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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

ok ok ok ok

i'm procrastinating ++ tonight, so i'll get this thread back to its origins...which were nowhere near (i hope) mini-muzby :\

eerrrrr...

hmmm...has to be something suitably emo enough i guess.....:p

ok...if any of us single puppies were to suddenly jettison ourselves into that whirlwind like phenomonen of a r/ship - what would you like to think that you'd remember from your single days in order to not become someone you'd hate if you met them???

i'd choose to take the invaluable knowledge that 1 + 0 can still = happy....that even if you're sharing your life with someone, doesn't mean they have to share every part (MY LIFE!!!) and if they're not there...hey guess what? doesn't mean you have to sit there and make puppy-dog eyes at your phone waiting for them to call, you can go out with yes, your friends...and then maybe spend some quality alone time...yup...
:)
 
MP good work! That was one thing I found when I moved from S-land to R-land. I had been single for so long that I didnt want to give up a lot of the things I had become accustomed to in my own little world. I had to adjust to sharing my personal space and my personal time. However I made sure I was always conscious to still do things with my friends on my own and that my life didnt revolve around my s/o, rather that having them in my life adds something special. I dont sit by the phone waiting for him to call and I dont pine away when we are apart. Best advise I can possibly think of to give to anyone moving from S to R is to remain your own person!

Also that as a girl you should remember to order bigger meals cos they will steal everything off your plate and that means sometimes having to eat really fast if you want to get any of it ;)
 
I found the transition really easy actually. The main things to keep in mind are that you now share your OWN lives with each other, you don't just live one collective life. Also please don't become those cutesey wutesy cuddlepot and snugglepie fuck nuts saying "i love you, no i love YOU!" every 2 secs. It's alright if you wanna be all cutesy when your both alone but for fucks sake don't put that in everyones face because no-one really wants to see that.

I still see my friends enough but when you and your partner both lead busy lifestyles you can usually only see each other on the weekends which coincidentally is when you'd usually see your mates. You have to make time for both.

Adikkal
 
Ok my transition,
Basically before I got into a relationship I think I felt like I owned this town, (Sydney)
Knew the right people (and sometimes hung out with drunk fuckwits... aka oboe) so I could get into really cool places... I was kinda a wank
Now im in a relationship, I know fucking nobody!!! I go out and everything is too loud, or fuckin Ugly, and when I rip on them I have someone telling me that that isnt very nice....
Also my group used to be cool when everyone was single, now everyone in my group has like paired off and its therefore inevitable who everyone is going home with... Fuck I miss the days where I used to think I could actually get laid if I pulled the right moves.... (yes I'm a wank but thats why the five people I hung around with liked me.... oh and because I bought beer and stuff)

Writing this message I just got a sappy message from my girlfriend and wrote back something even more sappy something about love you *insert number* plus 2... Take my advice hate on people like me... and Elise... She used to be cool as well... but now she is in love and is heaps boring... the only way she can get back at me is to call me whipped.... Thats also something that fuckin irritates me about people in relationships is that they get heaps defensive about being in them and not seeing their friends and so to combat the problem they like come out once, and ooooooohhhh everyone has to like bow down and go wow they came out and shit.... fuckers... and then they get all shitty when you like didnt speak to them all night because you have fuck all to do with them anymore cause you dont wanna talk about the loveable SO and cant hold a conversation about how great being a fuckin auditor is or some lameass PC nerd, you just wanna get heaps drunk, talk shit with louis and jump into bushes, followed by wearing popcorn bowls on your head like a world war one digger going over the top... But you cant because your S/O (as Leecie calls it or R-Land partner) might get the shits with you... sure it isnt going to be like that time at Broadway with One guy jumping all around the place trying to fuck everyone and his ex girl friend crying in the corner too self obsessed to realise that "Fuck Backo actually landed a pretty fuckin sexy bitch" even though its not going to be like that its still going to be somewhat messy.

So yeah I reckon your answer is just to break stuff and just hate on everyone.
 
I was about to say it's probably because you're being overly arrogant and have nothing to back it up, but keej seems to have a better idea of whats happening and put it much more eloquently.

oh, wait. You seem horribly insecure.

thats all
 
haha ahhh Backo. You're a complete fuckstick but that post made me laugh for some sadistic reason. =D And if you're bored because you know who everyone is going home with then I'll let you and Louis go home together next time we go out so I can get my hands on your 'pretty fuckin sexy bitch'.

PS Next time I see you I'll give you a medal for landing a girlfriend.
 
atm,
single = bored + sexually frustrated.

Oh, and the shininess on life that kind of reflected the light so that you couldn't see the pointlessness of it all is gone too. Thats the part I really miss. :(
 
For myself,I've had a life changing experience recently.
I've basically been really sick and was in hospital for 2 weeks.

So,at the moment I'm just taking things as they come,trying NOT to take life for granted.

I'm single,have been for a while and of course would like to meet a nice girl.But,will take things as they come NOW, and try to be happy with things I do have.

Anyway,that's my current situation and feelings on being single.How is every other single person going and feeling? ;)
 
Backo, funny as hell .. no idea what any of it meant

Im loving being single.
The shininess is making my eyes bleed.

I did however have a question for the assembled wisdom of the singles thread:
Is sleeping with a close friend bad?
Assuming a complete understanding that you arent going to get together and that the friendship is the most important thing.

This has happened to me a few times in the past.
Each time we've ended up better friends (sometimes after a bonk buddy period) - or so it seemed to the my nieve man eyes. :\

Anyone have similar stories?
 
For some random reason (I do stupid impulsive things when I'm drunk) instead of asking the girl I've been interested in for a while out, I asked her friend out, while the girl I'm interested in was dancing.

Now her friend already has a boyfriend (I had no idea), so that didn't work, so I'm kind of at a loss as to how I'm going to engineer this so I don't look like a dick if I actually ask the girl I'm interested in out.

Haha, oh well, maybe a little bit of time will patch it over :)

I've really got to learn to keep drunk me in order...
 
lostpunk5545 said:
For some random reason (I do stupid impulsive things when I'm drunk) instead of asking the girl I've been interested in for a while out, I asked her friend out, while the girl I'm interested in was dancing.

Now her friend already has a boyfriend (I had no idea), so that didn't work, so I'm kind of at a loss as to how I'm going to engineer this so I don't look like a dick if I actually ask the girl I'm interested in out.

Haha, oh well, maybe a little bit of time will patch it over :)

I've really got to learn to keep drunk me in order...
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awww....

i don't really understand why you did it, but awww anyway, because i sympathise totally with the whole presenting the complete opposite message of what you intended part :\

just make sure that you let the "real" girl know that you were interested in her all along, and that she doesn't think she's the "2nd resort". :)

good luck
 
potato said:
atm,
single = bored + sexually frustrated.

Oh, and the shininess on life that kind of reflected the light so that you couldn't see the pointlessness of it all is gone too. Thats the part I really miss. :(
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Ah dude, I didn't know. I'm sorry to hear it...
 
YaY it feels good to be single again...

After not being in a relationship for 3 years.. then to get involved in someone, who was Obsesed in me was way way too much !

Honestly Ill'd love to be in a relationship with someone.. but Ill'd like them, as in me, to actually make time to have a relationship..

Im such a Busy person, with so many things in my life underway.. i never could find any time to spend with her !

And i actually found out that i didnt want to spend time with her.. i really should of got to know her a lil bit better before jumping in the deep end !

I guess im just a Lonley independent !

Oh yea BTW she hated drugs.. and i was like 8o !

peace out

Dialated665
 
In answer to maddogs questions Is sleeping with a close friend bad?

Im going to say yes because one party always falls for the other party. You talk, your'e awesome friends then you have sex which is awesome why wouldn't you assume that a relationship is a good idea then wham the other person thinks its a bad idea. You start dating someone else the friend gets jealous and wham friendship is ruined.
 
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