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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I got a valentines day text message!!!

Made my day :D.

On valentines day, it made me happy seeing all the men buying flowers, and chicks walking around with cute little teddies and what-not.

Yes, it's commercial... but it's sweet. And I don't think people in relationships remind each other through acts of romantic service, that they love one-another enough [well, at least many don't].

It's a shame we need a date to celebrate chosen for us, but unfortunately many couples would neglect to do anything all year, if no-one bothered to set a date aside for them... :p
 
^^ yeah i was caught between thinking oh how sweet and oh pass me a gun or a bucket haha

Being in love is what i do best - im really quite good at it!! so Valentines day just serves to remind me im not doing what im good at hahahha
 
ergh.

My girlfriend broke up with me on Monday, and I don't know why i'm posting this on a message board, but it seems right :P

It's really strange being with someone for so long, then all of a sudden sort of being 'left out on your own'.

I had always imagined myself to be a very independant person, someone very comfortable in his own skin, but being with this girl showed me what it was like to share those loads, the worries, and the joys.

So I have to re-learn being single again, which sucks. I knew it wouldn't work with this girl, but it didn't stop me from enjoying and embracing the good bits.

So it goes...
 
breakyaself said:
NickyJ is easily one of the best looking guys I've ever met in my life. I want to have his babies :D
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haha nickyj get off breakyaself's computer.

I'm re-learning the joys of serious flirting. =D Although that does seem somewhat like an oxymoron.
 
Mr. Horse said:
ergh.

My girlfriend broke up with me on Monday, and I don't know why i'm posting this on a message board, but it seems right :P

It's really strange being with someone for so long, then all of a sudden sort of being 'left out on your own'.

I had always imagined myself to be a very independant person, someone very comfortable in his own skin, but being with this girl showed me what it was like to share those loads, the worries, and the joys.

So I have to re-learn being single again, which sucks. I knew it wouldn't work with this girl, but it didn't stop me from enjoying and embracing the good bits.

So it goes...
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Welcomes back Mr Horse with open arms :)

Sounds like you've got a really good attitude towards it...it will probably be hard for a little while but if you've already managed to put stuff in such good perspective, I don't think rediscovering the joys of the single life will be too far off for you.
 
*super hugs for horsey* babe...you're the hottest guy I know. Mourn for a few days then get back on the horse (so to speak) and re-learn the joys of flirting, leaving the toilet seat up and farting in bed without fear of being caught.

xx
 
ok usually i am the bright chirpy one ... but today i just feel sad and grumpy and lonely ...... sooooooo lonely :(

It seems that EVERYONE around me has a significant other .... and as happens when you're in a relationship - SO takes priority .... so im like "let's hang out" and they are all like "oh no i gotta see what (SO) is doing" and then cos their other half wants to stay home or whatever then we cant hang out

my hot date blew up in my face .... we'd mentioned hanging out and watching DVDs on the weekend - so i message the boy and he says yeah what a great idea --- then he says he is gonna bring his friend --- his friend "likes" me but im not the least interested .... so now im just like greeeeeaaaattt how crap is that

And my ex has just got a new girlfriend and after staying at my house the other night .... we didn't do anything but he accidentally told me he loved me the next day .... now proceeds to rub my nose in the fact that he is ecstatic with this girl and she's everything wonderful and good ..... and im like have some fucking consideration .... im coming down hardcore after two tribes :(

like what the fuck this single life sucks man hardcore
 
oh, two of my most favourite situations :|

the you like someone and their friend likes you thereby making the possibility of anything happening with the someone fairly unlikely (if they're loyal to some degree anyway, which i suppose, though annoying in this situation, is a fairly good quality to have ;))

AND

the ex-who-you-still-have-a-connection-with-but-not-enough-to-really-act-on-who-has-now got-a-new-partner-and-you-want-to-stab-both-of-them-even-though-you're-also-happy-for-them

Stay in there princess_kitti - you're an intelligent, strong, attractive girl, who has a great outlook on life - your happiness won't be far round the corner :)
 
princess_kitti: Listen to the ladies. They speak the truth. Just remember we all have bad days/weeks but you'll soon get back to enjoying your freedom again. <3 As for the stuff your ex was saying about his new girl, he sounds more like he's trying to convince himself and give himself the upper hand in the power play that is the 'post break up friendship'. Try not to take anything he says to heart.

I wish a single girl could meet a single guy and ask them out somewhere with the other person immediately realising it's a friendship only that's wanted. I really can't find any easy way to do that.
 
up all night said:
I wish a single girl could meet a single guy and ask them out somewhere with the other person immediately realising it's a friendship only that's wanted. I really can't find any easy way to do that.
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Get yourself some pre-printed cards with your name and number on them, using different colours for different intentions.

A red card to mean "Here's my details, call me for a hot date with the potential for sex."

A green card for "You've passed the first round, you have my attention, but don't think you can stop trying to impress me yet."

And a blue card for "Give me a call sometime, you seem really interesting to talk to, but don't bother cancelling other dates or stocking up on condoms."

If everyone did this, imagine how much easier all of this could be. :)
 
up all night said:
I wish a single girl could meet a single guy and ask them out somewhere with the other person immediately realising it's a friendship only that's wanted. I really can't find any easy way to do that.
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Word.

I wish prospective partners, in general, could decide on their exact feelings before one decides to fall in love with the other, thinking it is fully reciprocated.

That is, until they tell you 2 months later that the same feelings aren't there.:| :(

The ironic thing is, as i have recently realised, is you can never know how you feel about someone until you know them for an extended time. And usually, by that time, one of the parties has fallen head over heels in love ie me :(

AS everyone has said, the only thing that can ever help is time (as we all know). But that is, for me, the HARDEST thing to accept, that there is nothing you can conceivably do but wait. And try to stay busy. :-(
 
Popavich that's fantastic. When I discover a new world that's going to be one of the rules. Knowing me though, I'd get drunk and suddenly everyone gets a red card.
 
Pop Popavich said:
Get yourself some pre-printed cards with your name and number on them, using different colours for different intentions.

A red card to mean "Here's my details, call me for a hot date with the potential for sex."

A green card for "You've passed the first round, you have my attention, but don't think you can stop trying to impress me yet."

And a blue card for "Give me a call sometime, you seem really interesting to talk to, but don't bother cancelling other dates or stocking up on condoms."

If everyone did this, imagine how much easier all of this could be. :)
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Theres a club in Brisbane that does exactly this.
As soon as you walk in you get a one of three colours (by memory i think it might be a sticker you wear on your shirt)
made life so much easier.
brisbane people whats it called, cant remember its under where indie temple used ot be on edward st.
 
^^^ Maybe though, you're guy friend is wrong and he kinda likes you :-)

I mean, i know you said it was all pretty random but I would be flattered (and yes, also a bit freaked) if someone from a year ago tracked me down to say hello.

I mean, surely, if it was just a booty call, he wouldn't go to all that trouble to get in contact with you??

EDIT: Meant for Iamtha1
 
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