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farmaz

farmaz

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My fiance is crazy I am sure of it.

She rings me 5 times a day, allways wants me to tell her I love her, tell her she looks nice, expects me to tell her what my view is on her clothes, allways talks about our future like in terms of 3/5 years & having babies (yes not a baby but babys) she wants me to dress more grown up & look metrosexual, she is such a clingy freak at times.

why do women allways ask to be told dumb stuff like you love them & want children with them?.......

If I didn't love her I would not be there & she knows she looks ok in her clothes so why she need to be told every time she puts something on?....

Women are truly bizarre imo, any women advice about these issues would be great.
 
If you're not ready for children yet, make sure you use birth control. When are you getting married?

Not all women are like this, she seems a bit insecure to always need reassurance.
 
A slight bit judgmental, OP?
Not all women are like this. She seems very insecure.
I like it when my boyfriend tells me I look nice, I like it when he tells me he loves me. But I can think of maybe five times in our two and a half year relationship where I have actually seeked it out, like where I wanted him to tell me he loved me. Only because I was sad at that time and it made me feel a bit better.
And I don't want kids so I don't talk to my boyfriend about that. Even though we are both pretty sure we will end up married (pretty sure ... not 100% sure ... things can change in the future), we don't talk in excess about that. We will be like "when we're 30, we want to own a house" and we plan around that.
Not all girls are that clingy. If it bugs you, talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen, break up with her. You're not married yet.
 
Yeah you don't need to be so judgmental, I feel like I could do the same thing and just be like 'all men are jerks who dont care about us, show us no respect whatsoever and make us feel like shit' cuz that's how the men in my life have been, but that's not really fair is it?
But that aside...
Have you just tried talking to her about all this? Or consider the way you do act around her; do you ever compliment her if she doesn't ask for it? Or did you ever tell her you don't want babies yet or whatever?
 
It's not women, it's people who are insecure and have no boundaries... people whose moods change according to what their partners are doing. You could reassure her endlessly and she will still have days where she still needs more reassuring.

I wouldn't get married to such a person much less have a kid with them. Imagine what kind of head trips they would put on their children.
 
farmaz said:
why do women allways ask to be told dumb stuff like you love them & want children with them?.......
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farmaz said:
Women are truly bizarre imo, any women advice about these issues would be great.
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If it's so easy for you assume that all women act this way because that's the way your girlfriend acts, why are you so confused that your girlfriend assumes that because she has experienced guys acting in a shitty way in the past, she expects you to, too? You guys sound like you have something in common, at least 8)
 
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littlepenguin said:
garsh, where do you FIND these womenz??? argh i like, HATE it when my mate tells me they love me, ugh, so annoying.
stoopid emoshuns and stuff, why do womenz always need to be reassured and tell em they look nice n stuff, garrrrr.


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Idiot, don't judge someone by their use of a forum name.
Typical American!!!
 
T. Calderone said:
If you're not ready for children yet, make sure you use birth control. When are you getting married?

Not all women are like this, she seems a bit insecure to always need reassurance.
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Because I love her, hence why were getting married but I feel no need to have kids. I will have a step daughter when we get together & 1 kid is enough for me to deal with thanks
 
well thanks to the people that could read through my piece, I was a bit messed up on speed at the time so maybe it was not so clear what I meant but at least some managed to read through it.

@ littlepenguin - I feel so sorry for your family, they must be real proud of you. I like the fact you picked up on the use of the "Z" yet failed to notice the most clear corruption of the word.
 
farmaz said:
Idiot, don't judge someone by their use of a forum name.
Typical American!!!
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..............................................W....T.....F......??????

to be completely honest, I didn't even look at your forum name before I replied to your lovely post, thankyouverymuch.
and adding "z" at the end of the word, well, that's like internet ebonics. do you know what ebonics are or do i need to explain it?
if you no comprendo ebonics, perhaps "slang" may be a better term. adding a 'z' to the end of the word usually substitutes an 's,' meaning it's plural, but usually poking fun at the slang itself. if that makes any sense...
supttyllolzzz.jpg
 
farmaz said:
@ littlepenguin - I feel so sorry for your family, they must be real proud of you. I like the fact you picked up on the use of the "Z" yet failed to notice the most clear corruption of the word.
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you feel sorry for my family, eh? do you know them? do you call them at home?
ohhh that's right, NO YOU DON'T. so you can go ahead and keep my family that you "know so well" out of any of your future postings.
as for them being proud of me - they say they are, so, i dunno...i mean, i did just open my own business which is going splendidly, they support me in damn near everything I do...I'm quite sure that they wouldn't be all too concerned with me using some intarw3bz lingo and throwing an old 'z' on the end of a word once in awhile, especially if it has to do with insulting some fucktard on a forum who should really do the world a favor and pull his lip over his head and swallow...

"you like the fact that i picked up on the use of z but failed to notice the most clear corruption of the word......"

JIGGA WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA?????? ::bangs head against wall::



maaaaybe if you put 1/2 as much energy into your "relationship" as you put on bluelight attempting to insult people you don't know, your "relationship" might be a little better off and your womanZZZZZZZZ wouldn't be such a gigantic kunt. just a thought.

<3
 
Women are emotional creatures , men physical , women tend to express their emotional needs, wanting compliments , made to feel sexy more then men , men look for physical to fill their needs, work, sex etc... This just my opinion not facts..
 
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