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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

im definitely not the no sex before marriage kinda person.
but i cant see myself walking out of here until i find the chick ill marry, and it really doesnt bother me how far away that is.
I dont see point in a developing a relationship unless i really want to take it somewhere apart from sex!
 
just had a thought *waits for the gasps to stop*

first summer I've had single for 3 years ...

oh yes! =D
 
^ Definitely! It also has to do with luscious tans, a more active lifestyle and it being too hot to eat anything other than salad. ;)

Yaaaaay CB!! I sure will miss watching your humparific antics in The Bank though.
 
its bn 2 yrs, and 2 b honest i just cant b bothered
i dont nd 2 b made 2 feel guilty evrytime i want 2 b alone or told i luv 'that horse' more than him - one nite stands r easier
if the rite one comes along tho im still waiting here
 
holy cow...i go away and suddenly hell freezes over and CB gets a man.

nice one sexy man!!
 
*Update* - still single, what a surprise! :p

Current potentials to break streak = 2

Number One, I would be the rebound guy.. Not really a good thing

Number Two, Dont really hear from her, unless I make first contact. But seems keen to do something..

*shrugs*
 
I'm still single. I guess,if it happens,it happens..........

Just currently trying to be the best person I can be,living life and having fun ;) .

Single On! =D
 
Earthcore main floor circa 8am Sunday morning:

Cutish boy wanders up next to me, smiles and says hello. I suspect the look on my face must have been along the lines of a grimace (yay meth & vodka comedown). He tells me to cheer up. I say I'm feeling like shit. He asks how my night's been. I respond with a declaration that now is about the time I swear off smoking meth once again. Yes, well, he says, I guess I'll see you later then. He walks away.

No wonder I'm single ;)
 
[QUOTE='lil leecie]holy cow...i go away and suddenly hell freezes over and CB gets a man.

nice one sexy man!![/QUOTE]

Yep its pretty damn chilly here at the moment...

But everything is still looking peachy :)

CB :)
 
argh, the smile comment.... i give funny looks that i'm not aware of all the time. i know this beacause my friends have told me numerous times (much to my misfortune) but there is nothing more that pisses me off than when some random guy comes up to me after a long night out and says, 'smile...!'. i always think to myself: 'maybe i would smile if you pissed off and died, eh?'.

how nice am i, ay? where's the plur?! =D;)
 
^ no i so agree.

worst in when you're at work or obviously doing something completely hideous (like sitting on public transport or waiting in a queue) and some fucktard says "smile, it can't be that bad" or something of that ilk. it's like - of cousre you would say that you irritating dickhead, because you're not in the same situation, and even if you were, you clearly get off on sadisitic things like telling people to smile so you'd probably ENJOY queueing.

fuckers =D

aren't we all lovely friendly people?


since i'm in the singles thread, good time to say that, yes, i'm still single. and wouldn't you know it....this male subject of this (see below) post, that i wrote at the beginning of the year IS STILL FUCKING GIVING ME GRIEF! :X

after not seeing him for months after a messy messy build up and an even messier rejection, as soon as we start hanging out together the sparks fly. i've resigned myself that he doesn't know he's doing it and subconsciously does it for the ego boost. if it was anyone but him i'd cut him the fuck off. why does it have to be one of my closest friends who i can't imagine life without?

fuck it all :(
Mary Poppins said:
^ dispensible is the word you're looking for. indispensible is what you want to be ;):)

if someone is a 23 year old virgin who pretty much has never had a "proper" girlfriend and the last person they kissed [and almost lost their virginity to] was you [me] which was over a year ago.

and you didn't speak to each other for 9 months but as soon as you start being friends again the sexual tension is back and you spend heaps of time together and flirt like crazy and occasionally hold hands when you're out and drunk.

then what does it mean?????

to all intents and purposes we are a couple, but i have NO IDEA what the fucker thinks. He's so emotionally stunted and is relaly underconfident [even though he's a golden boy].

i don't get it :(:(:(:(

i'm too scared to bust moves becuase there's so much at stake and i don't want to get rejected.
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^^ Ahh yes, the friend. Always the complicated situation as one usually likes the other more. It annoys me when people are inept at discussing their feelings, sometimes I feel like it's almost too easy for me to talk about exactly how i'm feeling.

Curious when you start to see your ex again, after shutting her out for the sake of finality and you realise how good you really DO have it with each other. Discussions are had, realisations are made, things are made known that were not known before and the idea of reconciliation appears plausible, yet is it possible?

The idea of shutting her out again seems ridiculous. It seems foolish to throw away such a great connection just so you can wade through the multitude of shallow bullshit in the hopes of finding another that compares. The mind says... just go with the flow and see what happens, deal with it all as it comes.
 
^ such a tough call.

in those situations i've always got to wonder though, is that the inherent laziness kicking in. sure, it does seem like a waste to throw away a greater connection etc but then you've got to i guess think long and hard about WHY you broke up in the first place (and not just the trigger for the end of it, but what else you didn't enjoy about the r/ship) and try to balance that against the attraction you've got for the person, plus the ever present bias towards being with someone, over being single.

i'm not entirely against giving things another chance (particularly like in this case, where you say certain things have been brought to light only now) but i've seen so many couples fall into this break up/get together/break up trap.....love isn't always enough :\ if you're not compatible as people, it's not gonna work, or rather, you're not going to be happy.
 
Shnouzerpuff said:
I have spent the last 4 hours canoodling and such with my ex.
She smelt nice.
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^^ From 21/7/05


I say give it a crack Addikal.

I know how everyone is always saying to forget the ex and "never go back," but I posted that way back on page 108. Even though both of us initially were really hesitant to let down our guard in light of our history over a year ago we are still seeing each other now.

If you get along well with someone, don't let a common and ordinary personal rule prevent you from being with someone uncommon and extraordinary :D

I feel I am now qualified to impart such knowledge and wisdom since I am now a fully fledged member of the *Sickeningly-Sweet-Couple Team, as opposed to my previous star position in the **Jaded And Bitter Solo Squad.

*Admittance to the Sickeningly-Sweet-Couple Team requires you to have a number of personal jokes with your s/o that no-one else gets, as well as a guaranteeed partner for group games of Trivial Pursuit.

**Admittance to the Jaded And Bitter Solo Squad requires you to have a high postcount in this thread, Dinner-For-One reservations at restaurants and a deep hatred for Meg Ryan movies.

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MP - that sounds like one complicated headfuck :( I hope that it sorts itself out somehow.
 
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