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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

but if you're in a relationship with the person, and they consistently refuse to acknowledge that they do have this side --- continue to maintain this charade of happiness, then yes, i do think it is faking.

of course there's nothing wrong with focussing on positive things, but that is different to NEVER being negative. i honestly believe there are very few people who fit into my "truly happy" category....most people at some stage of their lives go through trauma of some sort (contextualised to them - this could be a broken heart, death of a loved one etc) and i hate it (though i realise it's not necessarily their fault) that they refuse to acknowledge and express this.
 
haha true UAN, i'm more than happy to bring out my dark side :D

i guess i wasn't thinking of it in terms of a relationship issue. which is silly considering it's the singles thread.
 
Regarding the ALWAYS outwardly happy people:-

Many I know like this.If they are NOT faking,they tend to have NEVER taken a risk in their life EVER,NEVER challenge themselves.Only do things that are predictable,boring sure things and NEVER risk experience a negative out come.

I also wonder when some of these people,finally have all the built up and supressed sadness & anger.May lose it and SNAP!!!! :X ,just hope they have no gun or deadly weapon near them.It's ALWAYS happy and quiet one's you have to watch out for,ha,ha,ha,ha........................... 8o
 
I really don't think 'truly' happy people exist. Some people are just better then others at appearing less self-indulgent.

However, I need a couple of 'happy' people like that in my life to keep me going because I tend to fall into the cynical/aggressive stance. On everything. I generally can't see anything as entirely positive because I've analysed a possible solution from every angle and I take the realist point of view.

One of my good friends falls into the 'overally happy' category and although it's annoying sometimes, it's great for putting things into perspective. However, I was mistaken in thinking she didn't feel things as deeply, she admitted once that shes does but feels guilty in putting that burden on her friends so tries to remain positive. Made me feel really guilty for the burden that I put on my friends due to my complaining. 8( Oops.

Having said that, depressive negative people who don't try to help themselves out of their bad situations really shit me. I can empathise with your feeling the world is against you, and everything is negative blah blah blah but if you don't try to help yourself at all then you may as well be dead. Because you sure as hell ain't living.
 
Always happy people?? Its called Prozac.

I swear I turn up to work sometimes a bit too happy. Its like the suns not just shining its shining out of me or something.

Yah for the meds :S
 
Im over all this im single so i cant be happy talk!
mostly all of my friends in my group happen to be coupled off and they all seem to pitty me cos i dont have a b/f. I see all their petty fights and bullshit and im thankfull i can go out any night i want pick up any hottie i choose and dont have to worry about that shit.
ive been in relationships been verry happy in one and unhappy in some but all in all i know wat i want, im not afraid to wait and im making the most of my singledom while it lasts cos you never know when you will meet someone, be trapped in a relationship and miss the single life.
 
sydkiwi said:
Always happy people?? Its called Prozac.

I swear I turn up to work sometimes a bit too happy. Its like the suns not just shining its shining out of me or something.

Yah for the meds :S
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Is that what it does?
It's not what it did to my dad, that's for sure. But I think he was on Paxil. (To very hazy memory.)

Oh and this is a few weeks late but Lisa gave me the breakup call a few weeks ago so I'm back in this thread. I was actually quite glad that I didn't have to do it because it was doomed from the start. I would have at least waited until I saw her again. I think she started seeing someone else.

On the current topic, she was one of those depressive types and while initially very intriguing because of it, we got bored of each other quickly. However I disagree with this:

word up to depressives being interesting.

frustrating, yes
infuriating, yes
do you head in, oh yes

but yeah, they're definitely interesting
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Mostly because she was past the age of doing people's heads in. Mine at least.
 
For me its not about happy Vs sad. its about energy.

So often i see 'permanently depresed' types that are essentially just energy vampires.
They piss and moan: 'pay attention to me and my horrible life'
Well guess what fucktard, its hard for everybody and your type make it worse.

Your opposite types are people that realise that you get energy back from constructive persuits (time spent on both yourself and others) and are people i will give the time of day to.

Oh, i should point out that I am a happy person and i will cut anybody who says different =D

btw, who's up for sex? :\
 
I'm definitely not permanently happy but i'm a very positive person. I have my ups and downs like everyone else but i'm always looking for the positives in every situation.

I am not faking anything, I acknowledge when I feel shit and I embrace it but I don't dwell on it.

It's those self centred, depressed, eternally negative fuck wits that give me the shits. Always playing the victim, bitching and moaning about why life is so bad and how nothing ever pans out right for them. Either do something about it or SHUT THE FUCK UP.

No-one wants to spend all their time with a negative person. Sure you'll enjoy their company when you are also depressed but as soon as you get happier there's no way you wanna be hanging round that buzzkill.

I don't like ignorantly happy people.

I know the world is fucked up but I find that it's beautiful in it's own ways. All the messed up shit that happens teaches us lessons in some ways. I'm not big on whingers, get over it.

Adikkal
 
I consider myself to be a very happy person. Some things will agitate me but meh, the only thing you can control in life is yourself and your actions/thoughts so those things go away rather quick :)
 
m4dd0g said:
For me its not about happy Vs sad. its about energy.

So often i see 'permanently depresed' types that are essentially just energy vampires.
They piss and moan: 'pay attention to me and my horrible life'
Well guess what fucktard, its hard for everybody and your type make it worse.

Your opposite types are people that realise that you get energy back from constructive persuits (time spent on both yourself and others) and are people i will give the time of day to.

Oh, i should point out that I am a happy person and i will cut anybody who says different =D

btw, who's up for sex? :\
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OH MY GOD you summed it up perfectly!!

i just don't have time for people like this .... i want them out of my life NOW!!!!

i've had a few people in my life who are like this over the past year and i just don't have time for them anymore. i will do anything to get out of seeing them .... last year .... i took a few of them under my wing to try and heal them and make them happy .... i just ended up running myself into the dirt cos they sapped all my beautiful positive energy away

and GUESS WHAT --- they LOVE being unhappy and bitching and moaning ... they LOVE having someone patting them on the back and sympathising with thier disgusting attitude

i wish they would all make like lemmings and jump off a cliff ..... hahahahahahahahhahahahaha =D

*starts evilly plotting to rid the world of negatives*
 
^^ yeah but i couldn't help but dance back in cos its soooo much fun :p
and i could barely step out of a conversation i started hehe

hey, yeah - shorza - what are you doing here? me so confused right now :\

i am going to stay single till i can find someone who can keep up with me in every way.... till then i am going to be as freeeee as a jaybird :D
 
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