Hmm I had a conversation about this the other day. I usually smoke daily, but if I skip a couple days and hit some bongs of good weed, I can't hide it very well. Or, I don't think I can --- couple weeks ago got REALLY stoned with a friend, and a third party was like "um, you guys don't even look high?" I also spent a lot of time going to class and work stoned, where I had to play it off. I never really got called out on it...but I was doing what I was supposed to be doing well, so I don't know how much anyone who could have noticed may have cared.
My mom (may she rest in peace) always used to know if I came home stoned though! I was MUCH less experienced back then and couldn't shut my mouth --- would talk way more thinking that was covering how stoned I was. My dad, on the other hand...I'm open about it, I have my shit together for the most part so he doesn't care. I don't live at home, anyway.
Also, my eyes don't get very red. I feel like people with lighter colored eyes are more noticeable in that respect...my brown eyes don't seem to get picked up on, even if they are a bit blazed-looking. Friends of mine who only smoke once/twice a week can't play off being stoned for anything, but that's the point --- they aren't gonna do it if it'll be in a situation where they have to hide it.
For those who mentioned having to hide it when out in public, like a supermarket/store of some kind...I so disagree. Just go for it, BIG chance that no one gives a shit. Personally, if I can notice someone is stoned in public, it's much better than when someone is noticeably drunk as fuck in public --- I don't wanna compare the two, but if you're wasted, there's NO way to hide it, no matter how "good" you think you are. I can play that one off well too if I'm drunk, but if I'm a total wreck, there's no way whatsoever.
So, overall, I think I can control being high pretty well but...it's not nearly as fun as just enjoying how blazed you are
