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Can't get a GF because ugly as fuck

Michael I saw that your last activity was on 3 July -- you may disregard this because it doesn't respond your question although it's linked. I think nowadays everyone's looking for a relationship -- not for your generic reasons like .. loneliness or you know ''feeling complete'' but for a purpose/relief. Sort of concious dream state in one word. Also this or these women/s you spoke with which they rejected with this senseless slap are your average human being. Being a women as we all know -- it's easier from all view points. There are still sane people out there who will burn roses for you but you have to look carefully. It will not happen over-night, hopefully it will but let's think logical not emotionally.
 
One of the three men I’ve fallen in love with would be considered a 4/10 on a good day. He would identify himself as a 1/10 in the looks department. I was not blind to the things that made him not typically handsome. He was absolutely beautiful to me, however. It was his ways, his utterly charming habits, his ease in communication, the fact that we could talk about anything and nothing seemingly shocked him, and his IDGAF sense of style that made him so very beautiful. He would actually talk about “being the ugly guy” among his roommates in the past, but he didn’t say it in a way that made one feel sorry for him. He had a fantastic personality, and he could make fun of himself, mostly for his looks, but not in a creepy, I-hate-myself kind of way. He just would joke about his nose being big, or his legs being super hairy, etc.
He actually might not have been so adorable and lovable if he was really good looking. I think he felt perhaps that he had to work on his personality early on if he had any hope of being successful with women. I have met some of the women whom he’s dated and all of them are fairly attractive.
He’s dated a lot of women. I’m quite sure that the women he’s dated have also dated men that were much better looking than he is/was. The ace in his hand is his personality. You can work on that 100%. It has nothing to do with looks.
 
How big is your dick? JK but seriously if you have no self confidence women notice. It’s not about your looks I find chubby guys attractive. Intelligence, personality and niceness are far more important than looks. Also are you going for women who are 9/10 and superficial as hell. Find someone who appreciates the geeky things you do, I for one love dorky/nerdy man. Get that confidence up (fake it) and eventually you will cum (haha) across a woman that will fall head over heals for you.
 
It is true that people have to have a personality, because others tend to want to be in relationships and want somebody interesting. If you don't find yourself interesting you should figure out why by interacting with women. That's the most direct approach. I've done both that and reading about what to do. Now that I know what to do I don't care, but I always can do something if I feel like it so that's what counts

Another thing, people you find attractive should be approached differently. Once you build confidence and relax you'll know what to do in that situation too. The only thing I can say generally about people is that everybody's different in how they view themselves so it's important to learn how to pick up on that. People who get a lot of validation from their peers (attractive people) have all kinds of safeguards in place so they aren't hurt by others. Therefore it takes experience to meet these people, like for real. Not just who they appear as

I read a comment before about people who are validated that basically says these people don't need a personality or not much of one, but to me that's counterintuitive. I don't see any reason to speculate on this. Do what makes sense to you and take your time

Good luck
 
hire an escort or go to a brothel or if you want a gf but you think your ugly ill pay you for surgery but you have to do something for me pm me
 
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