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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I think there needs to be a card you can put out for them after they fall asleep.
The "please collect your clothing and leave quietly before I wake up and things get uncomfortable" card.
I think that one would be yellow.

I guess it's the same as the brown one but comes out earlier.
 
^^^^ hahhahahah thats funny

yeah nobody wants to be back-catalogue girl .... id say i was washing my hair i am tha one .... :p :D
 
up all night said:
I wish a single girl could meet a single guy and ask them out somewhere with the other person immediately realising it's a friendship only that's wanted. I really can't find any easy way to do that.
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It may NOT be easy,but you have to use 'HONEST assertive communication' eg: Ask the person "Would you like to hang out as a friend on ............. at............. ?".

Hence,you are being honest about that you want to be "friends only",and assertively communicating what you want.



On another note.There is a book, I'm currently reading that some single people,(Including me of course ;) ) might find interesting,especially those new to be single and people feeling down about being single.It's called:-

Positively Single: The Art Of Being Single And Happy

by

Vera Peiffer



With chapters covering things such as: Why Are You Single? Negatives and Positives Of Being Single. Experiences Of Single People. Being At Home With Yourself. Abilities And Skills That Help. Etc,etc,etc.......................

;)
 
princess_kitti said:
^^^ sooooo what i need right now .... can i be rude and ask how much it was?
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No worries %) Good question,and don't worry I don't think it's rude to ask ;)

I've had it for a while 8o .I don't remember exactly how much it was :( ,it's softcover,would have been only about $20 or so from memory.It's $15.99 Canadian Dollars (written on the back of book,ha,ha,ha.............) if that helps.
 
I shouldn't talk about boys ringing up out of the blue at weird hours. Cos about an hour after I went to bed last night, I got a phone call... "whadya doin? wanna come over?" Errrrrr NO!

Then got to work to find a colleague got a 330am text asking did she feel like a root. I told her next time to reply, "yes I do actually, but not with you".


RE: asking someone to go for a drink just as friends, thats exactly how I say it....

"hey wanna go down the pub for a drink, nothing extravagant, just a couple of mates catching up on shit?"

Usually does the trick.
 
^ But what if it's someone you've only met once. You're not mates. There is no shit on which you need to catch up. And if a guy I just met sent me that, well... it's on par with 'xxx' at the end of a message. It's just weird.
 
Wacky said:
No worries %) Good question,and don't worry I don't think it's rude to ask ;)

I've had it for a while 8o .I don't remember exactly how much it was :( ,it's softcover,would have been only about $20 or so from memory.It's $15.99 Canadian Dollars (written on the back of book,ha,ha,ha.............) if that helps.
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thankyou :)

dating was so much easier before humans evolved and when we were living in the jungle and just wiggled our tooshies to impress each other .... i was talking about this with a friend yesterday ---- when everyone wore loin clothes it was have been obvious if either he was "up" for it or she was into it .... also im sure it wasn't considered bad social etiquette to whack someone over the head with a club if they didnt get the point and pee ooo hahahahahah =D

When did we humans get so complicated :p :D
 
Yeah.

We could have evolved ito be the same way as red-arsed baboon's... so there is a clear signal when someone is "up" for it.
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Evolved. To be more like a simian. I like it.

Don't you worry, even back in the days of loincloths, people would be second guessing signals.

"Was she wiggling at me or Grok? Maybe I can draw her a portrait on the cavewall.... no dammit man that is lame..."

Though even then there were twisted sickos who used the equivelent of Prehistoric Rohypnol....

A club.

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^^^ i love it!!! =D its really made my day

i was thinking more along the lines of the club being used as a means of rebuffing unwelcome advances hahah
 
For the singles thread, sorry it was a rhetorical question. Now I look at the other page, it looks like I was replying to that. Oops! :)

But actually, I could go a good clubbing.
 
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