling time if its that important to him. If you honestly despise cuddling and cant force urself to spend 5 mins in his arms maybe theres another way around it like showering together after sex or something so he still feels that afterglow intimacy and you dont feel pressured to do something u dont wana do
 
If you can't spend 5 minutes holding your S.O. I'd be worried about your relationship.

Great suggestion for the shower after though, that's one of my favorite parts :) Or the shower before, during, etc.
 
I don't do relationships, I like to do it and kick them out. When I've been in relationships in the past I'm happiest to roll over and sleep, sometimes cuddling and affection are nice to have with sex in a loving relationship, but sometimes u just wanna shag, sometimes u just wanna cuddle - one shouldn't always have to accompany the other.
These days I've decided relationships are too much hard work, yep I'm selfish - 1 of shags r enough 4 me, even fuck buddys end up wantin more after a while. I save all my love, cuddles and affection for my kids, the main reason for my chosen singledom, I never ever want my kids to think I put a man or woman before them.
So OP, ur not weird at all, just explain that once uve cum u just wanna sleep, show him affection at other times and now and again give him a cuddle after sex - if he loves u he should understand it doesn't mean u don't love or care, but that sex makes u wanna sleep, on a pillow, not a sweaty chest :)
 
Cuddling as much as possible is a requirement. So comforting.

I had an ex who never cuddled. He didn't really kiss either. We also almost never had sex.

Cuddling + kissing = sex!

Cuddling naturally amps up oxytocin and all that other nice warm fuzzy bonding.
 
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