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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

doofqueen said:
That sucks Kitty. You remind me so much of myself in so many of your posts. Well the old me really (not meaning that in a put down way at all like i have 'evolved' or anything) I just see alot of me in you. So many people play so man heart and head games when they don't have good intentions. Trusting people all the time sux but I had to learn that i was only seeing what i wanted to most of the time and blocking the bad. Sometimes you have to take a few steps back and breathe princess :)
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Really? =D

Yeah im finding out that a lot of people just play games to entertain themselves or makes themselves feel better about who they are.... which i think is terribly sad :|

That is very good advice about seeing the whole picture .... its very important to protect yourself and realise that at the end of the day, the people worth spending time and energy, love and attention on aren't necessarily the ones you are sleeping with it seems.

It's true that boys like this do give all the others a terrible name ..... now i don't want to trust anyone.

I have another date on Thursday with another boy .... and I don't know what to expect after this last one.

Considering the second last date i went on with a different boy was the worse thing i have ever been on cos it involved the boy divulging his criminal record, his bodily habits, his alcoholism .....

This little princess has kept out of trouble so well ..... but considering it seems to be my middle name, no matter what i do, i always end up in mischief :p :D
 
zephyr said:
What a cunt that chode is.
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I just had to point out that spectacular insult. Not only is this guy a undesirable penis, wider then it is long, he is in fact a ladies intimate parts.

Genius. :)
 
Hmm I dont mean to be rocking the boat of sympathy here, but sometimes life just works out like that . It doesnt mean that he didnt mean any of it at the time, and it doesnt mean that he knew he was going back to his ex at the time.

You cant help who you fall for , or when. And yes, in life there are definitely going to be times when two people overlap. That situation shouldnt have to be interpreted as an absolute reflection into the type of person he is regarding his level of compassion or his quality of character

The fact that you know that is the case, Im going to assume he told you, and thats more than what most guys will do.

It sucks to be you right now, but how bad you feel doesnt always justify an onslaught of profanities and negativity his way. This is all contingent on the fact that he fuck you over by dating you both at once or what ever .

You dont want to be 'staunchly single' you want to be loved, as you said later, so dont deny yourself what you need when its in front of your face. You know you wont just as well as I know you wont. The negativity of that statement gives it some credence which may lead to a self forfilling prophecy.

Let go of the unnecessary negative shit and move forward !
 
And no i'm not suffering from "Depression" so ram a giant penis up yourselves!!!

princess_kitti said:
It's true that boys like this do give all the others a terrible name ..... now i don't want to trust anyone.

I have another date on Thursday with another boy .... and I don't know what to expect after this last one.
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Hmm, well guys are cunts. I'm not going to deny this. And as I'm SURE a few people can agree I've definately shown my cuntius side on many many many many many (you get the idea) occasions.

However some people, will one day turn around and say to themselves "You know what, this isn't right". Now I can't at all say that all guys will do this, however a month or so ago, I did this. You look back at everything that you've done, you look at the way you treat girls, and you realise that it deffinatley isn't how you should be treating them.

It's not right to just treat girls like shit, then turn around and suddenly expect them to do whatever you say/want. Expect them to fall at your feet and do everything in thier powers for you.

Now don't get me wrong, yes it's great to have a bit of fun every now and then, however all the time? That's just silly.

Maybe it's because some guys have been hurt a fuckload (just talking from prior expeceriences), and thus they turn into cunts. i.e if you've been dumped by two seperate girls, one went of and ended up getting pregnant and then marrying the other guy, and the second one just went off and cheated then got pregnant with the other guy. Trust me, it's pretty hard to actually go and trust people again.

Instead of just not trusting people, if I do end up liking someone, I usually start treating them like crap, I don't know exactly why it's all gone down this road, maybe it's a test. To see if I can treat them the same way that I've been treated in the past, if they stay then thier a keeper.

I know that all sounds pretty silly, but it's damn difficult.......


Anyways I'm off... AJ
 
*hugs AJ* That sounds to me like "hurt before you get hurt". :(

...and no, it doesn't sound silly at all.

edit: I didn't mean that the whole hurt before you get hurt wasn't silly. I actually don't think it's "silly", it just seems to be a frame of mind people tend to get into when they've been hurt time and time again. I've been there myself. :(
 
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Buh... I don't need hugz babe =D... It all happened a longggggggg time ago :-). Just thought I'd add my 2 Cents into this thread :P hehe...

But yeah, pretty much Hurt B4 u Get Hurt...

In other words, go nuts Princess ;)... Kick em in the plums :D
 
If you're hurting its hard not to be selfish.

But even being 100% selfish the way you treat other people damages your perception of yourself. ie. How much you like being you
 
My cunt radar theory:

Women have to really develop this skill called "cunt radar".

My "cunt radar" is really finely tuned now. I can spot one a mile off. They usually travel in packs and operate via showering the unsuspecting victim with compliments to bolster their self esteem and to make themselves look like a hero.

After the conquest (usually a one nighter, maybe two or three) the predator disappears without a trace, leaving the female wondering what THEY did wrong. Sometimes they leave with a shit excuse that makes THEM look good and HOW DARE YOU try to trap him!

I think certain men operate like this because they are actually have very small penises and are lousy in bed- they usually just please themselves and dont give a shit about the female as they arent going to stick around anyway.

(Yes, women can be cunts too, I have used a couple of men for no other reason than I just COULD and wanted to, and didnt really care about their experience, just mine. When I am with someone I actually care about though, theiy are a top priority. :D).

Us girls have to be totally honest with ourselves if we are to avoid the male cunt. If you just want to get laid, the cunt is the way to go- they are easy and dont require any effort- but dont expect great sex from them (from a couple of ho-hum experiences Ive had, I am so tempted to tell a couple of cunts just how BAD they are, but Im too nice :))

If you really do want a relationship (and there is nothing wrong with admitting that) avoid the male cunt entirely. If you arent sure the guy is a cunt, ask his friends or people who know him as reputations do precede most people and make them wait to get laid. This means YOU have to wait too but the sex is generally a lot better that way.

I think just because you have been burned by someone in the past does not give you the right to fuck with someone who had nothing to do with it. That is a complete load of shit. Everyone has been burned in the past (unless you are a complete virgin). How you deal with that is a measure of your maturity. :p
 
While I agree with much of your post zeph, I must disagree about one thing... the sex part. I've known several cunts in my time and I'd have the say the fabulous sex has been part of the package.

It's like an added taunt... here, have this great sex for one (or two, or three ;)) nights, but no... you can't have it all the time.

Certain events of the last few years have led to some fine tuning of my cunt radar too. But strangely, I still find them so fucking attractive ;)
 
Also the prettier a woman is, the worse she is in bed as she never had a reason to improve at it. :-)
 
Awesome! *jumps on the generalisation bandwagon*

I've always found small-boobs girls much kinkier and larger and/or unattractive girls much dirtier.

Over to you FaTz
 
katmeow said:
While I agree with much of your post zeph, I must disagree about one thing... the sex part. I've known several cunts in my time and I'd have the say the fabulous sex has been part of the package.

It's like an added taunt... here, have this great sex for one (or two, or three ;)) nights, but no... you can't have it all the time.

Certain events of the last few years have led to some fine tuning of my cunt radar too. But strangely, I still find them so fucking attractive ;)
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My cunt radar was wrong with the guy I am seeing now- he had the reputation of a total player, which is great for what I am after (ie NOT a relationship)...but then the sex was phenomenal and hes chasing me across the country for more! woo hoo. He ISNT a cunt!

Unfortunately the great sex comes with the whole "relationship" pricetag, but its well worth it. Hell be here in a few hours!

WOO HOOO!!

I think its spectacularly funny when you bring a full of himself asshole home expecting his "Im great in bed" attitude to be actually fact when he is totally crap. Thats only happened twice to me in the time I have been single. It still gives me a giggle thinking about it heeheee.
 
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