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kmark95

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I need a way to watch my husband's phone screen for free and at all times via my phone, is there a way anyone knows ti do that? An app or software or something? I need evidence for court I got babies involved please it's been going on for 5 years we've been married for ten and I can't take it anymore..please help me..I am so isolated and have no friends or family I'm trapped here please...
 
kmark95 said:
I need a way to watch my husband's phone screen for free and at all times via my phone, is there a way anyone knows ti do that? An app or software or something? I need evidence for court I got babies involved please it's been going on for 5 years we've been married for ten and I can't take it anymore..please help me..I am so isolated and have no friends or family I'm trapped here please...
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Are you sure about this?
 
Maybe you should pretend you're someone else... and see if he takes the bait?

Like in the song Babooshka by Kate Bush.
 
Just contact the phone service provider. If you're looking for proof of phone calls and texts, they will have it. If you want to put something on your husband's phone, I'm pretty sure that's illegal without his consent. Maybe if we knew exactly what you needed, we could be of more help.
 
As much as I dissaprove of invading ones personal privacy in general I understand this is for the greater good.

Yes you can nail him, especially if you have a smart phone. Here are some GPS trackers you could drop in his car https://www.brickhousesecurity.com/...1kSaC-TPCJj0xd7dsQFZL7LhvuQc3ZURoCse0QAvD_BwE

Some hidden cameras but check Amazon all shapes and sizes https://www.amazon.com/Camera-Surve...g_12909791_d_sccl_5/139-5319492-8474863?psc=1

Here is a magnetic voice recorder (again plenty available) https://www.kentfaith.com/GW63.0001...jzfXl3j2gq-w-5WAFaHjDHFuewzQN20xoCtBYQAvD_BwE

If you are wondering if some tech exists just ask I try and keep my ears t the ground.

Here is a phone monitoring app https://mspy.mobi/?partner_id=ipa-9...26GOyG1uFE6ssSN0nFv44ZBgbzeUF7xoCDWAQAvD_BwE#

Googlepay has a 'spy phones lab phones tracker' (Coudlnt figure out what it was)

article on how to spy on and 'control' androids https://mspy.mobi/?partner_id=ipa-9...26GOyG1uFE6ssSN0nFv44ZBgbzeUF7xoCDWAQAvD_BwE#

In general though pulling the phone records should probably be enough
 
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rentedbythehour said:
Just contact the phone service provider. If you're looking for proof of phone calls and texts, they will have it. If you want to put something on your husband's phone, I'm pretty sure that's illegal without his consent. Maybe if we knew exactly what you needed, we could be of more help.
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It most likely is illegal and any evidence you gain from it directly will most likely not be admissible. P.I?
 
rentedbythehour said:
Just contact the phone service provider. If you're looking for proof of phone calls and texts, they will have it. If you want to put something on your husband's phone, I'm pretty sure that's illegal without his consent. Maybe if we knew exactly what you needed, we could be of more help.
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phone service provider won't give away someone's data unless told to by a court

there's loads of ways to spy on people probably and OP needs to research that outside of this site really

there's also the possibility of some paranoia here as meth is involved (apols to op if it's 'real' but have seen this stuff over and over again when meth in particular is in the equation. )
 
If they are on the same plan, she should be able to get the records.
I haven't even considered the paranoia part. The post is pretty straightforward and no mention of meth.
I was thinking about this and I believe your best option would be to use one of the family monitoring tools. Whatever is decided, a program would have to be put on each phone.
 
rentedbythehour said:
If they are on the same plan, she should be able to get the records.
I haven't even considered the paranoia part. The post is pretty straightforward and no mention of meth.
I was thinking about this and I believe your best option would be to use one of the family monitoring tools. Whatever is decided, a program would have to be put on each phone.
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No, but their other comments are around IV Use of meth and BTH, so it's not outside the realm of possibility fwiw.

I've worked with a lot of really fucked up family situations that this reminds me of. There are no easy/cut and dry answers often, just people suffering and children bearing the biggest impact of it all. The number of kids I saw at Mass and Cass over the years really gets to me sometimes.
 
tryptakid said:
No, but their other comments are around IV Use of meth and BTH, so it's not outside the realm of possibility fwiw.

I've worked with a lot of really fucked up family situations that this reminds me of. There are no easy/cut and dry answers often, just people suffering and children bearing the biggest impact of it all. The number of kids I saw at Mass and Cass over the years really gets to me sometimes.
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Yeah methadone mile could be intense. I never actually went there but had a friend who lived nearby. She would always show videos. I seriously an concerned about the youngest generations. So many kids are subjected to situations they have absolutely no business being a part of. I can't help but wonder what will happen to them as they get older.
 
methamphetamine. Methadone users are usually fairly tame.


and OP if you are on meth that will kneecap your entire argument and all the things I suggested will just make you look like a 'paranoid methhead' --- srry I don't make the rules
 
kmark95 said:
I need a way to watch my husband's phone screen for free and at all times via my phone, is there a way anyone knows ti do that? An app or software or something? I need evidence for court I got babies involved please it's been going on for 5 years we've been married for ten and I can't take it anymore..please help me..I am so isolated and have no friends or family I'm trapped here please...
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I feel like I'm breaking some man code here, but men that keep their spouses trapped kind of pisses me off. I would suggest hitting up a darknet market and look for a hacker, or the sorts, in the 'services' section. I've never used one, but there are plenty of ethical hackers that can easily break into a cell phone. No idea on the cost though. Some just want to hone their skills or like the challenge.
 
mascal said:
I feel like I'm breaking some man code here, but men that keep their spouses trapped kind of pisses me off. I would suggest hitting up a darknet market and look for a hacker, or the sorts, in the 'services' section. I've never used one, but there are plenty of ethical hackers that can easily break into a cell phone. No idea on the cost though. Some just want to hone their skills or like the challenge.
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How do I find one of the sites?
 
Jeez. Where to start.

1). You need a computer. Your own computer. Cannnot use a cell or tablet and it cannot be a library one. It does play a factor. Just must be the same computer. Guess I it doesn’t have to be yours just it has to be the same computer.

2). Download TOR. It’s just another search engine but the domains are .onion. It’s an encrypted network that most people don’t use, because it’s a tad slower and it’s very very secret. Secret like people know about it, but it takes the feds a lot longer to track it.

3). Download. Kleopatra PGP. PGP stands for pretty good encryption, which it’s basically a fingerprint of you on that computer to verify stuff. Which is all encrypted. That’s why the one computer is so important. Make a key ring remember your passwords YouTube that shit.

4). Also get a VPN. Doesn’t matter as they’re pretty much all the same.. Nord VPN, Ghost, etc.I like tunnel bear personally cuz, well I like the near icon.

5). Once all that is set, use the tour browser and visit tor.taxi; shit I can’t remember off hand if that’s correct, but it will pop up. That will list different darknet addresses. Markets is one of the things you’ll find. And FYI, it’s only called darknet because normal internet is called clearnet and it’s just something that the powers that be, pieces of shit they are, want you scared to visit. It’s only a lot of information freely flown without censorship, that’s all. Not kp, contract killers, devil worship, etc.

6). Do the login stuff then search away. you will have to learn how to do the PGP crap, which again YouTube, and the market will walk you through everything else you need to do to access said site.

7). Crypto. You will need to use cryptocurrency for everything. BTC is obviously the big one. But Moreno (XMR) is usually the preferred crypto. Again, google/youtube if you don’t know crypto stuff. Crypto.com or Kraken would be my 2 suggestions when purchasing. But most apps, Venmo, PayPal, cash app, etc all have BTC options.

Um. That is darknet 101. Actually more like the prologue. And no. The government doesn’t put you on a list after. No, everyone will not have your info. They do not give a shit about you/us, we are not that important. That shit is only used to scare the masses into servitude.
 
Im not meaning to be dismissive of your situation, but how sure are you that hes cheating on you? What other evidence do you have and is it foolproof?

I use meth sporadically and have nearly completely destroyed loving relationships because I was SURE that my partner was or had been unfaithful and I still dont know tbh but I think I was way over reacting and if they were unfaithful it was a lot less than my mind was convinced of.

Make sure you are 110% positive before you do anything too full on and if this person is someone who you no longer love anyway then just end the relationship. If theres a chance that your wrong and you do love them then be VERY careful! Are you willing to lose the love of your life because you rushed into a false narrative?
Just some food for thought.
 
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