littlepenguin
Bluelighter
ahhh, its a quote from 'kindegarten cop'....
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ahhh, its a quote from 'kindegarten cop'....
ATLGIRL
Bluelighter
Dude.....it sounds like she is being a woman. That's what we do. If you think that's crazy then I am not sure of we have the same definition of crazy then. Just tell her to slow down and not overwhelm your brain with love overload. When we love something, us women want to show our affection, establish mental security for ourselves by planning out the future and finally validate that the other person loves us enough. Make a deal with her that if she can be understanding about this issue that you will try to express things like that to her on your own terms as long as she waits patiently. If she responds well also warn her that she shouldn't be looking forward to u sharing these things either (If she does then it's once again her agenda and not yours). I hope that makes sense 
Lysis
Bluelighter
lol this line never gets old.
^ it is not a tumour.
crazy women are great. we men are pretty fucking weird too. humans are bizarre, complex creatures.
i can't say i have enough of a heteronormative lifestyle to play the gender role game though. your relationship may be really different to mine (my girl is neither 'boyish' or 'girlie-girl' and i'm not much of a 'man's man') but sometimes you just gotta accept things as they come. i wouldn't want it any other way, personally.
you love her? that's great.
she's insecure? needs reassurance? wants to talk a lot?
i'd say you need to work on your communication skills. not just you, but maybe you are not emotive enough for her to feel comfortable, so she tries to over compensate.
crazy women are great. we men are pretty fucking weird too. humans are bizarre, complex creatures.
i can't say i have enough of a heteronormative lifestyle to play the gender role game though. your relationship may be really different to mine (my girl is neither 'boyish' or 'girlie-girl' and i'm not much of a 'man's man') but sometimes you just gotta accept things as they come. i wouldn't want it any other way, personally.
you love her? that's great.
she's insecure? needs reassurance? wants to talk a lot?
i'd say you need to work on your communication skills. not just you, but maybe you are not emotive enough for her to feel comfortable, so she tries to over compensate.