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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I'm not a guy but I do stuff like that out of plain curiosity! I often lose contact with people who I actually really liked and then when I track down their number I end up not messaging due to the point I made earlier... ;)
 
Pop Popavich said:
Get yourself some pre-printed cards with your name and number on them, using different colours for different intentions.

A red card to mean "Here's my details, call me for a hot date with the potential for sex."

A green card for "You've passed the first round, you have my attention, but don't think you can stop trying to impress me yet."

And a blue card for "Give me a call sometime, you seem really interesting to talk to, but don't bother cancelling other dates or stocking up on condoms."

If everyone did this, imagine how much easier all of this could be. :)
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As long as you don't use the dreaded Handkerchief code, and no, please for the love of god don't ask me how i knew about the Handkerchief code
 
^ hehe yeah like I said in my last post, it's the reason I usually don't message/ call someone when I finally track down their number. That being said, I could make up a fake boyfriend or something.
 
MR Candyslut said:
I mean, surely, if it was just a booty call, he wouldn't go to all that trouble to get in contact with you??
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Depends how desperate he was.

By the sounds of it, he didn't go to a whole lot of trouble. He just went through his phone looking for the number of a hot girl who he had little enough contact with, that if she turned him down wouldn't turn ugly and embarrassing for him.

If it's been almost a year and he hasn't bothered keeping in contact for any kind of friendship, I'd say he's just trawling through his phone and trying his luck. This is obviously a bit different if you guys actually hit it off and he genuinly lost your number in the meantime, but it doesn't sound like it. :\
preacha said:
As long as you don't use the dreaded Handkerchief code, and no, please for the love of god don't ask me how i knew about the Handkerchief code
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I won't ask. I doubt the truth is as funny as imagining the different scenarios that resulted in this knowledge being thrust upon you... ;)
 
iamtha1- ahhhhhh yes I understand your frustration. I have this one fella who I used to hook up with, and then it kinda just fizzled out because of no particular reason, and well he never messages/rings me anymore...

...oh wait hang on he does! at 430am Thursday morning, at 6am Saturday morning, at 2am Tuesday morning, after having not heard from him in a few months.... WTF?! He swears to me (when I don't reply until a more decent hour with "what no hotties at the pub tonight?") he just wants to catch up, chat, be mates......yeah right, at that time? Call me at 4pm Friday arvo, and I'll meet you at the pub, and we can do what you reckon you intend to do, and if you play your cards right you still may even end up where you REALLY wanted to....but call me odd hours, when I never ever hear from you.... whatever...


Why is it that blokes (read ex boyfriends) think because I am thirty, and single, that I must be that desperate to have even the slightest hint of a male in my bed that I'm going to take their call at 4am on a Wednesday morning, and go "yeah, I'd love to have sex with you right now! Come to your house which is a 20 minute drive away and pick you up and bring you back to mine so I can get up a half hour earlier in the morning in order to drive you home before work? SURE! Wait, I'll be there in 25 minutes, I'll just change into my crotchless panties and matching red lace bra..."

(I have now taken to replying with "sorry, already had sex tonight"....not that I ever have had, but they don't need to know that!)
 
^^ hahahaha brilliant post toerag =D

yeah, i don't know, i think in iamtha1's case it would depend on the person. as popavich said, a booty call is pretty likely, but stranger things have happened than for him to actually genuinely want to catch up with you.

one reason for this (again, depends on the person) which i could identify with is if you meet someone and like them straight away, even if you get their number, often you feel too self-conscious or obvious to ask them out straight away, and then after waiting, the converse effect happens where you feel there's been too much water under the bridge to contact.

THEN, when your memory is jogged of the person sometime down the track, you feel sufficiently 'over' them to have more confidence to ask them out.

HAHAHA or maybe i am just fucked in the head ;)

edit: upallnight, i didn't read your post before i wrote this :\ aaaghh damn you woman!!!!! ;)
 
iamtha1 said:
After discussing with a guy friend who was like "Pretty much, he just wanted a booty call."
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which works in 2 ways. since he says "meh, dude just wanted a booty call", if he says it in a "pft, what a pathetic dude", the male friend actually gains respect notches

hence, closer to booty call status
 
preacha is trying to point out the guy iamtha1 consulted about the meaning of the SMS was playing the SNAG card as a ploy to get into her pants.

oh that preacha, he's so down with men and their games.
 
Admittedly, I have shunned this thread as I havent been too successful in figuring out how the mechanics in a male brain works but it has been an eye opener. What if blokes hand out coloured cards like pops suggestion and you receive one thats the red card- hot date plus sex. Does he then hand out another card at the end of this date:

BROWN for "you were a just a root, remove yourself from my stained sheets and disappear and if I ever see you again in public my eyes will glaze over as if I have never even met you before"

PURPLE for "I cant believe my luck- we connected so well I never want you to walk out that door unless its to move your stuff in"

ORANGE for "I cant quite decide if I like you or not but Ill keep you around as you dont shit me that much , at least until I find someone better".
 
^ You've put a lot of thought into that



This thread is making my brain hurt. I need to stop opening it :\
 
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Do we get to hand out the cards as well?? Then it can become some sort of matching game. If the cards match, then everyone is happy. If not, well... At least you know where you stand!!
 
i love this card system .... might use it when im in perth in the next couple of weeks ...

on that note .... is anyone here from Perth and wants to come party with a holidaying melbournian? cos i wanna go out while im over there ... but have no one to go with and don't know where to go :p :D
 
^or you could just use your mouth and speak, which would negate the need for me to carry around pieces of card made redundant by my mouth.
 
ok .... agreed .... cos then if its the bad card you don't have to waste time in crap conversation hahhahahahahah
 
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