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bored by female orgasm

You should just call me to get her ready for you, and just when she about to orgasm you can take over.

But be warned I can go for hours just enjoying the penetration and position changing, ejaculating is the boring part, half the fun is taking your time getting there, sometimes I wish I never ejaculated because then its all over, I really don't see what you complaining about other than being a 2 minute man.
 
Sounds like the girl you're with just isn't doing it for you. Maybe you don't find her attractive enough. I don't think you're investing enough in foreplay. Not only does get her horny and wet it also lets you discover what she really drives her crazy.

I never go straight to fucking my girlfriend. I know she's already in the mood when I'm kissing her in bed but I take my time to kiss her neck and suck her nipples before slowly working my way down to her pussy. By doing that I found out that she loves oral. Some guys don't like giving a girl head but I really enjoy this with my girl. It drives her wild and sometimes she's already had 2 orgasms before I start fucking her and her pussy is drenched. I get off more on hearing my girlfriend writhing and moaning than having an orgasm myself.

A lot of the time sex comes down to communication. Perhaps you need to talk more about it with your girlfriend and ask her what really does it for her in bed.
 
venus_ said:
And give up on uir view because, the lady always comes first.
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Most of your post was spot-on and IN NO WAY do I agree with the OP (he must be trolling, surely), but this is absolutely not right.

It should mostly be an equal declaration of love, sometimes focussing solely on the male's pleasure, sometime's focussing solely on the female's pleasure.....but to say that the lady ALWAYS comes first isn't fair or correct in the slightest.
 
theredone:
"I can enjoy cuddling and her petting me...Seeing her happy and feeling 'manly' since I'm better in everything: more beautiful, smarter, healthier.
But is it all worth distroying the future of my own future offspring? With an unsuitable mate.
I always wanted for things to be like this, for me to be better in everything so I can control her, and she is addicted to me. Playboy bitches I can't control them or manipulate or tell them shit or ever feel superior to them. They can just leave and find better sponsor."
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This is the best paragraph of anything I've ever read. The last line, especially that I've emboldened had my crawling on the fucking floor with laughter.
 
A woman can tell when you're bored with her, and she likely feels hurt and unappreciated. I wasn't able to orgasm with my boyfriend til we'd been together awhile, I never realized how much emotion had to do with it. I'm able to orgasm in about 30 minutes by myself with a vibrator, but now, when I'm with my boyfriend, I can get off in 5-10 minutes, because he makes me feel loved and special. I can also orgasm faster from anal sex. you could try it with your girlfriend, but some women don't like it. It might be a new and interesting sensation for you both. Maybe she doesn't get enough stimulation from vaginal sex. Let her use a vibrator. And if you don't even care about her enough to hold her after sex, you don't deserve her.
 
_mistresspoppy_ said:
I can also orgasm faster from anal sex
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Serious? I honestly didn't know this was possible. My gf has never shown any interest in it, and the prospect doesn't fill me with lust, but I would give it a go if it was good for her.

And yeah, I can sort of understand the OPs frustrations, at least he shows some interest in his woman's pleasure, compare the other thread where the wife is giving her husband blowjobs to relieve her own frustration yet he shows absolutely no interest in her... maybe he didn't word his post very sensitively.

EDIT: Mind you I've just read another of his posts and he does come across as a complete dick.
 
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Sorry dude, but women have different sexual needs than men. If you want someone who operates like you do, then have sex with a man. 8)

A lot of good advice have been given in this thread. I suggest you take it.

I have a feeling you aren't actually that interested in pleasing your girlfriend, and that you just want an outlet to bitch.

It doesn't have to take an hour for her to orgasm. Like Chazra said, I can get off in a matter of minutes and I always get in a few before my boyfriend even gets one. Because he knows how to please me, and it's not rocket science to learn how to please a woman, just listen to what everyone here is telling you.
 
I agree.

If you want to please someone you have to let go of your ego. I don't know about you, but when I please someone I care about I also please myself.

I actually obsess about how to please the woman I care about, because we are so different physiologically.

Men are easy to please, because I am also a man.
 
OpioPhyllis said:
Most women are unable to orgasm with vaginal sex!! This is 2011, I'd think most people would know this by now! It's such ignorant stances that lead women into the vicious cycle of fake orgasms and shame.
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well i have only been with 2 girls and my first orgasmed during sex at least once and she wasn't faking, i felt it :P
 
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citizen cained said:
well i have only been with 2 girls and my first orgasmed during sex at least once and she wasn't faking, i felt it :P
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Yep, when I first had sex with my current gf she came four times purely (OK there was foreplay) from penetration. I felt it, and she told me.

But for some reason she's not so orgasmic that way nowadays and needs clitoral stimulation. Which is fine as I like to give it.
 
theredone said:
Hello folks!

No long stories today...although the problems are basically the same...

I will keep it short and to the point:
Many gurus around use to advice that one always should keep the lady (aka female in my vocabulary) happy by giving her a good orgasm, and as long as you're "a real-man" and the girl is happy you're golden and the relationships is going to blossom and no more children will be hungry in Africa etc..

Well not! After few minutes I simply want to ejaculate, but she is nowhere ready. actually, she's bored!! I have to slow down many times and to put off the ejaculation and literally it takes her 20 minutes of f-king for her to get really hot and crazy...and another 10 for me to simultaneously caress her boobs with one hand, hold her clit with another and fuck her - all simultaneously for her to be able to have one simple orgasm which is nothing like "she is losing control etc.", but more like mhmmmm and that's it. I consider penis size of 7'' to be sufficient.

Jez is everyone there like that? I am sooo bored. After putting off ejaculation for one or two times, I lose intrest in sex myself and do the rest as a chore, I literaly then can continue f-king her for hours, sometimes even I can't ejaculate...I get bored from putting it off all the time in the beginning.

Who the hell invented "get the female satisfied" concept?? Hope that guy is now burning in HELL. In oldies goldies times it was fuck & go, and the girl didn't have any right to object...and today...

Not to mention that she never woke me up with a blowjob although I told her I would like a few times...in fact she only gives bj's when I argue and pressure her into doing...and then she whines months later...

What a spoiled prick...
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Penis size doesn't mean shit, its how you use it they matters, I say this as a woman.

So, I have a suggestion on how to make everyone happy .

You two break up, you switch to masterbation or prostitute. And she switches to a real man.

Everyone wins.
 
It's a 4 year old thread. The OP sounds like he did not love his gf. There was no spark. The feeling was probably mutual. Otherwise, the would have enjoyed each other more. He would have spent more time with foreplay.

Also, some women need more foreplay than others. OP did not recognize that.
 
Change the girl and feel free. This is not ok if you feel boring near nude girl.
 
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