my boyfriend and i have been living together for under a year and have been together for a little over a year. everything has been good but as the months have passed, weve bought more stuff for the apartment. im not the most organized person myself but since ive moved out ive become more responsible. my boyfriend on the other hand likes to leave things everywhere. for example, if we go out to buy stuff or do errands, he'll leave everything at the door. lets say he buys toilet paper... if he needs it, he'd rather walk all the way to the main entracne where he left it instead of just putting the pack of toilet paper in the closet next to our washroom. when he opens packages, he leaves the wrappers and garbage right where he leaves it. so our apartment becomes easily cluttered, and i usually just clean up everything myself but lately its been getting on my nerves watching him game all the time. more so when i try to talk to him about it nicely and he just shrugs it off or makes up excuses, or worse, gets upset that im bringing it up at all. this whole situation is frustrating because it makes me feel like a mom and thats the last thing i want to be. it's just become really annoying.
our sex has always been good but lately its like all he wants to do is game. outside of sex he is still affectionate and good with me but i really hate initiating and yesterday when we finally got to do it, i was just not into it during the sex because it took him so long to cum. so we stopped. and it made me feel shitty afterwards. we used to fuck almost everyday and lately its spanning out to like every 3-4 days and its not really the best, especially knowing that i was the one who initiated it. and knowing that he'll hop right back on his game, as if sex interrupted it or something.
have i lost my boyfriend to wow? this whole sex thing is getting to me a lot and it makes me act all hypersensitive and sometimes he actually has no clue why despite how he knows i want to have sex. what can i do? in regards to the cleaning, is he always just going to be lazy, like should i give up on asking him to help out or at least simply put things away?
our sex has always been good but lately its like all he wants to do is game. outside of sex he is still affectionate and good with me but i really hate initiating and yesterday when we finally got to do it, i was just not into it during the sex because it took him so long to cum. so we stopped. and it made me feel shitty afterwards. we used to fuck almost everyday and lately its spanning out to like every 3-4 days and its not really the best, especially knowing that i was the one who initiated it. and knowing that he'll hop right back on his game, as if sex interrupted it or something.
have i lost my boyfriend to wow? this whole sex thing is getting to me a lot and it makes me act all hypersensitive and sometimes he actually has no clue why despite how he knows i want to have sex. what can i do? in regards to the cleaning, is he always just going to be lazy, like should i give up on asking him to help out or at least simply put things away?