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Condoms vs. without condoms... whats the difference??

Use a condom..save your family the grief and cost of a 'hospital recommended' Dna test.

I used to not use them... Had a close call with a baby, cant be having that shit in my life right now.
 
I'd say use condoms if you're getting some strange or are in an open relationship/fling.

I hate condoms. The friction sucksand its not like making love, sorry for the cliché, but it's a barrier and being in a serious relationship, I say I'd have no sex before using one
 
Shimmer.Fade said:
If you are in a steady relationship, and your partner is on birth control then there is not much to say against sex without a condom.
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What if your partner has an incurable std? Or the fact that birth control isn't 100%? The percentage might be low but people have gotten pregnant on it.
I used to be totally anti-condom but when I look back I was being an idiot. Especially with casual hookups, you're putting a lot of faith into someone that you don't even know to tell the truth about something that could be pretty consequential. There are psychos out there who wouldn't mind getting pregnant and some free money.

CfZrx said:
I used to think they sucked but if you put lube inside and outside the condom it can be pretty damn good :) It is a must with a stranger.
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Agree, although I don't think I ever used one without lube. I thought it was going to suck but I honestly don't think I could tell the difference.
 
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trojan magnums can hold 5 gallons of water that's the difference
after a couple days of no jerkin off i gotta lot to let loose.
 
BZboo said:
I feel like on average most guys last longer with them. Are condoms really that awful? Like this now is making me feel as if past hook ups weren't really that good for the guy because of a condom?
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Don't think of it like that. I'm sure they didn't think of it that way.

But if you're in a loving relationship you want to be able to feel everything and not have a barrier in the way. It's kind of like this:

Sex without condoms > sex with condoms > not having sex
 
neversickanymore said:
The difference is similar to eating a fantastic ice cream cone compared to licking the outside of a plastic bag placed over the same ice cream cone.
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^^ Haha this x10
I'm definitely not a fan of condoms and can count on two hands the times I've had sex with a guy wearing one. For me they totally change how a cock feels and definitely make sex less pleasurable. However I'm in a long term relationship and STIs and pregnancy aren't things that I have to worry about, if I was having sex with someone new I would make him wear one. I would prefer to have less enjoyable sex than a STI, lesser of two evils and all that.
 
malakaix said:
Infinitely better.

But with greater reward comes greater risk.. I'm still amazed i skated through my early twenties without impregnating someone or contracting a disease; im more cautious these days, especially when alcohol is involved.. and my desire for sex overwhelms my rational judgement, Goddamnit.
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Im saying the same thing! I had some crazy fucking times during my late teens, up to about mid 20s...drinking, drugging, fucking, partying, etc. it was GREAT, but I would not want to live like that at my age today.

I think the only reason, I never got anybody pregnant had to do with all the drug/ alcohol use, plus the cigarette smoking too, all that shit lowers your sperm count. I remember this one GF I had, we were really good together, got along great, we had sex alot, it reached a point where we were wanting to be pregnant, we had plans of marriage, growing old together, we lived together on and off for about 2 yrs, I remember not even pulling out, like almost every single time we fucked, still, she never get pregnant...of course, today, Im thanking my lucky stars she never did!! At that age we were at, we just didnt see the big picture.

I always preferred to 'bare back' it, thankfully I remained clean thru it all.
 
For me its the difference between having sex and not having sex. I'v e never been able to keep a woody with a condom. It just doesnt work. So in a weird way it has become the safe sex lol. If a chick insists on a condom we arent fucking, thus safe sex. BUT I would say almost every girl that insisted gave in and went for it without it :)
 
i've only put a condom on once, just to see what it would be like
I masturbated with it, it was actually more enjoyable it was like my dick was getting a hug.
i'm probably gonna buy more
 
I remember years ago, my GF suggested we try those lamb skin condoms, they are like $30 for a 3 pack, I always thought they were just for people who wanted to try something new/ different, but this more recent GF I had, the first time we had sex, she insisted on the condom, and that it must be lambskin, I learned that they make these because some women are allergic to latex...I truly never knew this, just thought they were an upscale condom. LOL
 
LifeStyles makes non-latex non-lambskin condoms that are good. thats the kind i used.
I think they're aussie condoms

Is there anywhere they sell Mates condoms? they're probably expired by now but i'd love to own a pack just to have
 
I mean. It feels a little desensitized but it's not that bad. Unless us guys gets a worn out vagina then it's kind of pointless.
 
so i had sex for the first time four months ago a little while after posting this thread and i used a condom... it feels good but i can see how it can feel completely different without one on! and i have yet to try it... i just dont wanna get her pregnant or anything and we have no access to birth control at this time
 
I don't use condoms. Apparently there are all kinds of positive health benefits, for your partner, from having you jizz in her pussy.
 
I've tried standard condoms, lubed, ribbed, fire and ice. I would have to say the ribbed ones are fun. As a girl I see no huge difference with and without a condom but I don't usually use them.
 
I started off not using them so when I finally tried one it almost seemed pointless. Once you feel that warm, wet texture of a cooch having sex with a condom on literally feels like fucking a balloon. The difference in feeling is so large(for me at least) that I'd rather just not have sex than use one.

So I guess I'm pretty lucky I've never caught anything.
 
Well, it feels like there's a layer of rubber in between, so decidedly less pleasurable. Also, having to put it on is a slight mood-killer.
 
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