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Boyfriend cannot cum without squat position. What can be done?

TBH he could just have a issue orgasming it's extremely complicated and your body has to switch between sympathetic and parasympathetic signaling. It needs to be able to dialate veins relax smooth muscles cause contractions ECT ECT. I can tell you from drug induced orgasming difficulty ability to orgasm and how attactive he finds you are two different things. I'd focus on sex and if he needs to finish himself off not sweat it just focus on the before during and after orgasm because that's really what matters IMO.
 
Does he take any sort of stimulants? I take them and have found it harder to reach climax in certain positions, particularly if I am not tensing my thighs. However I found a fix for myself was to enjoy the sensation of my ex-girlfriend having sex with me but for the most part it's thought. I let my imagination run wild slid my hands all over her body enjoying every curve and muscle constricting and contracting in pleasure. The hardest position I'm having cumming right now is the squatting position as if sitting on a low toilet. He really needs to let his imagination run wild. Also I found lots of foreplay for the other person tends to make it easier for me and it could work for him. He riles you up and listens to your moans feels your body quiver and shudder in pleasure and seeing you enjoy yourself so much from what he is doing is a huge turn on not to mention ego boost for him and he'll be able to relax. If he isn't relaxing he is essentially just forcing himself to cum. When he gets really good at it he can go for hours and finish any time he pleases. My ex girlfriend loved and probably still would if we didn't have disagreements about how we'd raise our future children. She was a free spirit and I a forever student, always wanting to learn I loved information and scientific advancement she loved nature and doing everything impulsively. Honestly I miss her but she could of brought the problems to my attention and we could work on them like you are working on them with your boyfriend. But then again I like logic and she doesn't think logically but emotionally. It's all about frame of mind for your boyfriend and if he can get out of his head for a while he will be able to cum in any position.
 
SecretRaven said:
Does he take any sort of stimulants? I take them and have found it harder to reach climax in certain positions, particularly if I am not tensing my thighs. However I found a fix for myself was to enjoy the sensation of my ex-girlfriend having sex with me but for the most part it's thought. I let my imagination run wild slid my hands all over her body enjoying every curve and muscle constricting and contracting in pleasure. The hardest position I'm having cumming right now is the squatting position as if sitting on a low toilet. He really needs to let his imagination run wild. Also I found lots of foreplay for the other person tends to make it easier for me and it could work for him. He riles you up and listens to your moans feels your body quiver and shudder in pleasure and seeing you enjoy yourself so much from what he is doing is a huge turn on not to mention ego boost for him and he'll be able to relax. If he isn't relaxing he is essentially just forcing himself to cum. When he gets really good at it he can go for hours and finish any time he pleases. My ex girlfriend loved and probably still would if we didn't have disagreements about how we'd raise our future children. She was a free spirit and I a forever student, always wanting to learn I loved information and scientific advancement she loved nature and doing everything impulsively. Honestly I miss her but she could of brought the problems to my attention and we could work on them like you are working on them with your boyfriend. But then again I like logic and she doesn't think logically but emotionally. It's all about frame of mind for your boyfriend and if he can get out of his head for a while he will be able to cum in any position.
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Thank you for this! He is not on any stimulants that I know of. He has mentioned plenty of times that he has had this with other women and that it is not new.
 
Jackal said:
I really wouldn't worry too much. At the end of the day; if he doesn't come it's his loss.
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And what if tables were turned and she needed something unusual done to finish ? Would you say the same ? Because that's not how it works in a relationship that's meant to last. Can't just say your orgasm is your responsibility.
 
Durzo1258 said:
And what if tables were turned and she needed something unusual done to finish ? Would you say the same ? Because that's not how it works in a relationship that's meant to last. Can't just say your orgasm is your responsibility.
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Well the rest of my post puts that first sentence into context.


Context is important.
 
Jackal said:
Well the rest of my post puts that first sentence into context.


Context is important.
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I've read it. She can't ignore that either. Ignoring it altogether is hardly a better solution to making a big deal out of it. Especially that it clearly bothers her enough to post it here.
 
Btw I tried masterbating in your boyfriend's position deep squat on tippy toes and IMO he's not lying it was considerably easier to keep an erection compared to masterbating lying on back or in positioned in doggy on knees standing up and in doggy hunched over. More over the more hunches off in doggy type position which puts pressure on the lower abdomen more and more like his position. Where also significant but not as strong at ease of keeping a erection.
 
d1nach said:
Btw I tried masterbating in your boyfriend's position deep squat on tippy toes and IMO he's not lying it was considerably easier to keep an erection compared to masterbating lying on back or in positioned in doggy on knees standing up and in doggy hunched over. More over the more hunches off in doggy type position which puts pressure on the lower abdomen more and more like his position. Where also significant but not as strong at ease of keeping a erection.
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How is it easy to keep an erection? I'm wondering how a man even discovers this position however.
 
It's probably the same reason that it's the most natural position to poop. It allows maximum relaxation of the pelvic floor muscles.
 
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