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Boyfriend doesn't go down on me

Funny, the same guy I was writing about up here said he's never done it, cause his last GF didn't wash, and he wasn't going to do it. Doesn't seem like he's been too into the whole thing in itself, but he said he would do it for me, as he perceives me as some pure thing.

Another funny thing he said about women and receiving oralsex was, "They don't care, they just want the cock."


Mr.Scagnattie said:
Yeah.. If he has to hold his breath to stop from gagging while he's down there... then I could understand a guys hesitation. Hah. I've been at the receiving end of some pretty brutal box stank before... It's like an olfactory punch in the face. :\
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Yea, he also said he has a very strong sense of smell and suffered as his GF would drink every day.
 
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Although I have no qualms going down on my girl and do so frequently comparing giving oral sex to a girl to giving oral to a guy is not even on the same level. A mans dick is just skin really but a girls vagina is a moist nest of bacteria and sometimes unpleasant odor. I mean a vagina is litterally an armpit with a hole that leads to the interior of the human body. I've been with a girl or two with pussies that smell like feet lol, there's no fuckin way you could get me to go down on those females. Even if you can't smell yourself from above, once your face first in some coochie odors make their appearance. Maybe your boyfriend just doesn't wanna hurt your feelings by telling you your vagina has a foul odor? Either way dumping someone cuz they don't wanna stick their mouth in your bacteria cave is pretty fucking rediculous IMO, apparently I'm the minority though.
 
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I think the solution to this is, if you have a bathtube, sit down in the water for 20 minutes or so (after having washed the external stuff off).

BEFORE you're going to do it.

This should pretty much take care of the problem as the water will wash out the cavity.
 
^ I agree, if he doesn't wana go down on you in or after a good shower then he probably is selfish. Going down on a woman who is clean is good, natural fun... kinda tastes like mild olives lol.
 
Its just selfishness and laziness u poor thing. We all deserve to be loved, and him not even asking if u got off or being concerned with your satisfaction reeks of an especially stinky and uncaring asshole. I hear you say you love him, and I know u want to believe he loves you(and he very well may) but if he continues to shove his dick in your mouth , and especially if u bring him to orgasm, and then he just stops........that's just fucked up. Even if he is self conscious about his ability to please you (something I went through when I was younger) when I was in love I pushed through my embarrassment and started trying to learn by just fucking paying attention and trying different shit and finally discovered internet porn my confidence grew quickly. No better feeling than understanding your lover and just playing her body like a piano, pinching and stroking and licking her keys until her body trembles and sings in climax.... I almost took a bow when I finally achieved what I had been studying for. anyways honey, sometimes u just gotta take matters into your own hands and touch yourself. Hey another idea is get him to watch porn with you and be sure to mention how much u wanna do this or that or whatever. If he still acts like his wonderful sculpted Greek cock humping away until he cums should be plenty of time for u to have several orgasms and if not well better luck next time now can u shush he's trying to watch the game.....that guy is unworthy of your love and u really shouldn't waste any more time girl. Good luck and sorry if I repulsed or offended anyone. This is me without sleep since Friday night I just....can't...shut....up
 
Ah, Im pretty sure it isn't an odor issue for many reasons. For me anyways. I just find myself wondering, I mean, any other guy would be chomping at the bit to watch his girl masturbate, right? I've had guys beg me to do it in front of them, so for him to not be interested is strange to me. I don't have a problem getting off, I do it all the time. I would just love some company while doing so :)
 
I have the opposite problem, whenever I hint at going down on her ie kissing around her inner thigh an making my way to her vag she always grabs my head and makes me kiss her... I just want to make her feel real good :(
 
Some men simply are repressed, including my husband. I still love him though; he has many other qualities; sex is NOT the be-all...
 
You have to show some guys the routine.

Have a slow, drawn-out, tease-and-please session and explicitly show/demonstrate/guide
 
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