Cant stop hitting on people

[Brandasaur]

Is it just me or is it impossible to NOT hit on girls when you do MDMA with them? About once a week I pick up a half gram of the highest quality mdma i have ever had, and its not a half gram usually its around .7, and I see which lovely cute females would like to split it with me. I say cute lovely females because for some reason I only like doing MDMA when im around attractive females, I have no idea why. The day would usually consist of sitting in a warm house doing bump after bump listening to some good dubstep. Then I do 350 mg+, get insanely high and i just start hitting on them, sometimes it leads to sex sometimes it doesnt. Not that I hit on them just to get sex, I hit on them for no goddamn reason besides theyre attractive. Im not usually like this, Im not one of those creepy guys who hits on every girl but on MDMA I just cant stop! Its not hitting on them as in "yo biatch how bout you jump on ma d" Its more like "You know, youre really cute, lets cuddle?" I just feel some sort of connection with whoever it is, everytime i look into their eyes i feel like im in love or something. I know that im not really and that im just fucking floored off of such a high dose, but i just feel the feelings and enjoy them. Anybody else get this? I also love doing MDMA at raves, and I usually go to about one a month. This hitting on girls thing really helps me come out of my shell at these musical extravaganzas though, I end up dancing with every cute girl I see and sometimes I end up become buddys after. Anybody else get this? Do you find MDMA a good way to break the ice? I know smoking a few joints with a girl is a good way to keep yourselves entertained while chilling but its easy to get sucked into the "stoner friend zone". With MDMA I find it establishes a deeper connection with the person and makes it easier for you to become really good friends or even more.

 

[Ella84]

At the risk of sounding a bit obvious here, I think that loving "connected" feeling is half the reason that a lot of people take MDMA. If you're already attracted to someone beforehand, then when you're high it makes sense that the feeling is amplified. And I'm with you on it establishing a deeper connection: even once you've come down, the memory of how you close you felt to a person while you were peaking can still be incredibly powerful. Some of my greatest friendships now have come about from rolling with those people when I was just getting to know them.

 

[amberskye09]

If you get the drug, the dose and the atmosphere spot on this is what happens and its amazing. Its also what makes it a bit dangerous for females who potentially culd find themselves having random sex with random people. As a girl I did it with a b/f or very close friends who wuld keep an eye on my wandering eyes and hands Just keep the weed to a minimum to avoid that bolloxed tongue-tied zone cus its abut as attractive as a dog turd and no girl wants to chat with a dog turd. enjy, enjy enjoy but please....stay safe. A lot of girls fake being loved up so that they can steal your stash or rob ya in places like raves. Oh....and dont hit on someone elses g/f. Sure fire way to get yr butt kicked. Many friendships have been born out of MDMA....sadly they are usually only friends while the party is going. Sit together on a Tuesday night with nthing but the TV and you may have nothing to talk abut. Enjoy it for what it is. Mashed up people, chatting shit to mashed up people and having fun.......a bloody good sex if yr lucky

 

[swedger77]

Although your telling yourself your not being creepy................................YOUR BEING VERY CREEPY.

Drugging girls to crack on to them.

I think that sums up whats happening here.

 

[matt2012]

There was a very intriging thread a little while ago about if the over atraction to people caused by MDMA was "real" or just brought on by the drug. my asertion was that it is just as real as a bond between mother and child. MDMA causes a release of oxytocin as does breast feeding. so saying that over attraction on MDMA is fake attraction is like saying that the mother child bond is fake as well.

MDMA does not produce the atraction, it is already there, just more intense that normal because the increased oxytocin levels. if you are on MDMA you are not going to fall head over heals for a pig ugly beast that is more anoying than a cat in heat just because you took the drug. if atraction is there, you might find that you are more open to the idea of being with that person while on MDMA but you are still in control enough to gauge their atraction to you and make decisions based on that.

from reading your case...you are just creepin on girls at the club because your inhibitions have been lowered to that level. yes it is creepy hopping fom girl to girl at the club and if you are the only one in the pair rolling...you are going to seem extra creepy to the object of you desires.

No offense meant but you sound like the Jersey Shore dudes trolling the club for anything...just this side of disgusting, to rub yourself on for the night. maybe you should look elsewhere for both women and a setting to take MDMA in. maybe have a house party with a few friends who just happen to know a good looking girl who would be into that kind of thing.

At any rate...jumping from bar stool to bar stool looking for a some gash is not becoming for anyone no matter what their DOC is.

 

[Clocktower]

Is it just me or is it impossible to NOT hit on girls when you do MDMA with them?

No... it's not impossible. If you can't control your impulses, try taking a dose smaller than 350 mg. 8)

Then I do 350 mg+, get insanely high and i just start hitting on them, sometimes it leads to sex sometimes it doesnt.

Now, I don't know all the details here, so I don't want to be accusatory, but:

Please be aware that a woman cannot consent to sex if she's intoxicated. Before she takes any drugs, she must say that she is willing to have sex. Otherwise, this is rape.

 

[Chesh]

Please be aware that a woman cannot consent to sex if she's intoxicated. Before she takes any drugs, she must say that she is willing to have sex. Otherwise, this is rape.

Sounds a bit extreme mate. What if the intoxicated girl is hitting on the intoxicated guy and it leads to sex, is the girl raping the guy?

 

[laugh]

op sounds like a real douche bag imo. i could only be fucked to read the first few sentences cause all i perceived was wank wank wank wank wank wank.

 

[matt2012]

I will never ever believe the "I was too fucked up to know what I was doing" thing when it comes to MDMA. I have taken alot of it and been in full control the whole time no matter what the dose. If someone comes at me with the MDMA made me do it excuse I tell them they are a lier...

 

[Cz_x]

What's wrong with just settling for a cuddle puddle on the living room floor.

 

[laugh]

its not rapey enough

 

[Clocktower]

From Wikipedia:

Lack of consent may result from either forcible compulsion by the perpetrator or an incapacity to consent on the part of the victim (such as persons who are asleep, intoxicated or otherwise mentally helpless)

What if the intoxicated girl is hitting on the intoxicated guy and it leads to sex, is the girl raping the guy?

Okay, I referred to the woman as the one who gives consent because I had the OP's post in mind. If, on the other hand, the woman initiates sex and it's the man who's unable to give consent, then she's the rapist, not him.

From Wikipedia:

In 47% of rapes [in the USA], both the victim and the perpetrator had been drinking.

Which means that the most common type of rape may be that in which both parties are drunk.

The important thing to remember is that any rape can potentially cause psychological trauma for the survivor. Because of that, there are HR policies for sex as well as for drugs. Just as you should test your MDMA before you take it, you should get positive consent from your partner before you have sex (the first time, at least!).

 

[Thizz Man]

Purest stuff ayye?


British Columbia?


Hmm...