This is starting to drive me nuts. So this girl and I hangout fairly often I'd say 3 or so times a week, we're both flirtatious, she calls me her boo and "love" and other little pet names as such. She also wants to go out to dinner sometime to help me "loosen up" as she notices I get a little shy around her (and only around her). I'm confused as hell though as to her intentions, if she's just being friendly and playful, or if she actually wants something more. Usually I can tell when a girl is interested in me by body language and the way she acts and talks. With this girl I'm drawing a blank, she's very unpredictable. One minute she seems to be somewhat jealous over me chatting with a female friend (she said if I wanted to hangout to call her instead of this female friend [the female friend is quite the ho and could possibly jeopardize my recovery] and her overall demeanor changed when she saw me talking to her) the next minute I might not hear from her all day (she's in drug court, has a child, a job, and other personal stuff) or she seems somewhat distant. She's going through a med change for her anxiety so that may possibly be the culprit for some of her behavior.
In short, normally I can gauge if a girl likes me or not. Not to sound egotistical but I generally have a high success rate with girls when I try to begin a relationship. This girl just seems to be playing hard to get. So... I know two addicts in early recovery is a "no no" but that's not the issue at hand. My question is, is this girl just playing hard to get, likes me but isn't ready for a relationship, or just being friendly and playful? Please feel free to criticize in anyway. I just feel as if I'm beating my head against the wall.
For the ladies: What types of things do you do to play hard to get or to test a guys true motives? Any insight is appreciated.
Thanks all for your input.
In short, normally I can gauge if a girl likes me or not. Not to sound egotistical but I generally have a high success rate with girls when I try to begin a relationship. This girl just seems to be playing hard to get. So... I know two addicts in early recovery is a "no no" but that's not the issue at hand. My question is, is this girl just playing hard to get, likes me but isn't ready for a relationship, or just being friendly and playful? Please feel free to criticize in anyway. I just feel as if I'm beating my head against the wall.
For the ladies: What types of things do you do to play hard to get or to test a guys true motives? Any insight is appreciated.
Thanks all for your input.